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doug johnson
October 29, 2014
my daughter plays for the Texas bombers softball team. The team wears a for the fallen jersey during the season. We would like to present the jersey back to the family at our last tournament of the year November 15th in Burleson, TX if possible. My email is [email protected]
December 3, 2012
In memory and honor of Thomas Duncan. Forever Remembered.
Peggy Childers
June 14, 2012
June 9, 2012
To the family and friends of Spc. Thomas F. Duncan:
Always remembering Thomas. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
June 9, 2011
To the family and friends of Spc. Thomas F. Duncan:
Please accept my remembrance of Thomas on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
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laura foster
November 11, 2010
missing your light....
Peggy Childers
June 10, 2010
To the family and friends of Spc. Thomas F. Duncan:
Remembering Thomas on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Diana Rose
December 23, 2009
Dear Amanda,Tom, and Family,
I am so deeply sadend about the news of your son and one of our nations heroes. He will live in our hearts forever. The way we choose to remmber a loved one that has been taken from us belongs to us and us alone, What's most important is we remmber. My heart is with you all.
Alway here for you my freind,
Diana and Scott Rose
Peggy Childers
June 9, 2009
To the family of Spc. Thomas F. Duncan:
Thomas gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
vence travis
June 2, 2009
I knew him as Frankie D. we worked together at the call center in Paintsville KY. He was great to work with, and he ask me 100's of questions about the Army. I'm so sorry at your loss. He was a great young man.
T Starman
January 9, 2009
I offer my deepest condolences for your loss
Kenna Larra
November 3, 2008
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kathi poppert
August 19, 2008
Thomas. I want to thank you for the brave sacrifice you made so I can continue to be free. you will never be forgotten. to Thomas's family I am so sorry for the loss of your son Thomas, above being an American hero he is your son and my heart breaks for you all may God bless your family in the days ahead. we dont know eachother but are now forever joined in the Army family of the fallen, my nephew PFC Aaron J Ward age 19 on May 6 2008 was killed by small arms fire while serving in Iraq and was also added the long list of American Hero's who paid the ultimate price for our country's continued freedom. God bless us all and may he protect the so many other soldiers still fighting. rest peace Thomas, America loves you...
Proud Army aunt of PFC Aaron J Ward, 170th military police Fort Lewis WA, the dragonslayers
Jack Johnson
August 4, 2008
Thank you for keeping the dream alive, you shall not be forgotten. God Bless
In Memory of Thomas ~ (Debra Estep)
July 29, 2008
Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers.
The Wind on The Downs
“I like to think of you as brown and tall,
As strong and living as you used to be,
In khaki tunic, Sam Brown belt and all,
And standing there and laughing down at me.
Because they tell me, dear, that you are dead,
Because I can no longer see your face,
You have not died, it is not true, instead
You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe;
I hear you laughing as you used to do,
Yet loving all the things I think of you;
And knowing you are happy, should I grieve?
You follow and are watchful where I go.”
(Written by Marian Allen during World War l )
Two lines that I wish you to keep near your heart…….
“You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe”
I did not know Thomas, but I am remembering
his service. He is my hero. !
~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~
The Other Side
i'm over on the other side
where life and death softly divide.
left my skin and bones behind
now i'm over on the other side.
can you feel me there with you?
my breath is gone but i'm not through.
loved you then and i still do
from over on the other side.
i can fly. really fly.
below the earth ... all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
it's good here on the other side.
the sweetest songs...the bluest skies.
thank you for the tears you cried
but it's good here on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth...all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side
the world is smaller than a needle's eye.
where life and death softly divide.
when you leave your skin and bones behind
i'll be waiting on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth ... all through the sky.
go tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
Song lyrics by Don Conoscenti
C Desert Muse/SESAC
www.donconoscenti.com
(Used with permission)
“I hope it brings great comfort to any and all.
Peace on you. DonCon” 4-2008
The Other Side –
(To hear the song)
http://tinyurl.com/3o8gol
Sincerely,
Deb Estep ~ Ohio
Proud Air Force Mom SSgt Vince – Lackland AFB
Proud Air Force MIL SrA Dana – Randolph AFB
Remembering The Fallen – Blog
http://tinyurl.com/3z8p55
Angel and soldier drawing I have shared here.
http://tinyurl.com/6gey8b
Stephanie Rafoss
July 28, 2008
Prayer for Peace
Lord, make me an instrument of your peace;
Where there is hatred, let me sow love;
Where there is injury, pardon;
Where there is doubt, faith;
Where there is despair, hope;
Where there is darkness, light;
And where there is sadness, joy.
