Shelby Jean Dye

Shelby Jean Dye obituary, Gastonia, NC

Shelby Jean Dye

Shelby Dye Obituary

Visit the Benson Funeral & Cremation Services website to view the full obituary.

Shelby Jean Dye, 86, of Gastonia, NC,  passed away on November 18, 2025, at her residence. She was born on December 18, 1938, in Graham County, North Carolina, to the late Annie Faye Brock Slaughter.

Shelby was a loving mother and grandmother. She is survived by her daughters, Rene Porch, Annette Saunders, and Amanda Wilson, as well as five grandchildren and five great-grandchildren who will carry on her legacy of love and kindness.

Throughout her life, Shelby had a passion for travel, sharing many adventures with her late husband, Ray. Their journeys together were marked by their shared love for exploration and discovery. Additionally, Shelby had a profound compassion for animals in need, always seeking to lend a helping hand to those less fortunate.

Known for her fairness and kindness, Shelby easily made connections with those around her, often brightening their days with thoughtful cards sent through the mail. Her ability to make others feel cherished and valued will forever be remembered by her family and friends.

Shelby Jean Dye leaves behind a lasting legacy of love, compassion, and adventure, and she will be deeply missed by all who had the privilege of knowing her.

Graveside services will be held privately by her family.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Benson Funeral & Cremation Services

101 Oak Grove St., Mount Holly, NC 28120

Make a Donation
in Shelby Dye's name

How to support Shelby's loved ones
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Poems of Mourning and Comfort

The best poems for funerals, memorial services., and cards.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
How to Cope With Grief

Information and advice to help you cope with the death of someone important to you.

Read more
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
Ways to honor Shelby Dye's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more