Theodore Mapes

Theodore "Teddy" Mapes, 82, of Suffern, NY, passed away of natural causes on July 8, 2025. Born on January 2, 1943, in Queens, Teddy was raised in the Astoria neighborhood. He lived a life defined by passion, purpose, and service to others.
In the early 1960s, he met the first love of his life, Marcella McFarland. Teddy and Marcy were married in September 1963 and soon began building a loving family together. Their marriage was marked by deep affection, and unwavering commitment.Teddy devoted many years of his career to the New York City Transit Authority, beginning as a bus driver navigating the bustling streets of Manhattan. Finding sobriety in 1982 through Alcoholics Anonymous (AA), he discovered he had a gift in helping others. Teddy dove headfirst into AA, sponsoring many, organizing groups, volunteering, and giving himself to anyone who asked. Teddy found his true calling in helping others and he pursued and achieved his license as a certified substance abuse counselor. With empathy, wisdom, and tireless dedication, Teddy helped countless members of the NYC Transport Workers Union (TWU)-and their families-find hope, healing, and a path forward. Teddy literally touching the lives of thousands of men and women looking for an empathetic touch.
Teddy continued to give of himself by working closely with the Franciscan Friars at Graymoor in Garrison NY. Teddy donated his time and skills as a certified counselor and as a skilled barber. The improvement in self esteem and confidence a simple haircut provided to someone in need, was not lost on Teddy and he felt this was just another way to provide a sense of belonging and connection. His passion for this work led him to co-found Labor Assistance Professionals (LAP), a national organization that now includes more than 450 members and representing tens of thousands of labor professionals across the country. Teddy's life's work continues to resonate through the many lives he touched.
Teddy was preceded in death by his mother Dorothy (Hough) Mapes, father Theodore Mapes Sr., brother Richard, beloved wife Marcy, son Theodore, and granddaughter Colleen (Mapes) Montague.
He is survived by his daughter Dorothy (Mapes) Rogers, son Patrick Mapes and his wife Julie, and his grandchildren; Victoria, Shannon, Theodore, David, Scott, Marcy and several great-grandchildren. He is also lovingly remembered by his cherished partner of 18 years, Mary Dinterman. Teddy's legacy is one of compassion, commitment, and resilience. He will be deeply missed by all who had the privilege of knowing him.
Visitation will be held at Joseph W.Sorce Funeral Home in Pearl River, NY on July 18, 2025 from 2pm to 4pm, and 6pm-8pm. Funeral Mass will be had at St. Margaret's Catholic Church on July 19, 2025 at 11am. In lieu of flowers, the family asks you consider a donation to St. Christopher's Inn at Graymoor. h ps://stchristophersinn-graymoor.org/support-recovery/donate/ To plant a beautiful memorial tree in memory of Theodore, please visit our Tree Store.