O Divine Master,
Grant that I may not so much seek to be consoled as to console;
To be understood, as to understand;
To be loved, as to love;
For it is in giving that we receive,
It is in pardoning that we are pardoned,
And it is in dying that we are born to eternal life.
Amen
God has you in his keeping, we have you in our hearts
Garnet Jenkins
July 22, 2008
~TELL THEM OF US AND SAY...FOR THEIR TOMORROWS...WE GAVE OUR TODAY.~
tommy duncan sr
July 21, 2008
li tommy you were my first grandson.i love you so mutch and miss you.i am so proud of you and all those that gave their life,so we as americans can feel safe and free.aii of you young men and women are my heros.i think of you every day,i didn,t get to see you as mutch as i would have like.i sure injoyed the times we had.i think god for sending you this way.and for those times.i hope your mother,dad ,and sisters will look to the lord for strenth as i have done ilove you son and i wount forget pop
Tom Gugliuzza-Smith
July 21, 2008
My heartfelt sympathy to the Duncan family and friends in the loss of Thomas. I did not know Thomas, but my heart is broken and I am saddened for your loss of such a fine young person and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers. My heart was touched by the many wonderful/beautiful things written about you. Thomas you are my hero and you will NEVER be forgotten.
I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.
Love and Peace
Tom
"TO LIVE IN THE HEARTS
OF THOSE YOU LEAVE BEHIND
IS NEVER TO DIE"
~Robert Orr~
July 13, 2008
Thank you for the sacrifice made by Spc Duncan and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!
July 13, 2008
You are remembered and respected. Thank you Spc Duncan!
cheryl moore
July 11, 2008
Spec. Thomas F. Duncan, we at Ranger Bat are so broken hearted and proud at the same time, that you served amoung America"s Best! You exemplefy the Ranger Creed and the life, and service these heros, that served with you believe so strongly in, and uphold. Your Memory and Sacrifice will never be taken for granted, or forgotten. Godspeed young Ranger Warrior, the line was held, and your battlebuddies will honor you forever. Thank you to the family of this warrior, and know how much we all mourn Spec. Duncan with you.
Cheryl Moore (a ranger wife 2nd Bat)
Linda Cano, Soldiers' Angels
July 7, 2008
My sincere sympathies go out to the Duncan family. May God bless and comfort you in your time of mourning. Thank you, Thomas, for your heroic sacrifice. May you rest in the arms of Jesus now.
michael villa
July 6, 2008
duncan we gonna miss you dude! to his family: i went to R.I.P. with duncan to become a ranger strongest dude i know completed a 5 mile run w/ a broken ankle and still passed. "this one is for the airboure ranger in the sky"
Jim McGowan
July 5, 2008
My deepest condolences and prayers to you and your loved ones this is such a loss for you're family, and his sacrifice is deeply appreciated. My hopes thoughts and prayers are with you. God bless you.
Charmaine Stroud
June 28, 2008
My deepest condolences and prayers to you and you loved ones. You're family has suffered a tremendous loss, and his sacrafice is deeply appreciated. My prayers are with you.
Charmaine Stroud
Army Ranger mom
2nd BGD 75th Ranger Regiment-Ft. Lewis
Charmaine Stroud (Ranger Mom 2nd BGD/75th Ft. Lewis
June 28, 2008
Be Still
Be still like the grass on a melancholy summer day
Be still like desert shrub.
Be calm and you will hear your loved one speak, in the stillness, in the calm, their love resounds.
If you are still this promise I make, you will hear the voice of your loved one helping you along your way.
Janice Oswald
June 25, 2008
To the family and friends of fallen hero SPC Duncan....I am so sorry for your loss. May God bring you peace and comfort during this very difficult time. You are in my thoughts and prayers. He will not be forgotten. God Bless You.
debbi rivers
June 25, 2008
To the family and parents of Thomas I want you to know that you are not alone in the grief you are feeling. I too know what you are going through and what you will go through in the coming weeks and months ahead. You will have many questions as to why? You will have many things to get ready or go through and that should be done in time. Sometimes it just can’t be faced and that’s ok, for you will know when the time is right for you. There is no right or wrong way to grieve it’s an individual journey that unfortunately we now have to take. I ask that God give the comfort, strength and courage that you are going to need. When and if the time is right for you please contact me. You can cry, vent, or just talk as only another person who has been where you are can really know what you are going through. May God continue to be with you and heal you.
