Xander Shuker Obituary
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Xander was born in Reading on May 20, 2010, a son of Michelle Irey, of West Reading and Heath Shuker, of Shillington.
He was a student at Governor Mifflin High School.
In addition to his parents and grandparents, Xander is survived by brother, Austin Lambert, of Boyertown and sister, Alexa Lambert, of Boyertown. He is also survived by his paternal grandmother Linda Shuker, widow of Richard Shuker of Shillington and his maternal grandmothers Patricia A. Sexton, widow of George L. Sexton. Jr. of Shillington and Karen Irey, widow of Barry Irey of Boyertown. He is also survived by Other sisters: Caitlin, Darian, Deanna, Cassidy and there are many aunts, uncles and cousins.
His services are private.
Arrangements entrusted to John P. Feeney Funeral Home, Inc. 625 N. 4th Street at Centre Ave., Reading, PA 19601, 610-372-4160. Obituary and condolences at www.johnpfeeney.com.
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Ginny Ulmer
October 12, 2025
Caitlin and family sorry for your loss of Xander he was way too young God has special plans for him
Beverly
October 10, 2025
Sweet sweet Xander such a wonderful young man.Gone from this world way to soon....R.I.P. you've gone to be
an angel above.. Roam free...Our deepest condolences to all that will miss you...I know you will find ways to let them all know you're watching and sending your love from above.... Love Bev and Chris Wagner
A mother
October 10, 2025
Dear Lord please give this child peace and comfort as he rests his soul.
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Debbie Reber
October 9, 2025
I am so very sorry for your loss. Losing a child is the worst loss. My heart goes out to all of you. I didn't know Xander personally but I work at GMIS and hold you all in my prayers
Jennifer Caron
October 9, 2025
My heart breaks. I was Xander's 8th grade teacher and so loved getting to know him.... his impish smile and intelligence were often the highlight of my days. I am so sorry for his family and friends. He was a shining light that will be missed. Always
Tina
October 9, 2025
I got to meet Xander thru my grandson Jakob. He was a great kid,had a heart of gold. My heart goes out to his family.. he will be sadly missed.. we will always remember his smile.
Kendra Fains (Supreme Cleaners)
October 9, 2025
Deepest condolences to the family and friends. May GOD guide you through this time of grief and comfort you.
Jakob Lombay
October 9, 2025
Xander was my best friend. We would go out a lot and I would be his partner in crime. And get into trouble together but we had fun. Hearing his death shattered me. May he fly high.
Andrea Gries
October 9, 2025
I did not know Xander or anyone in his family. While losing a loved one is difficult, it even more so with such a young person. I pray that Xander's family finds comfort in the memories of Xander. And may this young man rest in eternal peace. ~~Andrea Gries
Mary Caicedo
October 9, 2025
I've only met Xander a few times at school functions but he was always so polite. My son Luis enjoyed his friendship with him and would often tell me funny conversations they had. We're truly heartbroken for you all and will be keeping you in our prayers.
MomMom
October 8, 2025
Xander was special! Will never forget the times he and cousin Sophia would spend the day together at MomMom's. Sophia would come visit early morning a nd one of the first words would be "is Xander here?They were about 6 wks.apart in age, just some fond memories that I, want to share. We will miss and love you Xander!
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