Thomas "Tom" Graff

Thomas "Tom" Graff obituary, Lafayette, IN

Thomas "Tom" Graff

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Thomas Graff Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Fisher Funeral Chapel & Cremation Services - Lafayette on Dec. 2, 2025.
Thomas "Tom" Allen Graff, 73, of Lafayette, IN, passed away on Friday, November 28, 2025.
He was born on February 5, 1952 in Detroit, MI to the late Martin and Muriel (Gentry) Graff.
Tom graduated from Arsenal Technical High School in Indianapolis.
On February 18, 1984, he married Patricia Anne Strange in Lafayette.
Thomas owned his own painting company, Graff's Painting, for 30 years. He was also a drummer for 25 years with several bands over the years.
Surviving are his wife, Patricia Graff of Lafayette; his sons, James (Jennifer) Graff of Indianapolis and Kyle (Jaki) Graff of Fort Wayne; and his stepdaughter, Jackie (Donald) Shelton of Knightstown, IN. Also surviving are his grandchildren, Michaela, Kaleb, Blake, and Fiona; his step grandchildren, Amber, Camron, and Kaeli; his 4 great grandchildren, Haydn, Westyn, Oliver, and Logan; and several cousins.
A Service will be held on Monday, December 8, 2025 at 12 p.m. at Fisher Funeral Chapel with Pastor Jeff Stedge officiating. Burial will follow in Rest Haven Memorial Park, Lafayette. Visitation will be held prior to the service from 10 a.m. to 12 p.m. at the funeral home.
Memorial donations may be made to Food Finders Food Bank in loving memory of Tom.
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