Thomas Alexander Gray

Thomas Alexander Gray obituary, El Paso, TX

Thomas Alexander Gray

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Thomas Gray Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Perches Funeral Home-East - El Paso on Oct. 15, 2025.

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Thomas Alexander Gray
Born on December 21, 1981, in El Paso, Texas, and passed away on October 10, 2025, in El Paso, Texas, at the age of 43.
Thomas is lovingly remembered by his mother María Monreal and stepfather Hilario Monreal, and by his siblings Vincente Monreal, Ramón Monreal, Antonio Monreal, Adriana Monreal, Theresa Coppola, Helena Monreal, and Marcy Monreal.
He leaves behind his beloved children Isaiah Gray and Jason Gray, as well as his stepchildren Nicolas Hernández and Jesse Márquez, and one cherished grandchild Atticus Marquez who brought him immense joy.
Thomas was a man of kindness and generosity, always ready to lend a helping hand. He deeply loved spending time with his brothers and family-those moments meant the world to him. His laughter, gentle heart, and caring nature will be missed by all who knew him.
Though he has left this world too soon, his spirit will forever live on in the hearts of those who loved him.
Rest in peace, Thomas. Your love and light will never be forgotten. To send flowers to the family or plant a tree in memory of Thomas, please visit our floral store.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

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Perches Funeral Home - East

2280 Joe Battle Blvd., El Paso, TX 79938

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Oct

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Service

7:00 p.m.

Perches Funeral Home - East

2280 Joe Battle Blvd., El Paso, TX 79938

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