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Herbert Costolo Obituary

Herbert Lyons Costolo, III
December 25, 1962 – August 19, 2012
BUNN
Herbert Lyons Costolo, III, 49, of Bunn, NC, formerly of Pittsburgh, PA, died Sunday, August 19, 2012.
Herb is survived by his loving wife, Lisa; his son, Ben; and his daughter, Erin; his parents; Herbert and Emelie Costolo of Bluffton, SC; brothers, John Costolo (Tracy) of Australia, and Ronald Costolo of Pittsburgh, PA; sister-in-law; Jan Ross; and four nephews.
A memorial service will be held on Friday, August 24, 2012, at 5:00 p.m. at Bunn Baptist Church, 205 E. Jewett Ave., Bunn, NC 27508.
In lieu of flowers, the family requests that memorial gifts be sent to Occoneechee Council of Boy Scouts of America, P.O. Box 41229, Raleigh, NC 27629.
Arrangements are by Strickland Funeral Home & Crematory, Louisburg, www.stricklandfuneralhome.net

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The News & Observer on Aug. 23, 2012.

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Jean, Wendy,Brian, Lisa, Herb, Curt, Rob. Not sure of the Lady next to Rob.

Brian Stoltzfus

April 1, 2013

Lisa, The last time our paths crossed was at our wedding. See attached photo. We spent many memorable hours together on the PSU HPV project. I can't believe he is no longer with us at such a young age. My wife Jean and I are so sorry to hear this sad news.

Herb is steadying the HPV while our rider gets in before his race. I think this was Moffett Field in California...

Rob Kershner

April 1, 2013

Dear Lisa,

I am an old Friend of Herb's from Penn State. He was a good buddy of mine in Blue Band, Jazz Band, ASME and he was on the ASME Human Powered Vehicle Team that went to Santa Barbara, CA to race together... I was trying to re-connect with him and learned of his untimely passing. I am SO SORRY to hear. Please accept my sincere sympathies to you, your kids and your family. Herb will surely be missed by all.

February 10, 2013

Dear Lisa, Ben and Erin. I just found out about Herb and I am so terribly sorry. I know what a solid family you all were and how he will be missed. I too loved him from the day I first met him. We all miss you so much in our family. May God be with all of you and bring you peace and love. Love Mom/Grandmom

September 5, 2012

Herb and Emelie, Our prayers are with you. Warren and Trish Norris

September 5, 2012

Herb and Emelie, Our prayers are with you and your family. Warren and Trish Norris

Isabel Miller

September 2, 2012

Dear Lisa and family

I was with FM for 40 years and retired in 1994. I remember Herb well. What a wonderful Christian man. My deepest sympathies to all. He's with his Maker.
Isabel Miller

Bill Pennell

August 29, 2012

Mr and Mrs Costolo, John, and Ron,
I was deeply saddened by Herb's passing. I am touched by the outpouring of love, and memories that are being shared by all his friends. Herb and were such good friends growing up, I will always remember him. Herb touched many lives in his life, that is for sure. I am so happy I had him as a part of my life and am able to forever carry those great memories with me. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. Bill

Dottie and Dewey Botts

August 28, 2012

Our deepest regrets to your family.
Dottie and Dewey Botts
The Cabin Farm

Ann Kerr

August 26, 2012

I cannot even imagine what you are going through..You are in my thoughts and prayers.. God Bless you and strengthen you.. Love, Ann

August 26, 2012

Please know that our love and prayers are with you and your family Harriet Hair and Pat Shelburne from Hilton Head.

Irene Dinning (Chenzoff)

August 24, 2012

Dear Herb and Emelie - My deepest sympathies to you and your family on the death of your son. My heart and prayers go out to you.

Jeanne Morris

August 24, 2012

My prayers and sympathy to all of Herb's loved ones. The world is a sadder place without his beautiful soul in it. May the peace that passes all understanding comfort and sustain you.

Sami Hubbard

August 24, 2012

I am so sorry for your loss. Herb was a wonderful caring person who I will always hold dear in my heart. I spent the past year in contact with him again and am grateful for that reconnection. He was my boyfriend and prom date in high school so it was fun laughing and remembering our high school escapades again after all these years. I don't understand any of what happened but I know that he was a good person and we are all better for knowing him. I know i am. Much love to the family.

robert austin

August 23, 2012

pray that all that loved herbert would be comforted and held close by our great creator and savior in your time of loss. Amen

david voie

August 23, 2012

my deepest condolences to herbs family and friends.herb touched so many of us in many ways, you will be missed, N.A.81

Audrey Alford

August 23, 2012

We miss you.

Audrey Alford

August 23, 2012

My heart goes out to the family of Herb Costolo. I grew up knowing Herb as a fun-loving guy and very free spirited. He had such an influence on me during his last months of living. Herb was always smiling and laughing. He is missed by many. I am sorry to hear of this and wish I could be at the funeral.

greg and lori inman

August 23, 2012

We were very sorry to learn of your loss. Herb was a good man and we will miss him. If we can do anything to help now or in the future, we are here for you.

Peter Fleckenstein

August 23, 2012

Herb is such a great person! I had so much fun with him in the Breezewood days! He might not be here with us physically anymore but he has left a lasting impression with me to this day. My thoughts and prayers go out to the Costolo family. God Bless!

Greg Finkelstein

August 23, 2012

my condolences to Herb's family. I met him at Ingomar Middle school in Pittsburgh. Herb was a kind and gentle soul. I hadn't seen him since we all left NA in 1981. I see he lived in Bunn, NC and I'm not far from there. I wish I knew he was so close. My thoughs and prayers to his family.

August 23, 2012

My heart goes out to you. Herb was such a good person. He was very kind to me when I transferred to NA Jr. year. I didn't have many friendly faces in the halls that year, but Herb's was one of the few I had. I am still grateful. I am so sorry for your loss.

Suzanne Landry, NA '81

Sally Yeager-Hart

August 23, 2012

Dear Costolo Family, I am one of the many friends of Herb's from all the way back to Espe Elementary school. It was a blessing to get reacquainted with Herb at our high school reunion last summer in Pittsburgh. We laughed at the old school pictures and about the memories of childhood fun. He was the same sweet spirit that I recall. I am deeply saddened at his passing. Please know he touch many hearts over his years. May you be comforted by God's grace in your time of sorrow.

Phillip Wain

August 23, 2012

Deepest condolences to Herb's family.

North Allegheny "81"

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