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Benjamin Martindale Obituary

APRIL 19, 1922 - JUNE 24, 2008
Benjamin Joel Martindale, 86, passed away Tuesday, June 24, 2008.
He was born April 19, 1922, in Charleston, SC. Mr.
Martindale is survived by his wife, Donna Everett Martindale, to whom he was married for 60 years; son, Benjamin J. Martindale, II, and his wife, Nancy L. Martindale; and grandchildren, Amanda N. Martindale and Benjamin J. Martindale, III of Arlington, VA; and son, Barry N. Martindale, of Mt. Pleasant SC; also, a niece, Mrs. Shirley M. Slater and her husband, Dick of Portsmouth, VA.
He was the son of the late Wallace A. Martindale, Sr., and Maude M. Martindale, of Portsmouth, VA. He was preceded in death by his brother, Woodrow W. Martindale, and his wife, Dorothy S. Martindale, of Dunedin, FL.
Mr. Martindale attended the public schools in Portsmouth, VA and graduated from East Carolina Teachers' College (now East Carolina University), in Greenville, in 1950, following which he was Head of the Business Education Department at Chowan Junior College, Murfreesboro, before taking a position with the Atlantic Coast Line Railroad in Rocky Mount in 1951. He retired in 1985 as Claims Manager from CSX Transportation after 34 years of service.
Mr. Martindale was a Veteran of World War II; having served in the U.S. Navy in the Pacific Theatre, and he was a Life Member and Past Commander of VFW Post #2057, Rocky Mount. He served as Chairman of Cub Scout Pack #31 for 2 years, was a member of the Board of Directors for the former ACL RR. YMCA. and was President of Rocky Mount Little Tarheel League for five years. He was a member of the Masonic Lodge since April, 1943, Sudan Shrine Temple since June, 1946, Royal Order of Jesters since January, 1969, and was a Past President, as well as Past Secretary-Treasurer of Rocky Mount Shrine Club. Also, he was Past President and Past Secretary of the South Atlantic Shrine Chanters Association. Mr. Martindale was elected to Life Membership in the Rocky Mount Elks Lodge #1038 and was a Past Exalted Ruler and Past Secretary of the Elks Lodge. He was Past President and Past Secretary of the Senior Golf League at Birchwood Country Club and held a lifetime honorary membership at Birchwood Country Club, Nashville. Mr. Martindale served on the Advisory Board of Hospice and Palliative Care of Nash General Hospital for several years. He was a member of Dortches Baptist Church.
In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to: Hospice and Palliative Care of Nash Health Care Systems, 2460 Curtis Ellis Drive, Rocky Mount, NC 27804 or the Cripple Children's Hospital, P.O. Box 490, New Bern, NC 28563.
The family will receive friends Friday, June 27, 2008 from 7:00- 8:30 p.m. Wheeler & Woodlief Funeral Home, Rocky Mount, NC.
A funeral service will be held Saturday, June 28, 2008 at 11:00 a.m. at Dortches Baptist Church with Rev. Billy Howell officiating. A graveside service with Masonic Rites will be held in the Mausoleum at Rocky Mount Memorial Park immediately following the service.
Arrangements by Wheeler & Woodlief Funeral Home, 1130 North Winstead Avenue, Rocky Mount, NC 27804.
On-line condolences may be sent to the Martindale family by visiting www.wheelerandwoodlief.com

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Published by The News & Observer on Jun. 27, 2008.

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Flo & Dave ABEL

July 16, 2008

Donna,
My dear long lost cousin, I will never forget that once in a lifetime evening and afternoon we spent with you and Ben. We did not think it would be a once in a lifetime event, but we are so thankful that God gave us that time together...and the wonderful shrimp that Ben cooked with his own loving hands. God be with you and give you peace, as I am sure he has given Ben peace from suffering now.
Love always,

Norman Graham

June 28, 2008

Donna & Children, Ben was among the Greats. I met him during WW-II. We were in Radio School together. During our Railroad years I would see him at meeting in Rocky Mount. He had a built in smile and had an outgoing personality. He made a world of friends. Just want you to know that you are on our minds and in our prayers as you try to adjust to a new way of life without him.

Sincerely,
CSX Group in Richmond
Norman D. Graham
Richmond, Va.

Jeannette Runquist

June 28, 2008

Donna, I am so sorry to hear about Ben. He was one of my favorite relatives and I have many fond memories of him at the Sunday table eating Mama's fried chicken. Please know that you and the boys are in my thoughts

PAT BRADLEY

June 28, 2008

MR MARTINDALE WAS ALWAYS ONE OF MY FAVORITE "SENIORS" WHEN I WORKED AT BIRCHWOOD. HE WAS A GENTLEMAN AND I AM SURE HE WILL BE MISSED BY FRIENDS AND FAMILY. MY THOUGHTS..........

Bob and Joyce Wooten

June 27, 2008

Donna our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. I do hope you are doing better. I will be out to see you when my helper comes to sit with Bob.

Bill Taylor

June 27, 2008

Barry,

So sorry to hear of your father's passing.

May God bless you and all your family in this time of sorrow.

Bill Taylor (CSX)

Ed & Linda Bradley

June 27, 2008

We are so sorry to hear about Ben and so sorry Donna we can't be there with you right now. You both touched our hearts in so many ways!
You were the best neighbors but most importantly the best of friends to us!!!
Our thought and prayers are with you and your family always!
Ed, Linda, McKayla Bradley
Lamista(Bradley) Pawleska & Family

Dianne Hunter

June 27, 2008

Donna, It has been a long time since I have seen either of you but I know that Ben will be missed by all..he was such a good man and always had a smile and kindness in his heart..I will always love you both.

Berrie Smith

June 27, 2008

Mrs. Martindale and Barry,
I am so sorry to hear of the passing of Mr.Martindale. I was shocked to read about his death. If I can do anything don't hesitate to call. He was always so nice to me. I will keep you all in my prayers.

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