Thomas J. Mack

Thomas J. Mack obituary

Thomas J. Mack

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Thomas Mack Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Bartolomeo & Perotto Funeral Home, Inc. - Rochester on Aug. 24, 2025.

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Thomas J. Mack "Poppy"
August 20, 1937 – August 22, 2025
Tom enjoyed doing everything with his loving wife, no matter what or where. He was a former funeral director and retired from Kodak as a line supervisor. He was active in Danforth Senior Golf League at Genesee Valley Country Club. He enjoyed visiting with neighbors on his front porch trying to solve world problems and maintaining his yard. As his grandchildren grew, he enjoyed watching them participate in soccer, softball and cross-country events. Tom was also a proud Army Veteran. He was a joy to be around and will be deeply missed by family and friends.

Thomas was predeceased by his parents, Anthony & Margaret Mack; siblings, Al, Donald, Monsignor Robert Mack, Eileen Wright, Catherine Quick, Mary Guzowski & son, Anthony "Tony" Mack.

Survived by his best friend and loving wife of 43 years, Jeanne (Monti) Mack; daughters Debbie Monti, Laurie (Scott) Custozzo; grandchildren, Amanda Custozzo, Steven Custozzo, Gianna Monti, Yufan Lin & Theo Lin; daughter Julie (Nick) Bisciotti; grandchildren Victoria Bisciotti & Alex Bisciotti; son Thomas (Lynn) Mack; grandchildren Maggie, Emily & Carleigh Gaylord; also survived by many loving nieces & nephews.

Tom's Memorial Mass will be celebrated 10:30am on Monday September 15th at Holy Cross Church, 4492 Lake Avenue.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be sent to the Tunnel to Towers Foundation at : Tunnel to Towers Foundation

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Upcoming Events

Sep

15

Service

12:00 a.m.

Holy Cross Catholic Church

4492 Lake Avenue, Rochester, NY 14612

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