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Mom
February 15, 2025
I love you and miss you, Jeff, beyond words.
Our family has lost another love, as Hadara's gallant fight is over. I'm sure you two cousins have joined. Peace!!
Mary Wiggenhorn
October 17, 2024
I loved Jeff like another son. He and my son-in-law Seamus were such amazingly good friends. Now they are both gone and I picture them when I watch the sun rise, floating on neighboring pink clouds, discussing everything in the world just like they did in life. He was unique and special and he is not forgotten.
Mom
January 19, 2024
I do have memories of a wonderful son that I can keep to console me at times. At other times I go on with the present times, such as celebrating Virginia's recent 21st birth anniversary and her achievements in school. I'm sure Jeff knows.
Mom
January 19, 2023
Jeff, my grief remains as overwhelming but my love and understanding grow stronger daily. I often wonder how you'd react to our current times and then sometimes the answer is revealed to me when I remember a conversation we had right after Katrina hit New Orleans. At other times I know the answer by understanding that your spirit is still with us in Virginia.
Thank you for all of this.
Hannah Holmes Crews
January 18, 2021
Oh my how we would talk about the things that are happening in our world right now! Your sense of justice, caring, respect and inclusion is missed. Loving you and all our beautiful ancestors that have gone before!
Aunti Kathy
Yvonne Vaughan
September 9, 2020
Today is the 50th anniversary of Jeff"s birth. I miss him so very much but I am blessed with the wonderful memories he left. He is still with family and friends spiritually through Virginia Ruth who has his wit, intellect, love of family and friends, love of music, care for humanity and his leadership skills. Knowing all the dark things he experienced in his short life, I still have hope for a brighter future.
Hannah Holmes Crews
January 20, 2020
We see your imprint in our lives daily! I miss you!!
Aunti Kathy
Tammy Ellis
January 17, 2019
I just learned today of Jeff's passing. I went to high school with him at Dimond. I don't remember if I knew him personally or just in the halls, but enough that he made an impression all these years later. I'm sad for your tragic loss...I'm sorry this comes so late.
Tammy Ellis
Nanci H
May 13, 2015
Please know Jeff made a life long impression on those he met. We were friends at U of O and I was just searching to get in touch with him. I remember all of our debates, challenging conversations, and never ending laughter. He had a genuine spirit that I'll never forget. I am sorry to hear of this news and I hope you find continued comfort in knowing he is living on in all of us who knew him.
Hannah Crews
June 16, 2014
Jeff,
We always hear your whispers on the special days and the ordinary days, through "your songs" playing on the radio, and by the characteristics of those that are genetically conneted and those that are chosen family. We will make sure that the apple of your eye knows not only your essence but that you love her dearly.
Aunti Kathy
V Ruth
June 15, 2014
today is Father's Day and well everyone on Instagram is posting pictures of their dad and I would but I am not any home and have no pictures. I love you daddy no matter where you are
Virginia
Hannah Crews
September 13, 2013
Just thinking about you and all that is going on in life. I had a great conversation with Virginia Ruth last week, she is a lovely girl!
Love you! Aunti Kathy
Mom
September 9, 2012
Today is Jeff's birthday and it was a beautiful day. I see Jeff in the beautiful skies and deep orange sunsets and I feel him in the peacefulness of the soft clouds, the wind and the rain. I know him most through Virginia for she embodies him through her looks, her love of life, her wit, her love of music, boardgames, her intelligence and her deep understanding, even at such a young age.
Hannah Crews
December 27, 2011
WOW!! Your namesake is showing a love for music like the rest of the family, in fact he is showing MORE talent thatn the rest of us...LOL! I think he even likes the 80's stuff.
Love Aunti Kathy AKA Gigi
Hannah Crews
September 15, 2011
HI JEFF,
Love Aunti Kathy
Yvonne Vaughan
September 5, 2011
I just spoke to Virginia; Tropical Storm Katia has passed through NO and I've been keeping in touch with her and Serena by phone. Virginia was up and reading, another one of her favorite things to do. In the past few weeks she has also been concerned for us because we've had an earthquake and Hurricane Irene and she said she was always watching what happens in Virginia.
