Carole May Reevy
May 5, 1933 - July 5, 2017
Durham
Our dear Carole---mother, grandmother, sister, aunt, and friend, passed away on July 5th due to complications following a stroke. Carole's husband of 56 years, Bill, passed away in March. Carole May Jones was born in La Habra, California, and had four brothers and sisters, older by ten to sixteen years. During her childhood Carole was an excellent student, a gifted artist, and a good athlete, participating in the swim team and synchronized swimming team. Carole graduated from Sacramento State College and attended graduate school for social work. She practiced as a social worker briefly. In Sacramento, Carole met Bill Reevy. Carole and Bill married in 1960 and had three children: Tony, Carolyn and Gretchen (twins). Carole and Bill's children consider Durham, North Carolina their home. Carole was a devoted mother. Her children are forever grateful for what she gave them. She taught them kindness and empathy, lightheartedness, love of learning, and a love of the arts. Carole also had several careers. She was a social worker, an assistant buyer, a showroom manager, and manager of a college bookstore. For her remaining career years she was a classroom teacher and was the reading specialist for Durham County Schools for 20 years until retirement. Carole and husband Bill shared many interests including books and reading, nature and music. Carole had some interests independent of Bill, especially athletics. She played tennis well into her 40's and was an avid swimmer. Carole and Bill spent most of their retirement in the Hilton Head area of South Carolina.
They loved their years there, enjoying many close friendships. While there, Carole practiced lap swimming and participated as an original member of the Sun City Synchronettes (synchronized swimming). Carole also pursued her passion for art, doing pottery that was both elegant and whimsical, and became a Juried Artisan in the South Carolina Artisans Guild. In 2014 Carole and Bill moved to Richmond, Virginia to live near their daughter Carolyn and her family, after Carolyn's daughter, Katie, passed away from acute myeloid leukemia at the age of 16. Carole is survived by three children: Tony Reevy (Caroline) of Durham, NC, Carolyn McKann (Dominic) of Richmond, VA, and Gretchen Reevy-Manning (Todd) of Oakland CA; by sister Claudia Miller of Lake Havasu City, AZ; by grandchildren Kerri Anderson, Lindley Reevy, Ian Reevy, and Faith McKann; by beloved nieces and nephews and many dear friends. Carole is predeceased by husband Bill Reevy, sister Fern Brewster (Jack) and brothers James Jones (Margie) and Leslie Jones, Jr., (JoAnn), brother-in-law Dale Miller and granddaughter Kathryn Lane "Katie" Anderson. In lieu of flowers please donate to
The Leukemia And Lymphoma Society, your local artists guild, or the
American Stroke Association. Services will be held on September 23, 2017, beginning at 3:00 p.m., at the Durham Friends Meetinghouse, 404 Alexander Ave., Durham, NC. The final resting place for Carole and Bill is in Maplewood Cemetery, Durham, NC. Carole was the best mother ever and she will be in our thoughts and hearts every day.
Published by The News and Observer on Jul. 21, 2017.