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Kendall Schmidt Obituary
Kendall Cameron Schmidt, 20, of New Fairfield, CT passed away on Wednesday, Nov. 27, 2013 at Yale New Haven Hospital after a 3 year long, valiant battle with Hodgkin's Lymphoma. He was the son of Carola I. Schmidt of New Fairfield and Peter J. Cucchiara of Pawling, NY.
Kendall Schmidt was born in Danbury, CT and attended New Fairfield Schools and was a 2011 graduate of New Fairfield High School. His favorite volunteer activity was to work for the School Computer Service Department with Frank and Denise at New Fairfield High School. Kendall attended Naugatuck Valley Community College. He was a self-employed Network Engineer and had most recently worked as a Computer Specialist at Ssaris Advisors in Wilton, CT.
Kendall enjoyed being with his many friends Will, Matt, Jeff, and Zach working on his vehicles, computers, robotics, and hanging out. In addition to his parents, he is survived by his sister Loren Caitlin Schmidt of New Fairfield, his half siblings Arielle Cucchiara of New Jersey and Stephen Cucchiara of Colorado, his grandparents Francis Cucchiara of Quincy, MA and Irmgard Schmidt of New Fairfield, CT and his Uncle who spent many days with him at the hospital.
Friends will be received on Friday, Dec 20th, 2013 from 4:00 pm -8:00 pm at the Green Funeral Home, 57 Main St., Danbury. Memorial Services will be held Saturday, Dec 21st, 2013 at 11:00 am at The Lutheran Church of the Good Shepherd, Route 37 and Colonial Road, New Fairfield, Connecticut 06812 with the Rev. Eric Wismar, Pastor, officiating. Burial will be at the convenience of the family.
It was Kendall's wishes that donations be made in lieu of flowers. Please send contributions to the following charitable organizations: Friends of Karen, Westchester Headquarters, 118 Titicus Road, North Salem, NY 10560 (914) 277-4547; The Yvette and Arthur Eder Foundation\The Tommy Fund for Childhood Cancer, Smilow Cancer Hospital at Yale-New Haven, 20 York St., New Haven, CT 06510 (800) 974.5559 [email protected]; CT Make-A-Wish Foundation, 126 Monroe Turnpike Trumbull, CT 06611 (203) 261-9044 ct.wish.org or participate by donating in future events held by " Karing for Kelly" run by George Korres of Nico's Pizza & Pasta on Main Street, Danbury and Lew Lombardo of Ultimate Restoration in Danbury who donate funds to CT Children's Medical Center in Hartford and a local child/young adult dealing with cancer/serious illness. Not only did the donations help but the grand block party (A Karing Krowd) was one of the happiest times for Kendall where he felt like a celebrity.
For further information or to express your condolences on-line go to www.thegreenfuneralhome.com
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Memories and Condolences
for Kendall Schmidt
Peter Cucchiara
September 9, 2014
Remembering you on your birthday
Kendall working on his truck
January 17, 2014
Nadia Asif
December 28, 2013
I haven't really talked to you since 2009, but you were always a funny, smart guy and honestly, a lot of my knowledge of how to use Macs came from you. I know you've struggled with a lot in your life and I'm happy that at least you won't have to suffer anymore. Say hi to Brandon for us up there. R.I.P., Kendall.
Rob Frederick
December 28, 2013
This is sad, RIP Kendall Schmidt thanks for meeting me at the gumball meet this summer.. I had a lot of fun. And thank you for all the advice on modding my car. Rest easy brother.
Amy Craw
December 28, 2013
The last time I talked to you was during People to People, but I haven't forgotten the memories we share, and never will. RIP friend.
Pat Rowan
December 28, 2013
We only had a few chances to hang out in person after People to People, but you were a good person and a great friend, and I'll always be thankful for those nights where you stayed up with me and we ranted about the world together. RIP.
