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It is with deep sadness that we announce the passing of Stephen Paul Aldi, 60, of Scotia, NY on June 12, 2025. Steve was surrounded by the love of his family at the time of his passing.
Stephen Paul Aldi was born in Niskayuna, NY on July 20, 1964. He was the son of Barbara and Paul Aldi. Stephen was preceded in death by his father, Paul Aldi. He is survived by his wife, Felicia, his children Christopher and Julian (Emily), his mother Barbara, his sister Lenore Aldi-Snow, his niece Cecilia Snow-Kelley (Zackary), and his nephews Geoffrey and Brendan Snow.
Steve graduated from Scotia-Glenville High School in 1982, then continued his education attending SUNY Schenectady. He was employed by the State of New York Office of General Services in Albany, NY. In addition, Steve previously owned the "Rhythm Section," a music store in the village of Scotia.
Steve was a devoted father, son, brother, husband and friend. He was a cherished member of the local music community and beyond. Steve was a proud member of various bands and groups which include: the Alan Payette Band, Big Block Blues Band, Ernie Williams Band, Capital Region Blues Network, and many more. His passing has left a void in the hearts of his family, friends, and the many others whose lives were touched by him. We ask that you remember him for the way he lived and for the profound impact Steve had on the lives of those who experienced the pleasure of knowing him.
Steve was passionate about so many things: his family and friends, the New York Yankees, cars, boating, car races, music, motorcycles, his dogs, and cooking. No one who met Steve could forget his talent, infectious belly laugh, sense of humor, his kindness, and generosity. His heart was full of love, pride and absolute joy for Christopher and Julian ~ always.
Calling hours will be held on Wednesday, June 18, 2025, from 4:00-8:00 PM, at Townley & Wheeler Funeral Home, 21 Midline Road, Ballston Lake, N.Y. 12019, (518) 399-5022 / townleywheelerfh.com.
A Celebration of Life will be held on Thursday, June 19, 2025, from 11:00 AM-12:00 PM, at Christ's Church Albany, 181 Western Avenue, Albany, N.Y. 12203.
In lieu of flowers, please consider making a donation to support the Crohn's & Colitis Foundation in finding a cure. More information can be found at www.crohnscolitisfoundation.org.
Or, please consider making a donation to the Capital Region Blues Network to support blues music, education, programs, and artists, capitalregionbluesnetwork.org. To send flowers to the family or plant a tree in memory of Stephen, please visit our floral store.
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
Greg Cortelyou
July 24, 2025
Don Engel
July 14, 2025
Rest easy Steve. Life would be easier if birth certificates came with an expiration date. I glad to know yours was lived richley and fully with the love of family and friends. May God grant your family peace and solice knowing how well you loved them.
Eddie Brush
July 14, 2025
Happy birthday in heaven to a fine dude, gone way too soon. When we hear thunder in the skies, we know its you laying down a heavy Bass riff for all of us to enjoy !! Rock on dude !! fstedd
Linda Loeber
July 14, 2025
Stephen and I shared the same birthday many years apart. He made a point to reach out to me on or about our birthday with a visit, text or phone call. I will miss is kindness on our shared day and every day. Linda Loeber
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Sonia Nicholas
June 24, 2025
With deep sympathy to Aldi family our prayers are with you. Your friend from the neighborhood love Sonia Nicholas
Susie Paulson Bidwell
June 23, 2025
Steve was a beloved friend of our entire family . Always kind, gracious and full of life and humor . A musical force of creativity and passion . He was a blessing to every member of my family at one point or another. He will be sincerely missed by the Paulson clan . Our hearts go out to all his friends and family , prayers are with you and our hearts too . Prayers for Steve to be happy at the big Jamm session in the sky ! Until next time Steve shine on !!!
