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Terry Holcombe
June 5, 2023
Terry M. Holcombe, died on June 5, 2023 at Yale New Haven Hospital, the same hospital in which he was born. He was surrounded by his loving family. He was 81.
A proud East Haven, CT, native who was Captain of the East Haven High School football team and All State football, '59 , Terry matriculated at Yale University class of 1964. After graduating, he earned a master's degree from the Tufts University Fletcher School of Law and Diplomacy. He also holds honorary master's degrees from Yale and Muskingham Universities. For nine years after graduating from Yale, he was executive director for ACCION International, a nonprofit corporation providing grants and technical assistance to development projects in Latin America. He was then Vice President of Whittier College in California.
Eager to return to his New Haven roots, he became Executive Director of the record-breaking Campaign for Yale from 1976-1978. He then moved to Columbia University as Vice President of Development, only to return to Yale as the Vice President for Development and Alumni Affairs from 1982-1998. A large personality, whose straight-talk, rapier wit, and gregarious nature gave him a high profile and made him a favorite in the development community, Holcombe twice led the University in history making capital campaigns, including the record breaking 1.7 billion dollar "…and for Yale" campaign, which concluded in 1997. At the time, it was the largest amount ever raised by an educational institution.
Holcombe did not fit the natural profile of a fundraiser for an elite institution. He never lost the sense of his East Haven roots, or his position as an "inside-outside" man: someone who was an officer of the university, a senior member of the Yale administration, and yet a "townie," one who looked at Yale from the outside as well as the inside. Holcombe stayed connected to Yale until the end.
He and his wife, Marya, gave years of service to some of New Haven's most vulnerable communities, especially to New Haven's Sunrise Café, a volunteer organization that feeds breakfast to a food insecure community and offers a refuge for rest and help with life's challenges. A tireless volunteer, he served on the boards of many institutions, including Kurn Hattin Homes for Children, Camp Keewaydin, the Yale Alumni Fund, the Buckley Institute, Hopkins School, the Neighborhood Music School and Mory's.
His family home after retirement has been in Walpole, New Hampshire, and he is survived by his wife of 57 years, Marya, his daughters Kerry Auld (Christopher), Brette Fitton, and Marjorie Elliott (Justin), his son Samuel Holcombe, and his adored grandchildren Audrey Logan, Angus Auld, and Euan Auld, and his best four-legged friend, Cash.
Burial will be private. There will be a celebration of life for family and friends later in the summer. In lieu of flowers, the family asks you to consider donating to the Vox Church, 131 Commercial Parkway, Building 1, Branford, CT 06405, Kurn Hattin Homes for Children, 708 Kurn Hatton Road, Westminster VT 05158, or the Buckley Institute, 234 Church Street, 7th Floor, New Haven, CT 06510. Arrangements are with the Hawley Lincoln Memorial.

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Published by The New Haven Register from Jun. 8 to Jun. 14, 2023.

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Will Melton

July 5, 2023

Oh such bad news. Terry brought me to Yale and we worked together for a decade on different ventures. He could laugh about any misfortune or goof and tell a funny story to make it all better. So many great fundraisers came out of his stable, and the world of higher education was enriched in countless ways by his wise training of a host of acolytes. The great university he deeply loved is much stronger today because of him. Marya, Eliza and I grieve with you.

Peter McE. Buchanan

June 22, 2023

Terry Holcombe was just a great human being, a gifted leader in the development community, an enormous asset to Yale University and generous to a fault to those less fortunate from all walks of life. He always left the people he knew and the organizations he led better off than when he found them. Heartfelt condolences to Marya and all Terry's family,

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Judy Kearney

June 21, 2023

I feel numb with this news. I always felt Terry had a larger than life presence ; he cared genuinely for others and gave freely to those in need. He will be sorely missed.

Sharon Krischtschun

June 16, 2023

Worked with Terry for many years. Knew marya and children. A wonderful caring family. Remember the days that their aierdale dog got away and we would have to go looking for him. Terry was the best boss that i ever had. Kind, compassionate and caring. His wife and children were the same
I just can't believe this
My love to the family.

Brenda Smith

June 12, 2023

My condolences to the Holcomb family. I have fond memories of Terry from my youth in Short Beach.

Maria Theilgard

June 10, 2023

It was a pleasure to know Terry and serve with him at church. He just loved serving!. What an inspiration! He will be missed.

Stephen Harrison

June 9, 2023

Terry was such a wonderful friend and supporter of Kurn Hattin Homes for Children. He always had the children's well-being uppermost in his efforts. He was a phenomenally good man and will be missed profoundly by us and all who knew him!

ROBERT BONI

June 9, 2023

I was 2 years ahead of Terry at Yale, but our paths crossed on a number of occasions, and I found him to be invariably upbeat and positive. Even after all of these years of no contact I feel his loss.

Chuck and Ellie Shaw

June 9, 2023

We are so sorry to hear this sad news. Our prayers are with you, Marya, as you go forward. Our love to you and your family. Ellie and Chuck Shaw

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