In memory of my son
Spc Harry (Buck) Winkler III
KIA 11/12/06 Samarra, Iraq
82nd Airborne 2-505th PIR
Beverly Montgomery
June 25, 2008
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2008
Jeri Herrera
June 25, 2008
Though I did not know Thomas personally, he will always be a hero to me. Nothing I can say will take away the pain that you feel right now. Please accept my sincerest condolences and know that my thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.
Sincerely,
Jeri Herrera
Proud sister of SFC Rocky H. Herrera
KIA 8/28/07 Jaji, Afghanistan
PAT HORNE
June 24, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Devon Adcock
June 23, 2008
I am a woman in Arkansas who has her heart attached in many places overseas. I am deeply moved by your family's loss, and also very much in awe of this wonderful communication you have with the world which has been touched by Spc. Duncan. I recently had death strike very close to home. I understand the sorrow which emaciates your spirit. Your Family is strong. Don't ever lose that. A close family is so much more priceless than anything else. I have been raised in the south and have a very strong bond with my family that has healed many a wound. I think it's awsome this website and the incredible response its brought. Please accept my condolences as i bring you my gratitude. Your family gave me hope that even if tragedy strikes, a strength and hope will build up a guard of the soul and encourage others. Thank you. God Bless you and yours.
Amanda Duncan-Michel
June 23, 2008
To all that has posted here.
From the family of SPC DUNCAN(Duncan-Michel-Berg) thank you so much for thoughts and prayers.
Ranger Duncan and Uncle Jim
June 22, 2008
Sheri Hamer
June 22, 2008
To the Duncan family thank you so much for allowing Thomas to serve and fight to proctect my family and country! My prayers go out to your family!!
A Bopp
June 22, 2008
As a military wife and mother my sympathy to those he left behind. My gratitude and admiration to him for his selfless service.
Thank you and may you find comfort in God's love.
Natasha Miller
June 19, 2008
We're all going to miss you Tommy. Theres so many memories of you and Liz here and I look forward to seeing you again. Your always going to be my little brother. Love you.
Brad Barnes
June 19, 2008
Rangers Lead The Way, Brother. Theres hot chow and a warm woobie in the patrol base...see ya at last manifest call. R.I.P.
Kristian Mollette
June 18, 2008
I am so proud of the things Frankie D accomplished. I always knew that he could do it if he tried. I will never forget the memories I have of all of us hanging out and I will never forget the day he told me he was joining the military. My heart goes out to his wife Megan and his family. You will be in my prayers and may God be with you in your time of sorrow. May you rest in peace Frankie D and once again I am so proud of you....you said you would and you did and I am so proud to say that you were my friend....
Sarah Belcher
June 18, 2008
Frankie D. I spent many times hanging with him and the gang. One of the funnest and sweetest guys I've ever met. May you RIP.
Jamie Daniel
June 18, 2008
I knew Frankie in High school he was in one of my classes at Johnson Central.... he was the sweetest guy i ever might, and its so sad that he is gone but he will live on. Im sorry for his family and his wife.. my god be with you guys..
margaret nelson
June 18, 2008
rest in peace,thomas,God be wiyh the family
Spc. Thomas F. Duncan
June 17, 2008
Spc. Thomas F. Duncan
June 17, 2008
Phyllis broomfield
June 17, 2008
So sad another young soldier taken so soon. Rest in peace Spc. Duncan you are a true American hero that will be missed. All gave some, some gave all. Phyllis Broomfield proud mom of Lt. Johnny Craver KIA 10/13/06
Carl /Joe Ann Russe
June 17, 2008
Thank you for allowing us to be free and for being a true AMERICAN HERO.
Wife of a ret. army vet & BAMC nurse
Ben Chapman
June 16, 2008
As a fellow brother in arms serving here in Iraq, your sacrifice is one of profound bravery and respect. Although not having known you, I helped prepare you for your final journey home, you are never fogotten, and ill wear your name along with the day we crossed paths on the battlefield on my wrist. With loving respect and honer, we accept your sacrifice for freedom, and celibrate your life.
Specialist Chapman
Combat Medic -- Task Force 86
Mosul, Iraq
"Eagle Medics, Air Assault"
william williamson
June 16, 2008
GREATER LOVE HATH NO MAN THAN HE WHO GIVES HIS LIFE FOR A FRIEND. FREEDOM IS YOUR GIFT TO US. THANKS FOR THE GIFT THOMAS
GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY
CSM W.H.WILLIAMSON
For the Commander, Carroll R. Michaud
June 16, 2008
The Final Salute
“Brothers in Arms”, Military men and women down through the centuries, have traditionally exchanged “Hand Salutes” as a sign of recognition and as a way to render courtesy and respect one to another.