Mike Stenzler
December 28, 2013
I am so sad and sorry - I wish I weren't writing this. Farewell Kendall. My life and the lives of many others have been made richer by your presence and good cheer. Ad Astra Per Aspera.
A. Mann
December 21, 2013
Elegy
Weighted words cannot dance or air
The elements rare verbs declare,
Like water would not seek its lowest level
Nor tears roll but for gravities, grace and gratitude.
What moves our waters moves us.
Yet we are left and left behind
With these sun haunted shadowless spaces,
Pulse vacant, footfall silent, flashback phantom feeling
Part heart parted amputees
Resentful of the disorderly interruption and disdain
For our attachments, for no heart holds such sorrow
Without leaking like a secret secreted involuntarily,
Selectively, and inevitably.
And remembrance, Ah yes remembrance
That sees the hard going
And the going that forgets us well in forgiveness,
And gravities that tug and hold gratitude's
Weightless words and wordless worth.
December 20, 2013
Our deepest sympathies, from Claudia and Andy Henry and family.
December 20, 2013
Dearest Carola,
My empathy, more than sympathy, upon the loss of Kendall. I spoke to Jen MacKenzie today regarding my son... also soon at Smilow, and she shared with me news of yours. I also spoke with Doug. Do know I will have you in my thoughts and prayers. Carolyn
Donna Harris
December 20, 2013
Carolla,
Bob and I are truly sorry for the lose of your son, May God help you thru this time of such great sorrow.
Bob and Donna Harris (NY)
David Dickson
December 19, 2013
I only knew Kendall through Facebook from being a member of Linux friends.I am deeply sad to learn of his passing.May he rest in peace and his family and friends be comforted at this time of their loss. From David in Dublin,Ireland.
Kevin and Linda Miorrissey
December 19, 2013
We are so sorry for the lose of Kendall. It has been years since I have been to the Knolls but my boys, Kevin and Brian remember him so very well. They spoke of how intelligent he was with cars and gave them advice at times.
Our prayers are with you
Kevin and Brian MORRISSEY
December 19, 2013
I am so sorry you left this world so soon. We could of learned a lot more from you, You will be missed
T. Cicchini
December 19, 2013
A star has ascended into the universe, for a brief time, I met Kendall at work and he was a true joy and shining persona. I wondered what a wonderful family he must have come from - I am grateful to know someone of his stature. Surely our world will not be the same without his aurora. My thoughts and prayers go out to all the friends and family.
Kristin C
December 17, 2013
Kendall was such an awesome friend I made while he was in Smilow. I met him a while ago and at first he never would talk to me. All it took was one question and that was do you like Jurassic Park? After that we talked everyday while I was in his room. More and more we got to know each other and made plans to hang out one day. He really inspired me a lot and I'll always cherish our memories together. I'll never forget that first question I asked to begin a friendship. I hope he is happy where he is and I'll always keep him in my mind and heart. Rest in peace buddy.
December 15, 2013
I only knew you for a short semester but I've thought about you every now and then since that semester and would check your Facebook just to make sure you were doing good. You had such a great personality. You made an impact on my life and you never even knew it. Thank you for showing me that it doesn't matter how bad life gets, there is still a way to be happy.. It's just all in how you handle it. Rest easy Kendall
Mary Beth Augustine
December 15, 2013
Kendall, you were engaging. You'd probably hate to hear that description, and probably favored yourself more of an enigma- like Steve Jobs- and his quote you so liked... "Here's to the crazy ones, the misfits, the rebels, the troublemakers, the round pegs in the square holes... the ones who see things differently -- they're not fond of rules..." But, on a train ride, in a group of old people (yes, me included :-), you found a way to engage, interact, and converse animatedly, with people decades older than you. Your humor and intellect made a traditionally boring commute much more tolerable, and even fun. I looked forward to seeing you on the train with your Dad. And, we got to share our cancer war stories- mine with Hodgkin's at 22, so I felt I could relate so easily to you, even though I was an old lady in my forties :-) Then we became Facebook friends- and I really got to see how special you were. It was clear you were extremely loyal to your friends and loved ones, were a person of great character (and a character, too!), had an encyclopedic knowledge of computers and cars, and had an indefatigable spirit in the face of chronic illness. To put it succinctly, you were a lovely young man, the kind of young man I'd have been happy to see my daughters date, and I was delighted to have known. And, to paraphrase liberally from Steve Jobs quote... I saw you as genius, changing a part of the world, and the people who knew you in it. You will not be forgotten. I'll miss you my train and Facebook buddy.