Maria R
June 21, 2025
Dear Felicia, I was shocked and saddened by Steve´s passing! A friend since middle school and so smart and kind. His smile lite up the room always!! He was a person that always made you feel like you were the most important person in the room. His demeanor never changed. He was a special person that stayed true to himself even after he became famous. I always felt blessed when I ran into him. Especially when I saw him on stage at Harvey´s on the Boulevard very unexpectedly decades ago. Proud of him owning Rhythm Section. Grateful that he had you Felicia. Praying for him, you, and your family. Maria R
M. MiglioreKessler
June 21, 2025
I was so sad to hear of Steve´s passing. He was such a talented man. My daughter took drum lessons at the Rhythm Section and while I waited we always chatted and caught up as we went to High School together. My prayers go out to his family. May he rest in peace. M. Migliore
BJ FitzGerald
June 20, 2025
I played with Steve for many years in the Alan Payette Band- he was, for me, a mentor as much as a friend. A consummate professional, Steve always brought the right energy to every project he worked with. His talent was unquestionable, but what always mattered more to me was his willingness to help anyone around him. He was, in short, one of the good guys, and I´ll miss him terribly.
Eddie Brush
June 18, 2025
One of Scotias finest. Gone but never forgotten. RIP "Thumper ". When a band plays at Freedom Park, we know you´re listening !! Prayers and blessings to all those who he left behind.
Sharon
June 18, 2025
Barbara,
I was so shocked to see that Stephen has passed. My heart goes out to you. Sharon Opiela
Debbie Jackson
June 18, 2025
Felicia and family Steve was a great man, friend and a wonderful human being. I have so many fond memories of the times we shared together. I´ll miss him tremendously. He always spoke about the love and his commitment to his family. My blessed prayers are with him and your family and that his soul is at peace in heaven. With love and sympathy Keith and Deb Jackson
Doug Klein
June 17, 2025
That cat can swing! Steve was a joy to be around, on and off stage. Glad I ran into him to chat just a few weeks ago on his motorcycle. He said he had been laid up, Glad I got so say, "Love ya buddy."
The Loeber family
June 17, 2025
The Loeber family our hearts are broken. We all loved Steven. Prayers and love to his family especially his Mom and boys. He will be forever missed.
Art Pierce
June 17, 2025
I taught drums at The Rhythm Section for years. To say that Steve was a great human would be a profound understatement. I will miss him tremendously.
I thought I´d share something Steve told me back in 2006, right before I moved to NC.
We were standing out in front of the shop when Steve pointed at a FedEx truck and asked me if I could see the arrow between the E and the X. I had never noticed it before that. Steve said to me "There you go. Now, every time you see the arrow, you´ll think of your friend."
I still do.
Rest in peace, my friend.
Suzee B Finlayson
June 17, 2025
Where can I begin , I think Steve O would love a joke or sarcasm here but all I can say Is I loved him totally and unconditionally like family, he was easy to know and his kindness went beyond most humans. Musically we played together as close friends , we worked together and we laughed together. We had secret names for all of life´s quirks that only best friends share. As the years moved on we grew apart starting families and traveling new roads. You will always be remembered as one of the BEST. Xoxo
Janie Bridges
June 17, 2025
To Christopher and family. I am so sorry for your loss of your dad. My prayers are with you and your family at this time of mourning. Sending healing prayers and comfort during this time of pain. I know there are no words that can ease the pain. Just know that you have are in my prayers.
Greg Cortelyou
June 16, 2025
My heart is crying. It is my honor to have known Steve Aldi and to have had the opportunity to play with him over the years.
We worked together in so many different musical settings. Whenever Steve arrived on the gig he instantly filled the room with his big smile and his big bass sound! As a drummer I could always relax and play my best knowing Steve was on the gig - he had amazing facility on the bass, was always listening and would never sacrifice solid groove for playing something flashy or out of context. He had a distinctive sound which was rich, warm, full and very funky!
I was also lucky to work with Steve at his local store in Scotia teaching drum lessons during summer months. The "Rhythm Section" was a place the local community musicians could buy great instruments and gear, get needed support, take-music lessons and hang-out with other great musicians.
Steve touched so many of our lives with his gentle spirit.
I will miss him forever.
Greg Cortelyou
Carl clark
June 16, 2025
We sure had a lot of fun over the years, ice racing, electric city flat track races, going to malta friday nights for car races, all the bands you played in, im going to miss you a lot , we did some crazy stuff in our younger years, rest in peace , buddy
Joseph P. Casella
June 16, 2025
Steve was a great person and makes me sad that he is gone.
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