This “Hand Salute” is the last that we shall render to Spc Thomas F. Duncan our Brother in Arms. To his family it symbolizes the love and respect that we have for Tom. And to Tom it is rendered as a symbol of honor and gratitude to thank him for the ultimate sacrifice he made in combat while serving the U.S. Army and his country. No greater love is shown than a man lay down his life for another. Tom, you are a true Warrior, a brave Patriot and our Hero. With your passing, our Country has lost a National Treasure. We bid you a sad farewell. You will be dearly missed from among our ranks. Be at ease. Rest in Peace.
On behalf of the 1,385 members of Lowe-McFarlane Post 14 of the American Legion in Shreveport, Louisiana, I extend our sympathies and our condolences to Tom’s family and loved ones.
Dennis N. Engdahl, Commander, American Legion Post 14
5315 S. Lakeshore Drive, Shreveport, LA 71109
June 15, 2008
R.I.P. Ranger. You have earned it.
Linda Mathews
June 15, 2008
In My Pocket
I have memories in my pocket.
They rattle among the change.
My memories of you are treasures I carry wherever I go.
They are stored in bits and pieces, parts of a beautiful whole
They give me comfort when I think I am alone.
Yes, I have memories in my pocket, like so much other stuff I keep there.
But of all the treasures I have, it’s the memories of you that are the most precious.
I lost a great nephew Justin Whiting January 19, 2008 in Mosul Iraq and my heart goes out to you and your family. May God Bless you in your time of sorrow.
Suzanne MacDaniel
June 15, 2008
To the Duncan family,
I know there are no words to say, except how sorry I am for your loss. May you hold Thomas' memory in your heart and please remember he shall never be forgotten.
...For you every single soldier
Those who served so honorable
Your life was forever altered
While I’m home safe and free
I stand with grateful admiration
I stand respectful and so proud
I know I’m only a civilian
And I don’t even know if it’s allowed.
But I salute you; allow me the honor
to salute you with permission let me say
Even though I hold no rank know that from my heart
My humble gratitude comes from the deepest part.
I salute you.
Suzanne MacDaniel
A Proud Aunt
Sgt. David M.Fisher
KIA 12/1/04
Cheryl A.Smith
June 14, 2008
TO A FALLEN HERO: MAY YOU REST IN PEACE! YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN! THANK YOU FOR FIGHTING FOR OUR COUNTRY AND FOR OUR FREEDOMS! MY HEARTFELT SYMPATHY GOES OUT YOU AND YOUR FAMILY!
Kent Sellars
June 14, 2008
I didn't know you, but I shared an apartment with a Daryle Duncan and Jody Michels in the Navy at Virginia Beach. When I saw the name and also as a former Vietnam veteran, I knew I had to send my heartfelt condolences.
Renee Owens
June 14, 2008
Please accept my deepest sympathy for the loss of your Hero, and my sincerest gratitude for his service. The great state of Texas mourns for the loss of another of its sons. May God grant your family peace and strength.
The Land of the Free, Because of the Brave
Proud aunt of a Hero
PFC Chase Edwards, USMC
KIA 06Apr2006
Cheryl A.Smith
June 14, 2008
TO A FALLEN HERO: MAY YOU REST IN PEACE! THANKS FOR FIGHTING FOR OUR COUNTRY AND OUR FREEDOMS! YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN! MY CONDOLENCES GO OUT TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY.
Henryk Zaleski,USN-Ret
June 14, 2008
Rest in peace.
Lili Cowley Mitchell
June 14, 2008
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2008
Susan G.
June 14, 2008
My deepest condolences to you and your family in the loss of your son Thomas. He gave his life for me, my children, and all Americans. May God grant you comfort during your sorrow.
June 13, 2008
To the Family and Friends of this Soldier:
I will stand in grief with this soldier's family to honor him. For every fallen HERO there is a bright star that shines in the evening sky to remind us of the cherished gift we were given – even if for too short a time.
My heart breaks again as I sign yet another guest book of another courageous young soldier who gave their life so selflessly. I wish I never found myself in a position to have to sign another guestbook for the rest of my life, but I promised Brent that neither he nor any like him would be forgotten and so I will continue until the day there is no longer the need.
