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Tyler Heckendorn Obituary

Tyler Ashton Heckendorn

CARLISLE – Tyler Ashton Heckendorn, 34, of Carlisle, passed away peacefully at home on June 11, surrounded by his loving family, after a long and courageous battle with cancer.

Born in Carlisle, Pa., Tyler faced life's greatest challenges with grace, humor, and determination. Tyler graduated from Carlisle High School and went on to graduate from Dickinson College with degrees in Political Science and Computer Science. He worked in various fields, from IT to media, and loved time with family and friends as well as moments at home with his partner, Izzy, and his cat, Enza curled up nearby.

He enjoyed hosting weekly game nights and wing nights with his friends. He liked all kinds of TV and movies, and especially loved watching sports, with F1, basketball, and football among his favorites. He was always up for an adventure and found them everywhere he went. He took cross-country trips in his Hellcat (picking up a few speeding tickets along the way), frequently traveled abroad, and hit every theme park he could, the bigger the roller coaster, the better.

After his first battle with cancer at age 7, friends at North Dickinson Elementary School started a Relay for Life team in his name, and Tyler stayed actively involved in the cause. He would later go on to do non-profit work empowering people with disabilities.

Tyler is survived by his father, Randy Joe Heckendorn; his mother, Deborah A. (Flagle) Heckendorn; his brother, Trevor Q. Heckendorn; his grandmother, Janet (Graham) Singer; his partner, Elizabeth "Izzy" Berryman; and many loving relatives. For 34 years, he filled our lives with positivity, wit, and an endless curiosity.

A Celebration of Life will be held on June 29th, from 1 to 3 p.m., at the Heckendorn residence, 228 Richland Road, Carlisle, PA 17015. Tyler requested that guests wear festive colors, and keep chasing your joy, wherever it leads. www.Since1853.com.

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Published by Carlisle Sentinel on Jun. 21, 2025.

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Judith Treffinger

July 2, 2025

So sad to hear of Tyler's passing. Tyler was one of my Art students for all of his years in Elemenarty school. He will surely be remembered for his courage, kindness and quick wit! Please know that he and your family are remembered in my prayers.

Artfully Yours,

Judith Treffinger

Dan & Deb Heckendorn

June 23, 2025

Sorry for your loss prays for you and your family
God Bless

Bobbie Bailey

June 22, 2025

I remember years ago I found out Tyler liked Jeff Gordon I remember going to Nell´s grocery store during NASCAR season and I talked to the store manager. They agreed to give me the Jeff Gordon stand up and I had some other Jeff Gordon things that we collected from the NASCAR races. Tyler was just young and a sweet tough boy. RIP Tyler, you put up a long courageous fight.

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