December 15, 2013
Loren & family,
We are so sorry to hear about your brothers passing. From what you have told us, it sounds like your brother was a caring person and a fighter. I know you miss him but he is not in pain anymore. Hang on to all the good times you shared and his great smile. You and your family will continue to be our thoughts & prayers. Love, Kelly, Cody, Zach, Casey & Jake Goodan
Your Sister
December 14, 2013
I had a dream about you the other night. It further causes me to believe that you're still with me/us and only your physical body has parted. I hope the universe is treating you well out there. You are missed.
shannon mcbride
December 14, 2013
I know I haven't been to New Fairfield since like 2005, but I remember hanging out at your house with you, my brother, and Loren like it was yesterday. We had some great times growing up, the 4 of us going to the park by the high school, trick or treating together every year.. You were my brothers best friend growing up, and you and all the other kids we grew up in the Knolls will always be my best friends. I shared the greatest days of my life with you guys and I'll never forget that. As painful as it is to know you're gone, I also feel comfort in knowing you fought long and hard and you are no longer sick and in pain. Rest in peace my friend. You and your wonderful family will never be forgotten by me or my family,no matter how far away we are.
December 14, 2013
i miss kendall but im happy your not in pain. you were an amazing person and made people question their view on life. you showed people their is hope and to never give up, just like you never gave up..
Tina Craven
December 14, 2013
Kendall, I hope you're happy among the stardust. You've always been a wonderfully brilliant person. You were always such an honest, down to earth individual. I can't find the words to express how kind and funny you really were but, I don't have to tell you who you were because you've always known yourself.
l will miss you and all of our sassy exchanges. It has been an honor and a privilege to know you.
Laura Vannucci
December 14, 2013
I remember back in middle school when me, you and Loren would hang out after school- we'd play in the snow or make a fortress out of sticks, and then Loren and I would make some sort of craft afterwards and you'd laugh at us haha. And then of course there was the memorable time we blew up a peep in the microwave at your Dad's house. In recent years you would talk cars or computers to me and while I didn't know a lot of what you were saying, it always impressed me how much you knew and that a lot of it you taught yourself. I always loved your snarky sense of humor, although I probably never told you haha. Your life was cut way to short and you will be sorely missed by many- but I know that you made the best of the time that you had. Say hi to my dad for me, I'm sure he'll be glad to see you. Rest in peace Kendall.
Tiffany Foshay
December 14, 2013
You were such a wonderful friend to everyone you knew and cared about and everyone who had the privilege of meeting you and being in your life knows that. You were always there to help everyone despite any other situation and you went day by day with a smile on your face, one that no one will ever forget. I do and always will miss you terribly but I will always remember those wonderful times we had together and everything that you taught me. I'll never forget our endless hours of laughter and smiles nor the adventures that we would take. You will always be in my thoughts and in every aspect of my life.
Erica Bilquin
December 10, 2013
Kendall.. I cannot even begin to find the right words for all that I want to say.. I want to share my memories and thoughts about you; but no words could do you justice. You were more than just great, nice, funny.. you had something in you that most people lack. You had courage to be yourself, and the strength and fight to keep conformity from bending you. I respect that. ... Even those words cannot fully describe the person you were.. anyone could read the messages we leave for you and think they know what kind of person you were; but you're more than just words on a page. And I promise you, that the memories you have left with us will keep you from ever becoming anything less.