We lost our son SFC Brent A. Adams on 12/1/05 and it seems like yesterday. I wish so badly there were things I could say to you right now to make the pain you are feeling go away, but I know first hand there simply are no words that will bring you the comfort and peace your heart aches for. Just know that you are not alone. My heart, thoughts, and prayers are with you all as you go through this tragedy moment by moment and as you mourn this loss.
We don't know each other, will probably never meet, but will forever be united in the loss of our Heroes. We have, unfortunately joined a group none of us wanted to join, an ever-growing group of families in this situation. May God grant you peace and strength to get through this and be able once again to smile at a memory rather than have only the tears that flow so easily now. To be so proud of your loved one and so saddened at the same time is a mix of emotions very difficult to deal with as our hearts both burst with pride and pain together.
I am sorry that I never knew your soldier personally. While they can never be replaced, neither will they ever be forgotten. You must trust that sometime, someday the loving memories you have will help to sustain you and help you go on. This courageous soldier will forever be your Angel watching over you all for the rest of your lives. It's what brings me some measure of peace and comfort and I hope it will you as well.
To his family and friends in pain, I offer this comfort: When you find yourself in that dark sorrowful place, think not only of how you will miss him, but instead recall the years, days, hours and minutes gifted to you by his presence. The one thing that cannot be taken from you is your wonderful memories that now will mean more than ever.
If you ever want to talk, I'm only an e:mail away and would love for you to tell me more about your Hero.
God Bless this soldier and family who gave all and God Bless legacy.com for setting up this site where families can so quickly share their condolences and prayers with others like themselves.
Proud Parents of SFC Brent A. Adams, KIA, 12/1/05, Ramadi, Iraq
Pam and Bill Adams, Lancaster, PA
June 13, 2008
There is nothing that I can say or do to take away the pain or bring you peace in your time of sorrow, but I will offer you and your family my heart felt condolences. I also offer you my prayers that in time the pain will easy and the memories of your HERO will carry you through each day and night. I want to thank your HERO, for his/her selfless act of becoming a member of the armed forces, his/her willingness to defend the United States of America, all that we hold sacred and for the sacrifice that will forever be etched in the memories of all those who knew him/her. Though tears can never bring him/her back, we hope that our tears express our gratitude for the sacrifice that he/she made and our sorrow at his/her passing. I believe for every fallen HERO there is a star shining brightly up above to remind us of the precious gift we were given.
Your mission on earth is complete and you are now a member of GOD’s Heavenly armed forces. Stand down brave warrior and take your rightful place in Heaven with all the HEROES who have passed before.
I made a special promise to LE RON A. WILSON, a dear family friend who joined the Army with three other friends, one of whom is my son (Le Ron was killed in action on 07/06/07 at the age of 18) on the day he was laid to rest as I touched his coffin, that I would never forget him nor would I forget those that gave their lives for our country before him, with him and after him and so when I came across www.legacy.com, I thought what a great way to keep my promise to Le Ron, so I will continue to leave tributes in each guest book until the day there is no longer the need to leave these tributes to a FALLEN HERO.
REST IN PEACE, HERO, YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!!
I would also like to tell you about a website, http://groups.msn.com/SSPSoldierPor
traits/homepage,
where some wonderful people will make wood portraits of your fallen Hero for free for the immediate family. I became aware of this site when I wanted to do something special for Le Ron’s mother.
PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Currently stationed in Germany
Althea Barrett (Queens, NY)
Jeri Fontenot
June 13, 2008
I want to express my deepest regrets for the loss of your son. His heroism will never be forgotten for his part in protecting our great country.
Although his time on earth was short, he is now with God watching over you. I hope in some way, that this can give you a small measure of comfort. I am so sorry.
Bobby and Kathy Lawson
June 13, 2008
Our hearts are saddened by the loss of your beloved son and HERO Spc. Thomas F. Duncan, III. Words can never express how much we appreciate his (and your) devotion and service to our country.
Psalm 34:18 & Phillipians 4:13
Sandy Bonesteel
June 13, 2008
Please know that as a mother of a Soldier; I'm grieving with you. As are so many, many others.
