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Matthew DeMaria Obituary

Matthew P. DeMaria

Matthew P. DeMaria, 74, died peacefully on June 15, 2020 surrounded by his beloved wife, Ellen (Dancsisin), his daughter Beth Walker, his son-in-law Carson, his cherished granddaughter, Vera and his soon-to-be grandson, Crosby.

Matt was raised in Elmwood Park by Mike and Alma (Fagersten) DeMaria along with his brother, Lawrence DeMaria and his sister, Elaine (DeMaria) Bartolozzi. He is also survived by many wonderful nephews, nieces, and great-nephews and great-nieces.

While growing up, Matt enjoyed participating in outdoor activities, scouting, cooking, and was active in the First Presbyterian Church of Elmwood Park. He graduated from Rutgers University and later, Rutgers Law School, after serving in the Army.

Matt worked as an attorney in Elmwood Park until he retired in 2019. He had many hometown clients, who he also called friends. He served as the attorney for the Board of Education and the Board of Adjustment, among others.

Thursday nights were racquetball nights, but after his friends and he stopped playing, they continued to go to Justin's for a couple of Ballantines and lively conversation. Faithfully, on Saturday mornings, he played basketball at the Garfield YMCA, where he also served on the Board. When baseball and football seasons came around, he was the greatest Yankees and Giants fan.

Matt loved and was loved by his family, friends, and clients. He was truly a kind, gentle, and generous man whose laugh and smile were infectious. He will be missed.

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Published by The Record/Herald News from Aug. 19 to Aug. 20, 2020.

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Ginny Nogaro

June 2, 2021

I learned of Matt's passing today when I ran into Laurie, a former employee, while shopping. I was extremely saddened by the news. I was a client of Matt's for over 30 years. He was an amazing, honest and caring attorney. I last saw him when I closed on my home in 2017 and it was right before Thanksgiving so he shared his story about all the company he had on Thanksgiving and how many turkeys he made for the holiday. He will truly be missed. Rest in Eternal Peace Matt.

kartar israni

January 24, 2021

He was a very nice and honest person I have ever mate in my life.
What a great Attorney he was. Rest in peace.

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Paul Forlai

August 20, 2020

Matt was a great guy. Always stood by his old friends and was always available to help, offer advice and share a good story and laugh. He will be missed by many. Rest in Peace Matt.

Robert Gardiner

August 20, 2020

Matt was a good, honest, hard working man that always had a smile for everyone. He was a dear friend who will be missed by all of us that had the honor of knowing him. May God be with him forever more.

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