Sandra Kay Gray

Sandra Kay Gray obituary, Excelsior Springs, MO

Sandra Kay Gray

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5951 MO-10, Excelsior Springs, MO 64024

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14

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11:00 a.m.

Hidden Valley Funeral Home Of Excelsior Springs

5951 MO-10, Excelsior Springs, MO 64024

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Mar

14

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Hillcrest Cemetery

197 S McCleary Rd, Excelsior Springs, MO 64024

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Sandra Gray Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Hidden Valley Funeral Home of Excelsior Springs on Mar. 10, 2026.
Sandra Kay Gray, 84, of Excelsior Springs, Missouri, passed away peacefully on March 7, 2026, at Liberty Hospital. Born on April 18, 1941, in Ray County, Missouri, Sandra was the youngest of nine children of Reuben and Nora Shelton. Growing up with three brothers and five sisters, she was surrounded by a large, loving family; all of her siblings preceded her in death. She leaves behind nieces and nephews who will forever cherish her memory.

Sandra spent her entire life in the Excelsior Springs community she cherished. She attended Excelsior Springs Schools and later began her working years at Whitaker Cable. She eventually found her calling in banking, beginning as a teller at Excelsior Trust Bank. Over the years, she became a familiar and friendly face at the drive-thru window, faithfully serving customers through numerous name changes until the branch closed. She retired from Bank of America, leaving behind many fond memories among coworkers and customers alike.

Outside of work, Sandra found joy in life's simple and beautiful moments. She loved tending to her flowers and working outdoors, creating small havens of color and peace around her home. Later in life, she discovered a talent for painting and grew into a skilled and expressive artist, adding yet another layer to her creativity and warmth.

Sandra married Richard Rogers on June 23, 1956, and together they raised two daughters, Schranda (Bob) Griffin and Shelvina Turner. In time, Sandra met and married Richard Gray-before the heartbreaking loss of her daughter Shelvina on July 31, 1985. Through life's joys and sorrows, Sandra remained strong.

Sandra's legacy lives on through her loving family which also includes: four grandchildren- Julie (Alan) Propheter, Joshua (Samantha) Griffin, Jacob Griffin, and Amy (Adam) Hall; seven great-grandchildren; and six great-great-grandchildren.

Her presence will be deeply missed, but her spirit will continue to shine brightly through each generation she leaves behind.

Funeral services will be held at Hidden Valley Funeral Home of Excelsior Springs, 5951 MO-10, Excelsior Springs, MO on Saturday, March 14, 2026, with visitation beginning at 10:00 a.m., followed by the service at 11:00 a.m. A graveside service will follow.

Sandra will be remembered for her kindness, creativity, resilience, and the steadfast love she shared with her family. Her memory will forever remain a blessing.

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Upcoming Events

Mar

14

Visitation

10:00 a.m.

Hidden Valley Funeral Home Of Excelsior Springs

5951 MO-10, Excelsior Springs, MO 64024

Send FlowersBook nearby hotels

Mar

14

Funeral service

11:00 a.m.

Hidden Valley Funeral Home Of Excelsior Springs

5951 MO-10, Excelsior Springs, MO 64024

Send FlowersBook nearby hotels

Mar

14

Graveside service

Hillcrest Cemetery

197 S McCleary Rd, Excelsior Springs, MO 64024

Send FlowersBook nearby hotels

Only 2 days left for delivery to next service.