Yvonne Vaughan
May 18, 2011
I journeyed to Metairie/New Orleans for Virginia's first communion on May 7th. She's a delightful young lady who strummed an original jazzy,bluesy guitar rendering for me in addition to practicing her recital pieces for guitar and violin. I managed to win one game of UNO during the many we played the week I was there and was advised by my granddaughter that I should brush up on my game. I'm sure Jeff is near because Virginia is so full of his spirit and his sense of being; it was a good visit and I hope she'll get to Virginia soon.
Yvonne Vaughan
January 16, 2011
Virginia is 8 years old today and Jeff would say she is the most beautiful 8-yr-old in the world. She is now playing the violin,has a great memory for reciting poetry and loves to read. She has magically inherited her father's love of family and has a keen interest in what she calls her "Virginia family." I last saw her when I visited her for Grandparents' Day at her school in Nov. Those were precious days (even when she whipped me at UNO).
Again, I continue to have contact with some of Jeff's friends which is an honor that I hope continues.
Peace!
Yvonne Vaughan
September 9, 2010
Today is Jeff's 40th birthday. I haven't written to the book in awhile but I thought today would be a good time to write as I thought of all that has passed since we lost Jeff. Of course, we've lost more family and dear friends but we've also had the blessings of new family members - one a young cousin to Jeff, Colin, who was named in honor of Jeff and who is about 1 1/2 months old. All families keep in touch and support each other. Virginia is 7 now and quite a young lady; she's witty, super intelligent, a swimmer (as Jeff started her out), a guitarist (and great music lover like her Dad) and a formidable UNO player. Jeff, I'm sure, would be extremely proud of her. I've reconnected with some of Jeff's oldtime friends and hope to keep that going. Peace to everyone.
Yvonne Vaughan
September 21, 2008
Jeff's 38th birthday was Tuesday, September 9. I took a purple aster to his gravesite, requested one of his favorite songs be played on the local radio station and drove to his beloved river for awhile. Jeff had visited me the evening before to let me know he's okay.
We continue the best we can. We've lost additional loved ones and others are ill but we honor Jeff by remaining a family and supporting each other. Last year Woody, one of the younger cousins, wore a pair of Jeff's cufflinks to his senior prom. This year, Woody's younger brother, Taze, chose to wear one of Jeff's dress shirts to his senior graduation rather than purchase a new shirt. They and their sisters work hard to pursue their educations and careers as they remember Jeff did.
People are still finding out about Jeff's death and each time there is a new shockwave that goes through the community of those who knew him during all steps of his very unique life.
Rita and Piero had an oak planted in Bucharest in Jeff's memory last year and when they returned to the states recently they sent me pictures and the oak was flourishing.
Jeff's high school class had its 20th reunion in July and when I visited the website I saw videos of pictures of him already showing his own Jeff style.
I believe Virginia will be much the same. I attempt to have regular contact with her; I hope it'll be easier as she gets older.
Thanks, again, to those of you who continue to love and support us. We plod along and I know I always will. Rick has been transformed into a quieter person who pays homage to his brother daily. Somedays I move along okay and somedays I just watch the world go past. Other days I wish I had the power to recall the past and make it all go away but no matter what I will always love, respect, understand and honor Jeff.
yvonne vaughan
January 20, 2008
Yesterday was the anniversary of our losing Jeff. The year seems to have passed so quickly but at the same time days seem to have gone by so slowly. I appreciate all who have supported us through this nightmare. I love you, Jeff.
