Steven Ryan Mallory

It is with profound sadness that we announce the passing of Steven Ryan Mallory, who left us at the age of 38. Ryan was a devoted father and co-parent with Nichole Mallory to their beloved daughters, Reya and Remi, whom he cherished with all his heart. As a dedicated "girl dad," he found immense joy and pride in every moment spent with Reya and Remi from bedtime madness, princess parties, adventures, exploring nature and endless cuddles.
Ryan was an avid learner and a passionate teacher, known for his unwavering commitment to his students. He had a unique ability to see potential in all students, earning their respect and admiration through his charismatic personality and genuine love of history. His sense of humor, intelligence, and curiosity made him a beloved figure in the classroom and beyond. Middletown High School was Ryan's professional haven, a place he truly loved. Ryan was blessed to build a community of people throughout Connecticut who over time became a family away from home.
A true entertainer at heart, Ryan had an innate ability to make people laugh, tell a captivating story, or break into a dance. He even made an MTV appearance through a reality show. Ryan loved engaging with people no matter the circumstance, continuously seeking opportunities for connection.
Ryan was a loyal friend, confidant, and wingman. He had a remarkable ability to uplift others, making them feel like the most important person in the world. He gave great advice and reminded us to always be grateful, living by this principle even when times were tough.
While Ryan lived in Connecticut for the past 19 years, he remained deeply connected with his family back in Cincinnati, which was always home for him. He regularly brought Reya and Remi to Cincinnati to share his family traditions. Ryan comes from a large extended family who looked forward to every visit and adored his girls. He was an "all weather" fan of the Reds and Bengals, sharing game-time superstitions with his dad and trying to convert New England fans to his Cincinnati teams. Ryan and his mom talked every day, sharing both important and mundane moments. He stayed closely connected with his sisters and gave enough love to his family to last a lifetime in his 38 years.
Ryan's legacy will live on through the countless lives he touched with his kindness, wisdom, and zest for life. He will be deeply missed by his family, friends, students, and all who had the privilege of knowing him.
Rest easy, Ryan. Your humor, spirit, and love will forever remain in our hearts.
A Memorial Service will be held 5:30pm Friday, July 5th at the Middletown High School 200 La Rosa Lane Middletown, CT 06457. There will also be a Memorial Mass in Cincinatti end of July with more details to come.