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Benjamin Todd "Ben" DeRose

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Benjamin Todd "Ben" DeRose obituary, 2000-2021, Raleigh, NC

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Benjamin DeRose Obituary

Benjamin Todd "Ben" DeRose
April 13, 2000 - October 18, 2021
Raleigh, North Carolina - Benjamin Todd "Ben" DeRose, 21, of Raleigh, NC, went to be with his Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ, on the morning of October 18, 2021, due to injuries sustained in a pedestrian accident while walking home.
He was born on April 13, 2000 in Evry, France. From an early age, people were drawn to him for his kind heart and infectious smile. Ben was an excellent athlete in swimming, soccer and wrestling. Due to his hard work and determination, Ben was a nationally ranked wrestler in middle school and at the State level in high school. Ben earned the rank of Eagle Scout in 2016 with Troop 388. He graduated from Sanderson High School in 2018 and was finishing his senior year at North Carolina State University where he was pursuing a major in Microbiology. He became passionate about research during his internship with Pebble Labs in Los Alamos, New Mexico during the summer of 2019.
Ben was an active member and leader of the Beta Zeta chapter of Alpha Sigma Phi fraternity. He was affectionately known as "The Captain", because of his leadership as the new member educator. Ben was caring, kind and always had a strong shoulder to lean-on. He had a positive impact on everyone he met and his warmth and kindness will be greatly missed by his family and friends.
Memorial services will be held on Friday October 22nd at 3pm at Hope Lutheran Church in Wake Forest, North Carolina. Immediately following the memorial services will be a visitation at the church.
Ben was preceded in death by his paternal grandparents, Bob & Libbie DeRose. Ben is survived by his parents, Rick & Lanette DeRose of Sante Fe, NM; brother, Adam DeRose of Raleigh, NC; sister, Liza Fries & husband Michael of Bluffton, SC; nieces, Sarah Fries and Ella Rae Fries; nephew, Grady Theiling; maternal grandparents, Alfred & Bernice Boriack of Lincoln, TX; girlfriend, Eryn Szwarckop of Raleigh; aunts & uncles, Marty Braga (Paulo) of Standish, ME, RAD & Gayle DeRose of Victor, NY, Alton & Lynnette Boriack of Keller, TX and Nancy & James Walts of Ovilla, TX; cousins, Chris DeRose (Angela), Rob DeRose (Carmella), Libbie DiMarco (Trevor), Kyle Braga, Brooke Boriack, Raegan Boriack, Erin Walts and Austin Walts; numerous extended family members, his wrestling family, fraternity family and an endless list of close friends.
In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions can be made to a scholarship fund in Ben's honor: https://gofund.me/9ab9adeb
A service of Clancy Strickland Wheeler Funeral Home, 1051 Durham Road, Wake Forest, NC 27587. (919) 556-7400.
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Published by The News & Observer on Oct. 21, 2021.

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Oranell s Dunk

October 16, 2025

In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always. May God Bless your family and may memories remain.

ORANELL DUNK

October 22, 2021

So sorry for your tragic loss, Ben was a terrific gentlemen. May God be your strength and comfort. Praying for you and just know he has no more troubles in this world, he is With the Lord.

Lynn Senior

October 22, 2021

So very, very sorry to hear about Ben. There are no words I can say to ease the pain of this loss but please know you and your family are in my thoughts.

Barry and Sylvia Hildebrandt

October 21, 2021

Weeping with you. Rejoicing in our risen Savior who knew death and awaits His children.

Genichi Kakefuda

October 21, 2021

Dear Rick and family, my deep condolences. I know you are very proud of Ben´s accomplishments and his impact on all those he encountered. My heart and thoughts are with you.

Mike Jones, Troop 214, Raleigh, NC

October 21, 2021

Farewell Brother Scout and prayers for the DeRose Family.

Erik Legg

October 21, 2021

Rick, Lanette and Adam,
We all struggle to respond to your incomprehensible loss. I cannot imagine your angst. But I do know that Ben was well loved by you...and that he will continue to enjoy that blessing.

Martha Dunn

October 21, 2021

Dear Rick and family, I'm so sorry to hear of the tragic loss of your son. With heartfelt condolences.

Stacy & Paul Miles

October 21, 2021

Dear Rick and family,
Paul and I send our condolences on the tragic loss of your son. We know that there are no words that lift the pain from your heart.
With sympathy, Stacy & Paul

Dr. B. Jasmine Adams

October 20, 2021

With deepest condolences

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