Mom
michael kesler
October 7, 2007
i am sorry for your loss
Yvonne Vaughan
September 11, 2007
September 10, 2007
Yesterday was Jeff's birthday and I never in my darkest nightmare thought I would be marking the birthday of my precious child by writing to his obituary guestbook or by visiting his grave. With his death my faith was gone, but yesterday angels came and helped me get through the day. I started my day with coffee from a mug Jeff gave me when he was about 16 and I reminisced all day. As the parents of black sons it was difficult for us to teach our sons that the world was their oyster but that the world could also be their bogyman but we managed to strike that balance. Jeff grew up with a love of and devotion to family and friends. His courage and strength in adverse situations belied his gentleness and sense of humor. Jeff was a child of integrity who grew to be a man of such. He became focused on a law career early on because of some personal experiences he had and some wrongs he wanted to right. Jeff was a childhood entrepreneur, a leader and a mediator. He loved and lived life to its fullest. He traveled to Europe to study during his 10th year of high school. He tried various sports, including tee ball, flag football, tackle football, soccer and found his love in swimming and fishing. He played instruments from keyboards to drums. His music tastes were eclectic from an early age. He was a childhood drama student. He loved the Dallas Cowboys and then he loved the Oregon Ducks. He loved the law and one of his favorite things to tell me was "I'm making the law, Mom," as was proven when one of his cases was published in Westlaw. And Jeff loved Serena-it was in his eyes on their wedding day and in his actions everafter. He was an excellent husband. However, I think the happiest he ever was and the most important thing he ever did was when he fathered "the most beautiful baby in the world," his beloved Virginia Ruth. For those who know Serena and Virginia, please continue to support them as Jeff would want you to and help us to always let Virginia know what a great father she had and how much he loved her and how much she is like him.For she already shows his independence, his intelligence, his sense of humor, his love of music and of course, swimming. As for my darling Jeff, he had accomplished much yet fought many a battle in his young life and I know he had to find some peace. And because I valued my precious child I cannot have peace. The pain I feel at times is unbearable; some days I am filled with rage. Days are filled with tears. His grandmother died of a broken heart. His brother and niece and nephew are visibly sad. We are surrounded by other relatives and friends who want our Jeff back. As I spoke earlier of the loss of faith, I must have hope, for I do have three beautiful grandchildren and we do have the love and support of family and friends. Eventually, I believe we'll be more reminded of Jeff's strength and courage in the better days and that will get us through but nothing will remove my pain or give me peace. I love you, Jeff and I enjoyed raising you. I almost forgot that Mother's Day 2006 I sent Jeff and his brother cards telling them how glad I was they were my sons and how much I loved them. I'm proud to be your Mom.
Valerie Linneman-Johnson
July 19, 2007
I am so sorry for your loss. I was getting ready for our 20th Class Reunion in Anchorage, Alaska and found out this horrible news. Jeff was a wonderful young man and was loved by his whole class and obviously he was beloved by many throughout his adult life. He will be missed.
Nadine Wallace
July 19, 2007
Serena,
I never had the pleasure to meet you or your daughter, but I did know Jeff from Dimond High and stayed close friends with him until he left Anchorage. I am so sorry for your loss! My memories of Jeff always bring back smiles and great happy times! He could ALWAYS make us laugh and forget all the trouble we were always getting into! He was an amazing person and blessed anyone who had the opportunity to know him. I know this entry is late, I just saw this and had to respond. He will always be in my prayers, as will his family.
Andrea Caplan
March 2, 2007
I had the great honor of knowing Jeff as a law student, brilliant lawyer, sweet husband, and loving father. His advice was always practical and no nonsense, even if it was not really what I wanted to hear at the time. I will always remember the holidays and special events we shared but most of all I will cherish the casual moments our families shared. As the ever popular "Uncle Jeff" he was either on the floor with the kids or dangling them above his head. I will miss his kind and gentle character and he will forever live in my heart.
Derrick Williams
February 14, 2007
Rick, Yvonne, and Family,
I'm deeply saddened by the news of Jeff's passing. If there's anything I can do, please contact me.
Kevin Richards
February 14, 2007
Dear Serena,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your daughter. May God's grace comfort and support you both through this difficult time.
Kevin
Hannah Crews
February 14, 2007
To My Family,
Today is a day that is traditionally reserved for celebrating love. Today I think of Jeff and I feel the endless love he felt for his family and friends.
As we approach each day, may we embrace the essence of his character. A young man with an old soul, full of wisdom and patience, who knew the importance of respect and love, the absolute necessity of teaching and setting a good example, and the wisdom to work smart and play hard. We all miss Jeff's physical presence, but do take time to bask in the ray of his spirit. His spirit so enduring he has granted that gift to each person he ever touched, cherish it... cherish Jeff...cherish each other everyday! Thank you Jeff for being you.
I love you all, Kathy
Pat Rengnerth
February 12, 2007
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.
Stephanie Foran
February 8, 2007
Yvonne -- please accept my deepest sympathies for your loss. No parent expects to outlive their child. It is obvious from the guest book and from your tone of voice when you spoke about Jeffrey, that he is well loved and will certainly live on in everyone's memmories. I'm so sorry you are experiencing such grief. I hope to see you soon. Take good care of yourself, Stephanie
Jeanmarie LoCoco Nicholson
February 2, 2007
Serena, I offer my deepest sympathy to you and your family for your loss. Although I only worked with Jeff briefly, he impressed me as a kind, gentle man devoted to his loved ones. I am so, so sorry that he was lost him to such an insidious disease. God bless you and yours.
