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Bernadine Bray Obituary

On March 1, 2015 Bernadine Bray; 77 years old entered into eternal rest. She was born April 22, 1937 in Franklin, LA. Bernadine was the daughter of the late Callie Bray and Merville Bray. She leaves to cherish her memory one brother Chester Bray of Atlanta, Ga.; her devoted niece and caregiver Lydia "Ezy" Hunter of New Orleans; a host of nieces, nephews, great nieces and great nephews. Bernadine " Bern" was preceded in death by three sisters; Frances L. Crockett; Mercedes Bray; LulaMae Bray. Relatives and friends of the family; employees of Caring Concept for Life, LLC; and members of Franklin Avenue Baptist Church are invited to attend the services. A funeral will be held at The Boyd Family Funeral Home; 5001 Chef Mentuer Hwy. On Friday March 13, 2015 at 1pm. Interment St. Louis Cemetery #3. Visitation 12 noon

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Published by The Times-Picayune from Mar. 10 to Mar. 11, 2015.

Memories and Condolences
for Bernadine Bray

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Jimmie Bray

March 1, 2016

I feel you Lydia, I know what you mean...I miss all my people thats gone. .but we got to keep on pushing. .every day I have memories ,,but I always say to myself, ,do my family want me to worry,be down,or get into a deep depression, sad..,,you know the answer to that.No..I ask the Lord give me strength to keep pushing. ..

Ezy

February 29, 2016

Missing You so much....

Ezy

February 29, 2016

Bern March the 1 will never be the same for me...You left our home we shared on March 1 2015 to go to your Heavenly Home to be with the Lord...I miss you so much ..my days are so lonely and my nights are so restless...It's not a day go by I'm not thinking about you...Love You Bern..R.I.P.

Niece Lydia

April 22, 2015

Happy Birthday Bern...RIP! Missing You 04/22/15-03/01/15

Niece Lydia

April 22, 2015

Happy Birthday to you...Happy Birthday Dear Bern.....Happy Birthday To You...I miss you so so much...Lord I Miss You..RIP

Niece Lydia

April 21, 2015

Hi Bernadine,I haven't been on here in a while to talk to you....It's just I have been go through allot...especially Missing You..I still have some health problems but as you know I gave them to God...Well tomorrow is your Bday..it will be a sad time for me,,Guess What? I will still have Ice Cream & Cake..With Blade & Dollar...Love You

Lydia

April 4, 2015

Love You And Miss You...So Much!

Lydia

April 3, 2015

In My Pocket

I have memories in my pocket.
They rattle among the change.

My memories of you are treasures I carry wherever I go.

They are stored in bits and pieces, parts of a beautiful whole
They give me comfort when I think I am alone.

Yes, I have memories in my pocket, like so much other stuff I keep there.

But of all the treasures I have, it's the memories of you that are the most precious.

By Lamaretta Simmons

Ezy

April 1, 2015

Missing You Bern So Much...RIP Ole Girl...❤

Patricia Guy ..Niece

April 1, 2015

Bern,not a day go by you are not thought about..I miss you I know you are at peace now...But you is truly Miss...Love You ❤

Your Niece Troy

April 1, 2015

Missing You Auntee Bern...RIP!

Blade & Dollar

April 1, 2015

Barking all the way to heaven..to let you know we miss you..It's been a month today 4/1/15

De'Sean Rodney & Bee

April 1, 2015

Hi Auntee Bern,Well it's have been a month already that the Lord called his Angel home..We miss you so much you was the light of our family...Love you...

Lydia'Ezy' Hunter

April 1, 2015

Here it is April 1,it's one month you have been gone to your heavenly home..I miss you so much...all I do is stay in this house hoping I'll see you going to the bathroom and stopping by my door to tell me..you made pee I'm having such a hard time dealing with the lose of my only best friend....Love You Bern

De'Sean Rodney & Bee

March 28, 2015

We Miss You so much Aunt Bern,not a day go by we don't bring up your name..We know you are at peace now ...

Ezy

March 27, 2015

I'm Missing you everyday...My life is so empty...

Lydia

March 27, 2015

Missing You....

Lydia,Blade & Dollar

March 23, 2015

It have been 3 weeks since you went to your heavenly home..I want you to rest on Bern,We just Miss You So Much!

Jimmie Bray

March 23, 2015

Yes indeed. Yes indeed; ; time fly, and I know life goes on, we got to keep living and keep pushing, I feel your pain Lydia...that's the reason to enjoy your love ones while they here..

Lydia'Ezy' Hunter

March 22, 2015

Well Bern,I haven't been here to talk to you in two days..I have been trying to get enough strength to get out this house and do some things. I know you wouldn't want me just laying around grieving like I'm doing..but Bern the hurt I'm feeling I don't want to do anything..I miss you so so much..I know Bern you was tired and ready to go to your heavenly home...Love You ❤...

Ezy

March 19, 2015

Chile I'm sitting here watching Scandal,you know how i do on a Thursday...I'm so use to saying Bern,you watching something..and you saying yea!I still find myself wanting to ask that...but those days are gone...You have left this house for your Home in heaven...Love You and Missing You so much..I'll come back tomorrow..

Ezy ,Blade & Dollar

March 18, 2015

We Miss You Bern..
This house is not the same..

Lydia'Ezy' Hunter

March 18, 2015

Just laying here remembering our times together...we had some good and some bad times..Bern our good times was many..well just had to let you know I'm so lonely with out you in my life..Missing You So Much...

