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Stephen Blayney Obituary
January 9, 1976 - May 7, 2024
Stephen Charles Blayney passed away peacefully, surrounded by his loving family, on May 7, 2024. Born in Danbury, CT on January 9, 1976, to Howard and Elaine Blayney, Stephen was a proud graduate of Danbury High School, where he was always full of hometown spirit. He served on student government and was an exceptional soccer goalie and athlete. Stephen continued his education at Northeastern University in Boston, MA, earning his Physical Therapy degree in 1999.
After graduation, Stephen devoted himself to a career aimed at helping others heal. Specializing in sports injuries, he had the honor to work with incredible professional athletes in basketball and baseball. His intelligence and compassion gave him the ability to treat and heal thousands of clients over the years, leaving a lasting impact on many.
Stephen found joy in life's simple pleasures, cherishing moments with loved ones and embracing the beauty of everyday experiences. Whether fishing, enjoying music, hosting backyard barbecues, playing golf, cooking, shooting pool, or simply appreciating a stunning sunset, Stephen lived each moment to the fullest. He believed in "giving love, as life is too precious and sweet not to," a guiding principle he embraced while treasuring every moment with his children and spreading his infectious zest for life wherever he went.
Stephen is survived by his 3 beautiful and talented children, Walter, Bennett, and Natalie Blayney of Winston Salem, NC; his loving mother, Elaine Blayney; his caring sisters, Cynthia (Michael) Henry and Michelle (Gerald) Brissette; the mother of his children, Deborah; several nieces and nephews; great-nephews, aunts, uncles, godparents, and many dear friends. He now rests in eternal peace, joined by his predeceased father, Howard Blayney.
Please join us in celebrating Stephen's vibrant life on June 8th, at 1 p.m. at St. Thomas Church in Bethel, CT.
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Memories and Condolences
for Stephen Blayney
Pat and Tom Barnola
June 8, 2024
We have known the Blayney family for over fifty years. Watching the children grow up with our children always held a special place in our hearts.
We loved Stephen as if he were our son. He was very vibrant and always smiling and happy to see us. We will miss him.
Our love and prayers go to Elaine, Michele and
Cyndi and the rest of the family.
Joseph
June 5, 2024
Rest in peace my friend. You will be missed and not forgotten. heartfelt condolences to the family
Casey Tate (wife of Robbie Tate)
June 3, 2024
Steven and my husband met just a couple years ago, and very quickly became friends. Though I wasn't so sure how to take his up-beat, fun self at first, he came to be someone both my husband and I could confide in, and reach out to in our lowest points. I'm so glad we got to have that last phone conversation where apologies were spoken, and accepted over past issues and he comforted me through the grief of losing my daughter this past year. He truly had such a big heart, and was genuinely a person you could talk to, cry with, and share your deepest feelings without judgment. It breaks my heart to hear of his passing, my husband and I had been trying to contact him for the last month fearing this, as we knew he had been sick. Though I'm glad he's no longer suffering, I also hate that the world lost such a good soul.
Anka Roberto
May 19, 2024
To my beautiful friend Michelle, We know how much you loved your bother and how hard you fought for him. May you find peace knowing he´s resting now and fully restored in Jesus´ name. Love you!
Anka and family
Tracy Smith (Danbury Ortho)
May 17, 2024
Cyndi,
So sad to hear about the loss of your brother. I hope new joy comes into your life to fill part of the void Steve leaves behind. Peace to your entire family.
Wei
May 16, 2024
It's still hard to believe that someone so vibrant and full of life has passed away. I still remember the day my wife and I first met with Steve. He and little Walter brought us brownies to welcome us to the Clifton neighborhood. Since then he always took care of us, and left us so many wonderful memories.
My heartfelt condolences to the family and friends of Steve. His kindness and willingness to help will be deeply missed. Rest in peace, Steve.
Cheryl Fernandes
May 16, 2024
Saddened by the death of Steve . Didn't want to see him die so young . Will always remember him with fondness . His loving ways, giving nature and caring for others has touched us .Will stand by Deb and his sweet kids . Condolences to his mum and sisters
Jalene Peaspanen
May 15, 2024
I´m so sorry to hear about this! My thoughts and prayers are with you all!
Andee M Nunn
May 15, 2024
Condolences and prayers from your old neighbors. When we moved across the street, sweet Elaine brought welcoming cookies. That was our introduction to a beautiful family. Stephen was engaging & talented. We remember him fondly & pray peace for all of you. Sincerely, Ronnie, Andee, Ilana & Alexi
WENDY COHEN
May 15, 2024
Steve and I became friends when he gave me an opportunity to work at Kinetic PT as an aide/personal trainer. It was immediately clear, what a magnetic person and talented practitioner Steve was. With open arms, he welcomed my best friends into his fold bc Steve loved and genuinely cared for others. And boy, did he love to have fun. From DMB concerts to the legendary Octoberfests, to sharing mixed cds of our party lists, my memories of Steve abound. I am extremely sad to learn of his passing. I will treasure my memories of the short time he was present in my life. RIP my friend.
Love, Dawn and Kevin
May 15, 2024
Dear Cyndi and family, we thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.
Shantilal Patel-Home Ilaben-Rayam
May 15, 2024
My heartfelt condolences to all and may God be with him and accept him with open arms.
Shantilal Patel
Harold F. Evans, Jr.
May 14, 2024
To the entire Blayney family, I send you my deepest sympathy and condolences. You will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Sara Nemerov
May 14, 2024
Clipboard Steve, I will miss you for the rest of my life. Besties since we were 5. What will I do without you?
Jen Baldwin
May 14, 2024
One of my favorite memories of Steve, other than at our engagement and wedding, is when he and Deb had us over for Oktoberfest. He was dressed in Lederhosen and grilling some mean bratwurst while our kids played together in the yard. Steve was so fun, welcoming, and full of smiles. I´m so grateful to have those memories of him forever.
Vijay Nazareth
May 14, 2024
Steve (or Steve-O as we called him!) touched our lives in ways we could never have imagined. So very grateful for the good times we shared and for his thoughtful, caring ways.
Love, thoughts and prayers go out to the family.
Vijay, Giselle, Caroline, Reanna and Jayden
Jeff. E
May 14, 2024
I played on the Danbury High Freshman Basketball Team with Steve, He was a Natural Leader on and off the floor! Extremely Sorry.
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