Debbie Stansbury
February 2, 2007
Dear Serena, My prayers and thoughts are with you and Virginia. With deepest sympathy
Bob & Dorothy Memory
February 1, 2007
Serena, so sorry for your tragic loss. Anything we can do to help,please call us. May God be with you.
Bridget & Brad Naccari
January 31, 2007
The loss of Jeff has brought so much sorrow to our hearts. He was such a remarkable person & brought much joy to everyone he touched. He was the funniest,most generous & kind-hearted person I have ever known. We will always remember & treasure the good times we shared & he will forever live in our memories & hearts. May the love of God,friends, & family give you the strength & peace you need during this difficult time. May you know how very much you & Virginia are loved & that we are always here for you both.
Beth Kennedy(Miner)
January 31, 2007
Rick, Ms.Yvonne, Mr.Vaughan,
I am unbelievably shocked, as are many, of the tragic news that has been passed on to me. Jeff was funny, quick-witted, smart and always had that "smirk" on his face. Unfortunately, I have never met Serena or Virginia but have seen pictures of his "beautiful girl" and know how proud he was of his family. My thoughts and prayers go out to Jeff's immediate and extended families. My heart goes out to the lives he touched along the way. Beth Kennedy
Blake and Michelle Landry
January 31, 2007
Serena, we were deeply saddened to hear of Jeff's passing. Please know that you and Virginia are in our prayers.
Love,
Keva Landrum-Johnson
January 31, 2007
Serena,
I want to take this time to extend my deepest sympathies to you and your daughter. I know that God will give you strength and courage to continue. You and are your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Sara Merlo
January 31, 2007
It sadden my heart to have received such sad news. Jeff was a wonderful and fun person to have known. Remember, that with every ray of sunshine that shines upon you, it's a warm embrace from Jeff in heaven, letting you know that he is there to comfort you in that moment. You and lil'princess are in my prayers.
Joe Barthlow
January 31, 2007
In Tau Kappa Epsilon at the University of Oregon, Jeff Vaughan was known as Otis.
Otis was a key member that joined our fraternity at a time when we were small and rebuilding. He became an officer and played a significant role in helping Beta Kappa earn it's charter. He was a great frater and friend. Everyone loved Otis.
Coe Bockmier
January 30, 2007
Vaughn Family,
Please accept my deepest sympathies. I am so terribly sorry to learn of Jeff's passing. I can certainly say that in my days at the University of Oregon, and in the Fraternity, Jeff made all of us better people. Jeff made us laugh, he challenged our ways of thinking, and always had a smile on his face. There is no doubt that Jeff had an amzing effect on all of us. I cherish the memories of our college experience. Your family and Jeff will be in my prayers.
Deana Palmisano Lejarza
January 29, 2007
Serena, I am so saddened to hear of your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Mike and Sheri Hewett
January 29, 2007
Our dear friend Serena,
We are deeply saddened by the loss of such a wonderful man. You know how much you, Jeff, and Virginia mean to us. Jeff was such a special person who touched the lives of everyone he met. He will never be forgotten. He was there to support us during the biggest event in our lives. We will NEVER forget his kindness, laughter, love, and generosity towards everyone. You and Virginia are in our thoughts and prayers- always...We love you-
Christine and Matt Scoggins
January 29, 2007
Serena,
Matt and I are so saddened by your loss. We will always remember Jeff for his warm smile and friendly disposition. You and Virginia are in our thoughts and prayers.
Olita Magee Domingue
January 29, 2007
My heart goes out to you at this time and in the days ahead.
Leona Martin-Mincie
January 29, 2007
I was so sorry to hear of your loss. Please let me know if there is anything I can do to help at this time.
Lauren Garvey
January 28, 2007
Dear Serena, I am so deeply sorry for your loss. I know that the love and strength of your family and friends will help you through this. You are in my prayers.
George Lengauer
January 28, 2007
Yvonne,
Your associates with the Windy Hill After School Program wish to extend to you and your family our most sincere expression of sympathy over the passing of your son Jeffery. Whereas none of us had the pleasure of knowing Jeffrey, we have come to learn that he was undoubtedly an exceptional young man. Know that you, his wife and daughter, and other family members are in our prayers at this difficult time. May God give you strength and heal your aching hearts.