Blade & Dollar

March 17, 2015

Barking all the way to Heaven..Missing You

Ezy Hunter

March 17, 2015

Well I just finish looking at the haves and the have nots...you know how I would be on a Tuesday...and you would be looking at Law and Order...and I would say...Bern what you looking at...you would say..Murder!! Lord I Miss You! I sit here on this loveseat looking at your door waiting for you to come out and go to the bathroom...knowing you have gone home to be with the Lord..Bern I love you!

Lydia'Ezy' Hunter

March 17, 2015

Bern I haven't been to sleep all I do is lay in this bed thinking about you and looking for you to pass going to the bathroom...Bern I know I got to let you go and some say....I'm being selfish..but I'm not ready to do that...so Bern I hope you understand...I love and miss you so much....Missing You!

Ezy

March 16, 2015

I'm Missing You Ole Girl!!

Blade & Dollar

March 14, 2015

Missing You!

Ezy

March 14, 2015

Well Bern,Here it is March 14,2015 a day after you was laid to REST and I'm having a real hard time knowing i won't see you again on this side of the earth you meant so much to me..even when we was having a hard time dealing with each other..lol we knew we would be alright and we was still together..God don;t make mistakes and he was ready for you to come home..it will be 2wks.tomorrow..I miss you so much...I love you and you will always be in my heart..i'll be back tomorrow to talk to you..Rest On...

Lawanda Blackmon

March 14, 2015

So selfishly I prayed for you to stay here with us. Now I take comfort in knowing that you are safe and with God. I love you Bern!!

Sharon Bray-Rogers

March 13, 2015

To the family, may the LORD JESUS give strength to endure. My deepest sympathy. Bernadine had a great life on earth, just imagine what awaits in HEAVEN.

Terry Hamilton

March 13, 2015

My Dearest Auntie you will be missed so much. Lydia I know your heart is Heavy but she is in good hands . You took very good care of our Aunt. You were the only family that had my back when my mother was sick and came help with Auntie Bern. You are a good cousin and a great niece. You took Auntie ever where you went. Ms. Bernardine Bray had a good exciting extraordinary life with you. Thank you so much for taking care of her. Auntie now you can rest no more pain we will truly meet again. Will miss you so much. RIP

Katie Cenance- Jones

March 13, 2015

As you go through this difficult things can cause us to ask, "Why did this happen?" But if we're trusting in Christ we never need to ask, "How could He let this happen?" God may never reveal all His reasons to us, but He has revealed His character to us. His Character assures us that He never makes mistakes, is never uncaring, and that He never separates Himself form our needs. Aunt Bernie we will miss you. Love, Katie, Ashley, Lydia, Keitha, and Darrius Jones

Lynell Hunter

March 12, 2015

Bern you were family to our family and you will be missed more than words can say. Out all the rest, God only pick the Best. Love Lulie!

March 12, 2015

We will miss you Bern...RIP...Larrynique

GLORIA LEBLANC

March 12, 2015

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Thomas J Franklin III

March 11, 2015

May the Light of our Lord and Savior Jesus the Christ, guide, comfort and keep you during this difficult time in your life...

Thomas J. Franklin, III

Rose Lewis

March 11, 2015

I'm praying for you and family!!!God will give you the strength you need...I'm hear if you need me...Ezy production!!!!!

De'Sean Landry

March 11, 2015

Love You Aunt Bern..RIP

March 11, 2015

My condolence goes out to the Bray family on the passing of your dear loved one. May your hearts be filled with the beautiful memories you shared and may you find comfort in gods promise at John 6 : 40

Helen Bovie

March 11, 2015

Bern, you had become apart of our whole family..we love you so much...you Will truly be miss....

L

March 11, 2015

May God give you the strength you need at this most difficult time. Deepest sympathy.

Patricia Guy

March 11, 2015

You will truly be miss ...You had a good life...Lydia. I know your heart is heavy.and you will miss her...You really gave her a very good and fun loving life...Rest on Bern.....

Laura Wiggins

March 11, 2015

Lifting Family in Prayers.I pray that God console your hearts at this time.

Caring Concepts For Life, LLC

March 11, 2015

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Terri and Lasabre St.Cyr

March 11, 2015

I pray GOD comforts you in this time of bereavement. Rest now Auntie Bern, job well done, enter into the kingdom of heaven and receive your long awaited crown OUR HEAVENLY FATHER will say. You will surely be missed. Amen.

Kathleen Rainey

March 11, 2015

Rest in peace Bern!

Kathleen Rainey

March 11, 2015

Gone but not forgotten RIP Bern it's not gonna be the same without your beautiful smile,to the family weeping may endur for a night but joy cometh in the morning ! Praying for strength ♡♡♡♡

Julia Moore

March 11, 2015

I remember you in the rocking chair all the time and us playing with paper dolls. I am glad you were blessed with a long beautiful life. May God rest your soul Aunt Bern!

Niece Ezy

March 11, 2015

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998

Ezy Hunter

March 11, 2015

I miss you so much Bern, I know you are at peace no more pain no more doctor appointments..now you can rest...I love you and I know we will meet again. .♡♡♡

Jimmie Bray Jr.

March 10, 2015

Bernadine Bray,..this is Jimmie Bray Jr. your newphew and also your lil brother lol...2006 Bienville St. was the house where we grow up at and where family gather...the good old days..Love you, Lula mae Bray, Stanley King Bray, and Jimmie Bray Sr..R.I.P.

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