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Lt. James C. Kirby

1971 - 2018

BORN

1971

DIED

2018

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Raynor & D'Andrea Funeral Home

683 Montauk Hwy

Bayport, New York

James Kirby Obituary

KIRBY - Lt. James C., 47, of Bayport, LI, died on May 2, 2018. Loving husband of Jenifer. Proud father of Madeleine, Ciara and Julianna. Beloved son of Helen and the late John. Dear brother of Sean and Kenneth. Cherished son-in-law of Murray Naviloff and brother-in-law of Erik and Greg Naviloff. Reposing Saturday, 7-9:30 pm and Sunday, 2-4:30 & 7-9:30 pm at Raynor & D'Andrea Funeral Home, 683 Montauk Hwy, Bayport. A private Funeral Mass and burial will be held on Monday. In lieu of flowers, contributions to Parkinson's Disease Foundation, 1359 Broadway, Suite 1509, New York, NY 10018, are appreciated.

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Published by Newsday on May 4, 2018.

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Larry Smith

April 18, 2021

I share your sadness.

Michael & Tara Woods

May 26, 2018

We miss you so much and just dont understand. This cant have happened to you. To Jen and the girls you will always be in our hearts. May God give you the strength you need.

Yvonne Furlong

May 25, 2018

Heaven has gained another Angel .My deepest sympathy to his loving wife and children .Remembering the days that you worked in Furlong's E. Durham NY .REST IN PEACE JIMMY

Lisa Kirkland

May 25, 2018

I still find it so hard to believe that my incredible cousin Jimmy has passed. He was such an incredible man (father, husband, worker, relative, friend). I have never seen so many people touched by the passing of someone). He was a respected man in uniform... which showed how TRUELY HE was LOVED by ALLLL THE PEOPLE (especially law enforcement) at his 4 viewings & funeral. He was so kind to my entire family (he's married to my 1st cousin). Jimmy.... you were ONE OF A KIND & an INCREDIBLE MAN! I LOVE & MISS YOU, but I know GOD needed another "ANGEL" to help protect everyone in HEAVEN! Give my mommy a HUG & Aunt HELEN & the rest of our family!

May 8, 2018

My heartfelt sympathy goes out to your entire family and friends. Please know that the God of all comfort has loving concern for you at this time, at Psalm chapter 34 verse 18. I know you will miss your precious loved one every day, may God give you strength, peace and loving memories. - Ann Smith

Diane

May 8, 2018

Sad to hear of Jimmy's passing. May your soul rest in eternal peace. My deepest condolences to Jen & his beautiful daughters.

Paula Kutch

May 8, 2018

Please accept my sincerest offering of sympathy at the loss of James Kirby. I picture him stopping by my office with Laura and the others in their class and I just cannot believe this has happened. He will be remembered fondly by the Touro family and his loss will be deeply felt for a very long time. It is my hope that happy memories will bring peace to the hearts of his family and friends.

The Costello Family

May 8, 2018

Jimmy we thought the world of you, you will be truly missed.

Rose Keaveny Mulhall

May 7, 2018

Sincere condolences to the Kirby family. My prayers are with you my dear friend Helen. The Mulhall Family.

Joann Bilboa

May 7, 2018

Jim, I remember you coming into Eastern Athletic as a gym member who ran from your house to the Club for a continued workout and then run home all after a 12 hour shift on the job. Soon later, I became Ciara's religion teacher and grew to love your family. Your infectious smile will remain a great memory for all the lives you touched. My sincere condolences and endless support to Jen and the girls. Xoxoxo

Faith Berube

May 7, 2018

may the Kirby family be in our hearts and prayers ❤

Paul Hilbert

May 7, 2018

Jim, you were an excellent boss to work for, and a you pleasure to have around the third precinct. May you Rest in Peace with God.

George Justice

May 7, 2018

Jim was wonderful at everything he did. Touro Law Center is a better place because Jim was here. Lives are richer because of him, his spirit, his courage and his heart. My prayers are with Jennifer and the rest of his lovely family.

David Smith

May 7, 2018

Jim (boss) I don't know what words to say. You were such a good man to work with at communications. Also had the privilege of having working with you as my road supervisor in the third pct. You were a hands on boss. I can honestly say never was an I'll word mentioned with your name. As you were a cops cop. Rest in peace Jim and take a seat to right of God.

MaryGrace Rees

May 6, 2018

Rest In Peace, gone too soon

Jennifer Corcoran

May 6, 2018

My deepest condolences to Jims family and friends. I only knew Jim for a short time and I'm sad to hear of his passing. he will be missed.

kathleen L

May 6, 2018

Jim I remember meeting you when you first came to the 1st pct so many years ago. we instantly connected over our Bronx and irish heritage. it was an honor to work with you and then for you after you got promoted. your an amazing friend and an even better human being. I pray jen and the girls find peace. I pray that you also rest in peace always.

Julie D'Andraia

May 5, 2018

Please accept my deepest condolences... Although I did not know Lt Kirby, it is clear to me that he was loved by those around him.

D J

May 5, 2018

There is nothing on this earth more to be prized than true friendship. Thomas Aquinas

And Jimmy -- you were our treasured friend - your passing has lleft an enormous hole in our lives .We miss you brother.DJ

Kevin McAdams

May 5, 2018

Jimmy you made so many people smile and you really lived life. Your drive and energy was like no other. You always made me laugh when we talked. May you rest peacefully in heaven now, for your spirit is at home. I am sure you will be a guardian angel to many and I pray for your wife Jen and kids. May they find some peace on how many lives you have touched. You were a great man! Great man!

Sheila Conlon

May 4, 2018

You were a good person with a bright light and a wonderful smile. Your spirit will live on. May you Rest In Peace.

Mike H

May 4, 2018

I thought the world of Jim. You are a great friend. I will miss your humor, wit and advice. My deepest condolences to the Kirby family. May you Rest In Peace.

Alex K.

May 4, 2018

Jimmy, these last few days have been hard knowing that you are no longer with us. As I walked the halls and talked to the guys we worked with it made me realize how many lives you touched in such a great way. You were a true friend, a great leader, and mentor to all. Jenifer, Madeleine, Ciara, and Julianna please accept my sincere condolences. Jimmy was a great man and he will be truly missed..

Brian Flynn

May 4, 2018

My family grew up with the Kirby family in the Bronx and went to school together and I remember Jimmy well. He and my brother Jimmy were thick as thieves in gramer school. He was a nice kid and I am so sorry to hear of his passing. I hope he rests in heaven peacefully. My deepest sorrows to Sean and Kenneth.
Brian Flynn

Marilynn Boeker

May 4, 2018

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Robert Johnson

May 4, 2018

Jimmy, i only knew you for a short period of time but, you made a lasting impact on my family and I. Well nver forget our boat trip with you and your beautiful family. We will miss you and i will see you again my friend on the other side.

Ciara Kirby

May 4, 2018

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