Dianne Penn
January 28, 2007
Yvonne
Be comforted by the fact he loved you unconditionally and that you had earned his love.
Jennifer Glynn Allison
January 27, 2007
Serena, I am so very sorry to hear about the loss of your husband. I will keep your family in my prayers.
Jennifer Couvillon
January 27, 2007
Serena, We are so sorry for your loss. We are thinking of you and wish you and your family peace. Jennifer Couvillon, the JL Board and the JL Membership Council
Mike, Gail and Ariel Brown
January 27, 2007
To the Holmes, Vaughan, and Crews family,
Our hearts and prayers are with you all at this time of your loss. I know that the love that your family has for one another will be strong enough to get you all threw this tragic loss. Keep trust in your faith and he will guide you all through this. If you need anything please let us know. You are all in our hearts and prayers.
Angela L. Neel
January 26, 2007
Dear Serena: I am so sorry for your loss. Jeff was such an amazing person, so intelligent, so down-to-earth, and so funny. I know that you're going through a painful time right now. Please remember that Jeff will live forever in our memories and in our hearts. I know that you will be with him again one day in heaven. You are in my thoughts and prayers. With deepest sympathy,
Mary Wiggenhorn
January 26, 2007
I feel so fortunate to have known Jeff. I'll always remember Christmas Eve 2005, the closing day at Jazzfest this year, Carolyn's wedding when Jeff served as "Official Chauffeur to the Mother of the Bride" complete with champagne in the trunk of the car and so much more. He was a warm, unfailingly kind, soft spoken guy and my life has been greatly enriched by knowing all of you.
Whatever, whenever, anything you and Virginia need, please call me. I love you all.
Manuela,Stefano,Chiara,Sarah e Giulia Sdringola
January 26, 2007
Dear Serena,
our thoughts and prayers are with you, Virginia and your beautiful family.
May God take your hand and walk you through this time of sorrow.
Sabrina McLaughlin
January 26, 2007
Dear Serena, My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Julia Ann Golden Pollard, Cynthia, George, and Mary Golden
January 26, 2007
Dear Richard & Family,
We were truly saddened to hear of the loss of your loved one. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. Remember Earth has no sorrows that Heaven cannot heal.
With love and sincere sympathy,
Paula Miles
January 26, 2007
Serena,
You are in my thoughts and prayers. I will continually pray for you and that you be granted supernatural strength. I love you,
Paula Miles and family
Natalie Smith
January 26, 2007
Serena,
You are a dear friend and I feel so much sadness for you and Virginia. Jeff was an amazing person with a kind heart and a warm, loving disposition. You are blessed to have spent so many years of your life with him. You have a beautiful daughter to show for it, and memories that will last a lifetime. You are all in my prayers every day. I love you.
Natalie
Emma Matthews
January 26, 2007
Yvonne,
I remember when - when Jeffrey was a little boy. He was so "cute" and I adored him. I will always remember the cute little boy when I think of the young man he had become. You are always in my thoughts and prayers.
Emma Matthews
Cheryl & Darwin Henry
January 26, 2007
Von Vaughan,
Ours prayers are with you and your family.
Harry, Emily & Seamus Hardin
January 26, 2007
Jeff's sense of humor and laid back way was infectious and touched all those who came in contact with him. We feel blessed to call him our friend and feel a profound sense of loss with his passing. Serena, you and Virginia and the rest of your family are in our prayers. All our love and God bless you both.
Giulia and Walter Viali
January 25, 2007
Dear Serena, we are very saddened by your loss. We were looking forward to spending more time with you and Jeff in the future, here in Houston and in New Orleans. We hope your grief will be replaced by the happy memories of your life with Jeff. We shared your joy on your wedding day, as I sang Elvis tunes while you danced in his arms. We remember spending the evening with you, as you were trying to get home from abroad on September 11, 2001, and managed to make it to our house and spend the night here. I remember Giulia raving about little Virginia when she saw her at the Italian Consulate. We wish we could have had more time with your family. Do know that, as long as we live, we will be there for you and Virginia and will always remember Jeff and the special person he was. He will continue to live in our hearts along with all those we have loved and lost. With sincere and immense fondness, Giulia and Walter.
Arthur and Lucille Blaze
January 25, 2007
May God Bless and Keep you and your family. He's always in your heart. There's very little now That one can do or say, Except I hope these few words of sympathy will comfort you today.