I miss you. Save me a seat in heaven, and don't play sardines without me
Therese Giuliano
December 9, 2013
Kendall was such an amazing friend and person to everyone he met..., to have had known you for so long was an honor. The many car rides in the cobra and your truck were so much fun and I will always remember the good memories that we had together. I still have that little blue stuffed bunny you gave me when we were going out and will always keep it with me. I know you are at peace now and know that we will be able to see eachother again in the future. I love you and miss you..
Russ & Cindy Kaye
December 8, 2013
We were so sorry to hear that Kendall lost his very strong and brave battle. Every time we walk outside we picture him working on his car or truck. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
David Hykes
December 7, 2013
You were a great friend who knew more about computers and cars then I did. You were a great person with a fighters heart. Rest in Peace dude
Katherine Will
December 7, 2013
You where my rock when I need one. I will miss you I will have story's for you see you soon my rock
Richard Frey
December 6, 2013
You taught me so many great things in life. Every time I saw you, you had a smile on your face, despite what you'd been going through. You truly were one of a kind. I had many things left to say to you, and I'll make sure I say them clear to the sky. It's so sad to know that you're gone from this world, but one day we will meet again. I will always think of you and miss you. Rest easy my friend.
Lauren S
December 5, 2013
So many memories from growing up with you and Loren that will never go away. You were a good friend and a great person to talk to. Miss you.
Katie Pollack
December 4, 2013
It is still so hard to admit you are gone. You were an amazing friend, and one of my first at NFHS. You were so smart, and so kind to me and made me feel welcome. And as I got to know you more, the more awesome I thought you were. I'm so glad I had the chance to know you. While I am sad you are gone, you will never be forgotten. The sky has gained a new star, and it shines so brightly...Gone, but never forgotten. I hope that Kendall's family can find peace knowing that he had friends who cared about him and will always treasure their memories of him.
Joanna Hilburn
December 4, 2013
Carola, I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. Kendall was such a great kid--so kind and witty. He put up an incredible fight and taught us much about strength and courage. My sincerest condolences.
Patricia Fox
December 4, 2013
It's been a long time since the trip to Europe but I still remember it and treasure the memories. I'm thankful I had the chance to have you as a friend. RIP
Nancy Harris
December 4, 2013
I am so sorry for this loss to your family and to everyone who had the pleasure of knowing Kendall. I hope the happy memories shared will help you through this time of sadness.
Chris Cucchiara
December 3, 2013
I only wish I had the opportunity to meet my cousin in this mortal coil. I will hopefully get to meet this fine man in a far land beyond one day. My condolences to all family and friends who this beacon of light touched. God bless.
Matt McKeon
December 3, 2013
i miss you so much you were my best friend we would just drive around for hours with no destnation in mind youll always have a special place in. my heart i love and miss you
Matt McKeon
December 3, 2013
"I will always cherish the times that I spent with you in the Cobra going to car shows or just driving for hours with no destination in mind you were my best friend and I will always have a special place in my heart for you lived your life to the fullest"
Michael McColgan
December 3, 2013
"There is no greater loss, than losing a loved one, for there is no greater gift than having them there, but no matter how far they seem, our love will never be lost".
Michael McColgan
December 3, 2013
"There is no greater loss, than losing a loved one, for there is no greater gift than having them there, but no matter how far they seem, our love will never be lost".
shannon ouellette
December 3, 2013
My heart is filled with special memories growing up with you and your sister. Theose memories will always stay close at heart. You will be greatly missed and forever loved.
Lew Lombardo
December 3, 2013
My name is Lew Lombardo I enjoyed being friends with Kendall I love his reaction when my son took him for a ride in my Camaro he will always be a part of me.
Leonard Lorusso
December 3, 2013
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. Our deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.
The Marvelwood School Maintenance Dept.
Betty Haskell
December 3, 2013
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.
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