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Thomas Liu Obituary
Thomas Chi-Wei Liu, age 42, of Westport, beloved husband of Mary Jane Schmitt Liu, passed away on Thursday, October 5, 2006 following a courageous year-long battle with cancer. Born in St. Louis, MO, the son of Ho-Kang Liu and Theresa Wu Liu or Scotia, NY, he was raised in Schenectady, NY and had been a Westport resident for the last nine years. He received a Bachelor of Science Degree in Mechanical Engineering from the University of Vermont and an MBA from the University of Michigan. He was employed as an Investment Manager for Kingsland Capital in New York City. Tom loved sports, especially Hockey. He coached both Hockey and Soccer teams locally and enjoyed playing in adult Hockey leagues even during his illness. He was an ardent Michigan fan and always looked forward to watching their football games. He was also a New York Yankee fan. Tom will be fondly remembered as a loyal and devoted family man and friend who loved the camaraderie and friendships he made through his participation in sports.
In addition to his wife and parents he is survived by three loving children, Adam, Aaron and Amy Liu all of Westport; a brother, Timothy Liu and his wife Hope of Austin, TX; two sisters, Jennifer Ward and her husband Brian, of Wilton and Lisa DesMarteau and her husband Jay, of Ridgefield; his paternal grandfather, C.F. Liu of Augusta, GA; seven nieces and nephews.
A service celebrating Tom’s life will be held on Friday, October 13, 2006 at 11:00 AM in the Saugatuck Congregational Church, 245 Post Road, East, Westport, CT. In lieu of flowers memorial contributions may be made to the Tom Liu Memorial Fund C/O the Greater Bridgeport Area Foundation 211 State Street, Bridgeport, CT 06604. To offer an online condolence please visit www.spearmillerfuneralhome.com.
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Donna Smolens
October 24, 2006
Mary Jane, Rob and I wish to extend our heartfelt sympathy to you and the children. Tom was a wonderful human being and a great inspiration to many children, especially in hockey. We both credit Tom with giving our son Jeff the confidence he needed to succeed in a very competitive sport. Each time Jeff reaches another milestone in this sport, we think of Tom and the Mighty Ducks House League team and then the Mite B team. I doubt Jeff will ever be as inspired again as he was in those first few key years by another coach. I realize that nothing will ever replace him in the eyes of you and the children but you can rest assured that his spirit lives on in the many children he touched as a coach. Sincerly, Donna and Robert Smolens
Bill Pertusi
October 14, 2006
Mary Jane - We were shocked and saddened to read of Tom's passing. I really only knew him through Darien Youth Hockey and Wesport Youth Lacrosse - and therefore my memory will always be of an athletic guy, full of energy, with a smile on his face. Our thoughts and prayers are with you - we wish you and your children all the best.
Adam - I told Lane about your Dad's passing last night when I saw the notice in the Westport News and he wanted me to send his condolences. We both realized the last time we saw you and your Dad was when the four of us played golf down at Longshore - it doesn't seem too long ago and we didn't even know he'd gotten ill. Even then you were already growing into a fine young man and going forward you still have the ideal role model in your Dad when you think about the kind of adult you'd like to be.
Brian Upton
October 13, 2006
MJ, Adam, Aaron & Amy-
I'm truly sorry for your loss-please let me know if there is anything we can do.
Brian, Alexandra, Gregory, Jonathan & Olivia.
Ruth Bruton
October 12, 2006
Dear MJ, Adam, aaron and Amy,
There is no way to understand how you are feeling just right now, but we want you to know that we are thinking of you all during this very sad time. We will miss seeing Tom at both hockey and soccer games but he will be watching over all of you from heaven.
With our deepest sympathy,
Ruth, Tom, Adam and Davey Bruton
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Jennifer and Jeff Weintraub
October 12, 2006
Mary Jane, Adam, Aaron and Amy,
All our sympathy and our thoughts are with you in your great sorrow.
Jennifer, Jeff, Megan and Justin Weintraub
Dan and Young Lee
October 12, 2006
Dear MJ, Children, HK and Terry:
Our deepest sympathy for the loss. It is hard to imagine this will happen to such an energetic young man. Hope you will take care of yourself.
MacMillan Family
October 11, 2006
Dear Mary Jane, Adam, Aaron and Amy:
We will always remember Tom for his kind words, his quick wit, and clever insights. Tom always left an impression and made the journey through life better for those who were lucky enough to know him. While we are saddened by the loss of a special person, we were blessed with the joy of his friendship. We hope that our thoughts and prayers are a comfort to you.
Paul, Janet, Bill, Nolan and Sam
Janet Gladitsch
October 11, 2006
Mary Jane, Adam, Aaron and Amy
It was with deep sadness that we read today of the loss of your dear husband (and father). Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you during this very difficult time. Sincerely, Janet, Chris and Kimberly Gladitsch
David McCann
October 11, 2006
Dear Mary Jane, Adam, Aaron and Amy our deepest sympathy for your loss. Tom is a special friend of ours and has touched our family in so many positive ways over the years. He will be sadly missed by us all. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
David, Marg, Jennifer, Michael, Connor and Heather McCann
J Catenacci
October 10, 2006
Mary Jane, Adam, Aaron, and Amy,
Our deepest sympathy for the loss of your beloved Tom. Our family will remember him fondly as the man who was responsible for getting us involved in hockey, throwing baseballs during Michael and Aaron's baseball games, beginner hockey lessons,and for the all around dedicated family man that he was. Please know that we feel your loss and that you and your family are in our prayers at this difficult time.
The Catenacci Family
Lee Ann Mistretta
October 10, 2006
Mary Jane, Aaron, Adam and Amy-
Words cannot express how sorry we are for your loss. Tom will be missed by everyone. He was one of the few gentlemen in the game of hockey (and away from the ice). He always stood up for the underdog and was one of the most encouraging dads out there. Your family has always been viewed by ours as being full of love and good standards. Your loss is everyones. God bless you! Love, The Mistrettas
The Staff of Spear-Miller Funeral Home
October 9, 2006
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