Peter Rumsey
January 25, 2007
Yvonne,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Peter Rumsey
charles & Val killion
January 25, 2007
God Bless from an Ursuline parent
Melissa Pennebaker
January 25, 2007
Serena and Virginia
You are in our hearts and prayers. We are so saddened by the loss of a wonderful Daddy and husband. We will celebrate his life by remembering all the wonderful times we had together.
All our love goes out to you both,
Melissa, Emily, Mark and Benjamin Pennebaker
Hudson Heatley
January 25, 2007
Yvonne-
I am deeply sorry for the loss of your son. My thoughts and prayers are with you now as ever. My sympathy for your loss, and my hope that you find solace in your family and your God during this trying time.
Love and Blessings,
Hudson
Shannon Bell
January 25, 2007
Dear Serena: My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Pastor Lloyd Price
January 25, 2007
Our prayers are with you. Remember to continue to look to the God who comforts us during our sorrows.
Penny Dockery
January 25, 2007
Yvonne,
I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your son. I will keep you and your family in my prayers during this time of grief.
Michelle Linton
January 25, 2007
Serena and Virgina,
You are in my thoughts and prayers. I feel so blessed that I was able to meet Jeff last month. I could tell he loved his family very much.
Floraine Young Cunningham
January 25, 2007
TO: Richard and Family
Deeply sadden to hear of your son's passing. You and the family are in my prayers. May you find comfort in the Word of God and the joy that you shared with him.
Felix Sarfo-kantanka
January 25, 2007
My thought and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
May God Bless you and your entire family. PEACE !
Sue Graham
January 25, 2007
I am sending the thoughts and the energy of love and caring to the Vaughans and all who knew Jeffery.
May your memories of shining moments shared with him help sustain you.
Jennifer Swinson
January 25, 2007
May God continue to strengthen you during this time. My prayers go out to you and your family.
Carolyn and Seamus O'Donnell
January 25, 2007
Serena,
Words cannot express the love that Seamus and I have for you, Virginia, and Jeff. You are family to us, and we are with you in your grief. Jeff will always remain in our hearts.
Curtis Smith
January 25, 2007
To The Vaughan Family:
Allow your love for one another and the love of your friends comfort you during your time of bereavement. Yvonne, those who know you often heard you express your love for your children and grandchildren, especially, Jeffrey. Trust in the Lord and know that his living was not in vain.
Wes and Amy Alost
January 25, 2007
Like so many others, I have a treasure trove of fond memories of our time at Loyola. Jeff played a part in nearly all of them. We will all miss him fiercely.
Our very deepest sympathies to Serena, Virginia, and the rest of Jeff's family. Know that we are here to support and comfort you.
Ashley Engerran
January 25, 2007
Words cannot express how Jeff touched my life and the lives of so many others. He was the friend everyone wanted to have. He was a genuine and kind man, that I wish I was more like. Jeff would walk into a room of strangers and after a short while would have entire room of friends. Jeff will be remembered as the man he was, intelligent, wonderful, caring, witty, a sincere friend, a loving husband and father.
Kathy Shea Plasse
January 25, 2007
Serena,
You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Please find comfort in knowing you and Virginia have so many people that love and care about you. Jeff was a friendly, warm and loving person. Please let me know if there is anything I can do for you. I'm here to help.
My deepest heartfelt sympathy to you and your family,
Kathy Shea Plasse
Tiffany Bryan
January 25, 2007
Serena,
I am still in shock. I miss the laughs we had at the DA's office when Jeff would come to visit. He was such a good sport and a great guy. He was one of those rare attorneys that never had an arrogant attitude, which was refreshing. He will be sorely missed, since he made the world a better place. Love ya, Tiffany
Laura LaRaia
January 25, 2007
Serena,
We were so sorry to hear the news about Jeff. Please know that we all have fond memories of Jeff from law school. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. Laura, David, and Benjamin
Paola Berardi
January 25, 2007
There are no words to describe what Jeff meant to our family. He was our son, brother, and friend. He will always remain in our hearts forever.
