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Fay Gaines Obituary

Fay Ann Jackson Gaines, 70, formerly of New Orleans, LA, resident of Hammond, LA, departed this life on Friday, December 14, 2018. Fay was born on July 1, 1948 to the late Henry Sr. and Lillie S. Jackson. She was married to the love of her life, Ronald Gaines, for over 49 years. When she became ill, they embraced life to the fullest sharing and nurturing their love for each other. Fay's love was unconditional and her caring spirit continued until her death. A graduate of Booker T. Washington Senior High School (1966) and Southern University where she received her Bachelor's Degree in Business Administration in 1989. Fay was a former employee with the City of New Orleans Sanitation Department for 34 years until her retirement. She leaves to cherish her memory and legacy, her devoted husband, Ronald Gaines, four siblings, Henry Jackson, Jr., Ronald L. Jackson, Pam J. Sherbia (Odenton, Maryland) and Jacqueline (Thomas) Jones (Silver Spring, Maryland) and a host of other relatives and friends. Relatives and friends are invited to attend the Celebration of Life at Charbonnet Labat Glapion Funeral Home on Friday, December 21, 2018, at 11:00 A.M. Visitation begins at 10:00 A.M. Interment, Mt. Olivet Cemetery, New Orleans, LA. Pastor Tara Alexander, Officiating.

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Published by The New Orleans Advocate from Dec. 19 to Dec. 21, 2018.

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Pam Sherbia

July 3, 2022

Pam Sherbia

July 3, 2022

Pam Sherbia

July 3, 2022

The pain of not having you near is so very real. I celebrated your birthday this year with joyfulness knowing that you have Mom, Dad, your sister, Barbara, and your brother, Jessie, with you. I looked at your pictures several times remembering the kindness you had for everyone. I heard your laughter and your voice encouraging those around to enjoy their life. I loved you then, I love you now, I´ll love you forever for the rest of my life. Happy Heavenly Birthday, my dear Sister!

Pam J. Sherbia

friend

July 1, 2022

In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.

Pam J. Sherbia and Devan Green, Sr.

July 1, 2021

Remembering you today on your special day.

Pam Sherbia

December 14, 2020

I can still hear your voice and remember all the times we shared together as a family. You were that Sister, that Friend that many would long to have. The laughter, the smiles, and your loving kindness will remain in our hearts forever. I love you and miss you so much. Until we meet again.

A'maiya Harris

December 16, 2019

I have just so many mixed emotions right now Nanny, no words can describe what I'm feeling right now. This has challenged me in many ways, but I promise to you I'm gonna make you and my Grandma so proud. I miss you so much nanny and keep watch over us, Its been ruff.

Pam Sherbia

December 15, 2019

A year has already passed since the Angels came to take you home.

I will always cherish the time we had together. What a Blessing it was to have you as both my Sister and my best Friend.

I will always cherish those last moments when you sung those last 3 songs. The joy and peacefulness you must have felt knowing that Jesus was waiting to welcome you home.

It has been different not having you around. One day, I pray, that I will get to tell you all about it.

I will hold on to the memories and the legacy you left behind of caring, helping, being there and loving each other no matter what we embrace in this life.

Rest in peace, my dear Sister -- until we meet again. I love you with all of my heart.

Lisa Phipps-LeGaux

August 27, 2019

My deepest condolences to the entire family. Ms. Fay was one of the sweetest people I had ever met. I was so shock when told of her passing. Rest in Peace sweet angel..

Pam Sherbia

July 1, 2019

Today is your special day. There are so many of us who misses you and find it hard to believe that you're no longer with us. Even through your battle with cancer, God still received the "Glory." He used you to encourage and empower others who were in the midst of their own cancer journey. You touch the lives of many. You taught us how to live, how to love and how to be there for each other. In His arms now you rest. Happy Birthday Sister, Sister. Love you forever!

Pam

June 23, 2019

May God reward you Faye and comfort your beloved Ronald!

BTW classmate 1966

December 25, 2018

Sympathy to your family. May God's promise bring hope and consolation to your family (Hosea 13:14).

Dr. Rickey Paul Warner

December 21, 2018

A loving, kind spirit who nurtured and put others before herself. Certainly, there is a place in God's heaven for her because on earth she will be sadly missed.

Pat Scrivens

December 20, 2018

Condolences to your husband and family.
Alana and AJ Scrivens. Great neice and nephew and Pat

Keith Moran

December 20, 2018

My Condolences to the Gaines Family. Keith And Tina Moran AKA Mike The Cop

Ralph Jackson

December 20, 2018

A wonderful person,she will be sadly missed,peace and spiritual upliftings to her husband and the rest of the family.God Bless

Sharon Temple

December 20, 2018

Fay, I will always remember the laughter and your smile. You were a fixture in the Department of Finance for many years. Rest on my friend in the arms of our Lord and Savior.

The Moore's

December 20, 2018

My condolences to Uncle Ronnie and the Jackson Family. Fay had such a kind heart and a beautiful spirit, one that will be greatly missed by many who were blessed to know her . I will never forget her smile, sense of humor when joking about Uncle Ronnie, and the words of wisdom she often gave to my husband and I. Deuce, ("Your Baby" as you called him), Michael and I will certainly miss you, Tee Fay. Rest peacefully, Angel.

Don Scrivens

December 20, 2018

Missing you tee tee

Renee Gaines

December 20, 2018

In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.

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