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Sr. Mary David Hecker, MSC

1924 - 2020

Sr. Mary David Hecker, MSC obituary, 1924-2020, Opelousas, LA

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Mary Hecker, MSC Obituary

"I have found David, my faithful servant, with my holy oil I have anointed him and my arm has made him strong." (Psalm 89:21) More than 96 years ago, Sr. Mary David Hecker, MSC was found and chosen by God. She was born September 23, 1924 and she died at Our Lady of Prompt Succor Nursing Home in Opelousas, Louisiana on December 20, 2020 at 3:55 PM. Sister was preceded in death by her father, Urban Joseph Hecker, and her mother, Marie Louise Sullivan Hecker; and her siblings: Joe, Louise, John Navin, David and Florence Gravois. She is survived and missed by her sister, Frances Hecker, her devoted nieces, nephews, students and co-workers. Sister entered the Marianites of Holy Cross on September 31, 1941 and pronounced her perpetual vows on August 11, 1946. She received her college education at Holy Angels Academy and Loyola University in New Orleans. She earned a Master's degree in education from Our Lady of the Lake University in San Antonio, Texas. Early in her ministry, Sister was involved in education in New Orleans at Holy Angels Academy, St. Cecilia, St. Agnes, Holy Name of Mary, St. Rita, and St. Andrew. She served as director of novices for the Marianites from 1963 to 1969. From 1984 to 1992, she ministered with several other Marianites in Talagante, Chile at the Hogar de Ninos San Jose Orphanage. She spoke fondly of her time in Chile and her work with the Holy Cross priests who were in charge of the orphanage. Upon her return from Chile, she ministered at St. Mary's in Cottonport and at St. Joseph School in Plaucheville. She moved to Prompt Succor Convent in Opelousas in 2011 and due to health issues, she became a resident of Prompt Succor Nursing Home on December 19, 2011. Throughout these 9 years, her consistent simplicity, gratitude, and prayerfulness endeared her to the staff who cared for her and the residents on her hall. The Suscipe, associated with St. Ignatius Loyola, was a favorite prayer of Sr. Mary David. "Take Lord, and receive all my liberty, my memory, my understanding, my entire will; all that I have and possess. You have given all to me. To you, Lord, I return it. Everything is yours, Lord, do with it what you will. Give me only your love and your grace, that is enough for me." These words were often on her lips and lived in her actions. Over the years, Sister had indeed given everything and, in return, the Lord freed her of all infirmity and gifted her with a 2020 Christmas celebration in heaven! Sister Mary David, we thank you for the multitude of gifts you so generously shared with us. We depend on you to keep us all in your fervent prayers! Due to restrictions of COVID-19, a private funeral service will be held Tuesday, December 22nd in Opelousas, followed by burial in St. Landry Cemetery in Opelousas. In lieu of flowers, the Marianites of Holy Cross request that memorial donations be sent to the Marianites of Holy Cross at our Congregational Center – 21388 Smith Road, Covington, Louisiana, 70435.

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Published by The Times-Picayune from Dec. 21 to Dec. 22, 2020.

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Marian Arnoult-Jackson

December 22, 2020

May you RIP Sr David. We will always cherish our memories together @ Academy of Holy Angels. You may be hone, but will never be forgotten.

Michael A Palisi

December 22, 2020

Dear Family and Sisters of the Marianites of Holy Cross:
Sr. David left a strong impression on the lives of many students during her time at Holy Name Of Mary School, Algiers, La. She helped enrich and change many of our lives, as many of you have done. She, as well as all Sisters, will not be forgotten. I am sorry for your loss.

Helene F Tucker

December 21, 2020

Sr. Mary David was one of the most faith filled, sweetest people I have ever known. I am sure God welcomed her with open arms. God bless, Helene Fallon Tucker, AHA ‘72

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