Francis deBlanc
January 25, 2007
Serena:
I am truly stunned and saddened over the news of Jeff's passing. I am grateful for having known him, and to be able to call him a true friend. I just wanted you to know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Jennifer Conrad
January 25, 2007
A true friend is one who acts like family even though he is not obliged to do so. That was Jeff-- giving of himself and expecting nothing in return. Jeff supported me through the roughest times and cared for my children as lovingly as if they were his own. I am grateful for the many good times and laughs our families shared. We'll remember Jeff for his humor, his generosity, his humility, and somewhat alarming sense of fashion. Virginia should know what an extraordinary person her father was and how fortunate she is to have been the great joy of his life. He is irreplaceable.
Lyndell Lewis
January 25, 2007
To the Vaughan Family:
You are in my prayers and constant thoughts. I pray that you will feel comfort in your memories of a wonderful son and loved one. Yvonne, I always enjoy your visits and our talks that provide the opportunity for family updates, pictures of both your sons and their growing families. None of our children know how many other ‘mothers’ they have in our work place. All of our children are in the hearts and prayers of each of the other mothers that we call a friend. Remember to lift your eyes to the hills; your help will come from our Lord.
Mariella Moretti
January 25, 2007
Dear Serena,
I feel privileged to have know such a wonderful person as Jeff was and in this time of sadness it hurts to be physically so far away from you and your family. You are all in my heart. Much love
Mariella
Shawna Suzuki
January 24, 2007
Serena and Virginia,
This is so difficult to accept. We will take it one day at a time and remember that you and Virginia are both loved and supported very much. Please reach out to us when you need it and know how much support you have. Love,
Shawna
Amy Wright Marshall
January 24, 2007
Serena,
I'm so sorry to hear the news. My heart goes out to you and your family. I will keep you in my prayers. Jeff sounds like an amazing person. I'm sure he will be watching over you.
Sioux 90
Tiffany Chase
January 24, 2007
Serena:
My prayers are with you and your family. Jeff was a wonderful, giving and kind man. He always had a kind word, no matter the situation. We will miss him. May God bless you and your family.
Stephanie Gemmolva
January 24, 2007
Serena,
Words can not express the sadness I felt when Cara called me with the news. I am so sorry. Times like this make it so hard to understand why things like this happen to such wonderful people.Just try to remeber that God does not give us more than we can handle eventhough it does not feel that way right now. Time will ease your pain and memories will live in your heart forever. Take care and call me.
Much love and prayers,
Steph
Earl Marcelle
January 24, 2007
Serena-
I was truly saddened to hear of Jeff's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your entire family. God bless.
Aline Meyer
January 24, 2007
Serena, you and your family are in our prayers. I pray that Our Lady of Prompt Succor will truly hasten to help you during this difficult time.
James Aldridge
January 24, 2007
Dear Serena,
Jeff was a great guy. Many happy memories will be cherished. I will miss him lots. Love ya Jeff.
Sincerely,
James Aldridge
Valerie Aldridge
January 24, 2007
Serena,
James and I are so sad for you, Virginia, Jeff's family and yours and for everyone else who was lucky enough to call Jeff their friend. We will forever miss his laughter and very dry sense of humor. Jeff was so easy to like. There was never any effort to be Jeff's friend and that is so obvious by the outpouring of love and support shown by so many. My prayer to God is that you find the strength you will need to live life without Jeff and to raise Virginia up to be the beautiful intelligent woman you and Jeff always wanted her to become.
Your friend always,
Valerie Aldridge
The Andry Family
January 24, 2007
Serena & Virginia,
I am so sorry for your loss. Jeff was an exceptional man, a phenomenal father, and an incredible attorney. The world is a much sadder place without him. Our thoughts and our prayers are with all of you. God bless.
Meryl, Robert, Mathilde & Grace
Russ Foster
January 24, 2007
Serena,
This well-crafted, pitch-perfect obituary clearly calls to mind the Jeff Vaughan that Helen, Mary Grace, and I were so fortunate to come to know. We are thankful for the welcoming kindness you and Jeff exhibited as our paths crossed and we became friends, and we wish and pray for all the best for you and your adorable daughter, Virginia.
Marsha Bastoe
January 24, 2007
I was Jeff's secretary from a previous firm. What wonderful times Jeff, Stephen, Kriste, and I had. He actually made going to work fun. He had such a love of life and family, whom he spoke of so often. I will miss him terribly and remember him as my best boss ever and a truly great friend.
Stephanie Abramowicz Hughes
January 24, 2007
Serena and Family,
I am so sorry for your great loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Deepest Sympathies,
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