RIP PFC Aaron J. Ward 5/6/08 (KIA)
Gary Tolle
June 12, 2008
Tom, God bless you soldier and thank you for your brave and honorable service to a grateful nation and for paying the ultimate price for our freedom.. You are now in great company with God and so many other fallen hero's before and after you. On 5/6/08 my nephew PFC Aaron J. Ward was killed in action in Iraq and my final promise to him was to never forget him and our fallen hero’s, we will never forget their commitment and sacrifice. Duncan family, words cannot express the pain we now share, but our families will forever have a bond and we will be thinking of Tom and your family and will keep you in our thoughts & prayers. Please accept my heart felt condolences and my prayer that god help you cope with this tragic loss and may the memories of your HERO carry you through each day. From one Gold Star family to another!
SHIRLEY DONEY
June 12, 2008
REST IN PEACE SPC. DUNCAN, TO YOUR FAMILY AND FRIENDS MAY THE MEMORIES OF THIS WONDERFUL SOLDIERS LIFE FILL YOUR HEARTS WITH BEAUTIFUL MEMORIES
GOD BLESS YOU
Valorie
June 12, 2008
My prayers and thoughts are with you.
I know how you feel losing a "HERO",Becoming a "Gold Star" Mother myself on 25 March.. The sacrafice our sons and daughters are making on a daily basis should tell us all..These young HEROS knew full well what they were doing and did it proudly When you hug your loved ones tonight.... Remember... We also hugged ours and they were protecting you..We.. as Americans need to make the "Ultimate Sacrafice" by supporting all our military(HEROS)...the Proud Mom of SGT. Jason W. Swiger
5th Squadron, 73rd Cavalry Regiment, 3rd Brigade Combat Team, 82nd Airborne,Fort Bragg, N.C. KIA 3/25/007
Gale Poindexter
June 12, 2008
I am writing to offer my deepest sympathies to you and your family over the loss of your HERO Spc Thomas F Duncan. I lost my son in Iraq on May 6/2007, so I can well understand your pain of losing a loved one so dear.
I pray you will be guided by a higher power to give you peace, comfort and strength in this time.
Psalm 34:18
The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit
GOD Bless you and your family. Your soldier was a true American Hero and we are all very proud of his service. He will not be forgotten!
(Proud mother of Sgt Joel W. Lewis, 5/20, 3-2 SBCT /Ft Lewis
KIA 5/6/07, Baqubah, Iraq)
www.youtube.com/watch?v=DXAX__FZYg4
Safely Home
Michael Iezzi
June 12, 2008
Father we entrust our brother Thomas to your mercy. You loved him greatly in this life: now that he is freed from all its cares, give him happiness and peace forever. Welcome him now into paradise where there will be no more sorrow, no more weeping or pain, but only peace and joy with Jesus your Son, and the Holy Spirit forever and ever.
May God hold Thomas in the palm of His hand. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. My deepest sympathies.
Buster & Kathy Martin
June 12, 2008
We are so very sorry for your loss. Our son and son-in-law are in the Army, every loss hurts us all.
Be proud of him, keep his memories alive. Our prayers are with you.
June 12, 2008
“Lest I keep my complacent way, I must remember, somewhere out there a person died for me today. As long as there must be war, I ask and I must answer was I worth dying for?” Eleanor Roosevelt
May Heavenly Father bless you with peace and comfort and may you feel held in the prayers of a grateful nation.
In loving memory of our nephew
US Army Spec Philip Cody Ford
KIA Baghdad Iraq 12/10/2006
USN/AMEC Ron Baker and family
Garnet Jenkins
June 12, 2008
Please know how Deeply Sorry I am, to learn of the loss of Spc. Thomas F. Duncan.
As a parent, who has lost a daughter suddenly and
having lost a brother to war...
I am aware of the deep and devastating pain that you are experiencing.
The overwhelming heartache, that seems to surface through our shock, as the time passes.
Please hang on to your Faith and know that you will get through this.
May the memories of your Brave Young Soldier, remain in your heart always and give you strength through the difficult days ahead, and may Thomas Rest Safely now, in the Loving Care of God and know that he Will Never Be Forgotten.
I pray that the Peace of God will be with the Duncan family.
I am the sister, of such a young Hero, who also served in the 75th Ranger Regiment and made the Ultimate Sacrifice in Vietnam, many years ago. "RANGERS LEAD THE WAY"
"Cast thy burden upon the Lord, and He shall sustain thee."
~ Psalm 55:22 ~
I sincerely hope that you can feel the thoughts of caring and support that surround you today and in the days ahead, as this Grateful Country Mourns with you, for Someone Very Precious to you, Who Is A True American Hero to all of us.
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Shelley H
June 12, 2008
From our military family to yours, we would like to thank SPC Thomas Duncan for his service and sacrifice to this great country, as well as send our deepest condolences for your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
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