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Stephen Toolen Obituary

Toolen, Stephen, Sr.

74, of Columbia, IL, born Aug. 5, 1949, died on Wed, October 11, 2023. Stephen was retired from the U.S. Government. After his retirement he went to work as a custodian for the Columbia School District. He was a member of St. Paul Lutheran Church in Columbia.

He was preceded in death by his parents, Thomas and Emilie, nee Levy, Toolen; seven siblings, Thomas Toolen, Kitty Pisciotta, Jackie Toolen, Jean Linhares, Danny Toolen, Kevin Toolen, and Mickie Pruitt.

Surviving are his wife of 47 years, Gale Toolen, nee Ritter; his children, Heather (Scott) Heck of and Stephen (Biancia) Toolen, Jr.; four siblings, Mary Rose (Dennie) Fischer, Patti Kratschmer, Michael Toolen, and Terry Toolen, seven grandchildren, Xander and Abbey Heck and Gianni, Brantley, Skylar, Declan, and Lennox Toolen; and an aunt, Ginna Brazill. He was also a dear brother-in-law, uncle, cousin, and friend.

Services: Visitation 3 to 6 p.m. Tues., October 17, 2023, Braun Funeral Home, Columbia, IL. Funeral 6 p.m. at the funeral home. Private cremation will follow.

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Published by St. Louis Post-Dispatch on Oct. 15, 2023.

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leisa l. asselmeier

January 21, 2025

I remember when steve would be riding the tractor on the Ritter farm. I thought he looked as if he was enjoying it.

leisa L. Asselmeier

October 7, 2024

He was a quiet, nice guy after all those years in government. He'd run in those Toolen athletic shoes from the Toolen shoe store. It didn't matter who was on the phone--he was nice.

leisa l. asselmeier

October 24, 2023

gale I'm sorry I couldn,t be there--but my heart goes out to you. I heard about steve's death from judy -- was everyone notified by facebook? judy said steve looked like his father in the casket. can we do lunch sometime when you're better?

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