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Danny R
December 4, 2025
I knew Tom and TJ growing up playing hockey. Tom was an amazing coach, he taught me some much about hockey and how to be a shutdown defenseman I really learned so much from him at a young age, but more importantly, it was his character and integrity that he naturally exuded that I have carried with me to this day that will never go away, I always admired Tom for not just being a great hockey coach but what a great honest guy he was. TJ and family I have not seen you in years but this tremendous loss is terrible and I feel it greatly, my heart is with you all
Larry Cullen
November 29, 2025
My heart goes out to the Ryan family, Tommy was a great guy and will be missed, may he rest in the sweetest of peace.
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Debra Cononico
November 27, 2025
To the Ryan family.
My deepest condolences to all of you. May Tommy RIP and may God keep you in his loving embrace during this difficult time.
Sincerely,
Deb Cononico
Carlos Gandiaga
November 25, 2025
I was good friends with Tommy at BU and afterward saw him from time to time at the games. We shared many a night at the Dugout together and I never met a funnier warmer person. I was lucky enough to meet Jill as well before they got married and loved seeing them together. My heart breaks for Jill and his entire family.
Tommy whiting
November 25, 2025
To Jill, TJ, Brendan and the rest of Tommy's family, I am truly sorry for your loss.
I will always remember when I met Tommy. I was trying out for the first time for newton youth hockey and I got on the ice and saw one player that stood out. He was 9 years old and was so advanced in skating and handling the puck, and to a 10 year old who was just starting out, it was very intimidating. But Tommy was very supportive and was giving me tips on how to skate backwards and telling me I would get it. From then on he inspired to get better and be helpful to other kids. That's how Tommy was, even as a kid. I was fortunate enough to play with Tommy from then through highschool, and he just kept getting better and better.
As adults Tommy and his family at Ryan insurance would always help he out with the insurance that I needed and we would reminisce about the old times.
Tommy was a great kid and became an even better man through the years. I will always remember celebrating every victory with you and will always miss you buddy.
Tom Whiting
McLaughlin Jim
November 25, 2025
To Jill the kids and the Ryans:
I am heartbroken to hear about Tommy´s passing. My condolences to all of you. Tommy was a great guy and will be sorely missed.
Jim M
Sheila Boyle
November 24, 2025
To Jill, TJ, Brendan, and the rest of the Ryan Clan,
Our sincerest condolences upon hearing of Tommy´s passing.
May he be at peace, free of pain and suffering, and may we all remember his distinctive smile when we say his name, or picture his face.
He was a such a kind man.
Sheila and Jamie Boyle
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