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Robert Rathbun Obituary

Robert A Rathbun August 14, 1947 - July 15, 2010 Franklin - Robert A. Rathbun, 62, passed away Thursday afternoon after a truck accident, just 2 miles from home. He was born August 14, 1947 in Norwich, the son of the late I. Palmer Rathbun and Mabel (Balcom) Rathbun. A life long Franklin resident, and student of the one room school house. He was a Norwich Free Academy graduate of the class of 1965 and graduated from Mitchell College with an Associate in Science of Engineering in 1968. He worked for the City of Groton for 35 years, retiring in July 2000. He served as a military police in the U.S. Army from 1969 to 1971. Bob enjoyed playing and coaching sports. He coached Bozrah Shoot Straight and Franklin Church League basketball. He also coached Little League in the SFC league for 10 years. He then coached with his wife in the girls softball league, leading them to the town's first district flag in 1993 and winning the district, state, and New England Championships in 1994. He also coached Green Devil ASA softball. Bob had a great love for the outdoors, cutting wood, growing and selling Christmas trees and traveling. On October 23, 1971 he married Linda (Constant) Rathbun at the Franklin Congregational Church. Besides his wife he is survived by two sons, Robert P. Rathbun and his wife Debra, Jeffrey R. Rathbun and his wife Jane, and one daughter Jennifer Guernsey and her husband Tim. Seven grandchildren; Hunter, Logan, Avery, Mackenzie, Madelyn, Trevor, Savannah, and numerous nieces and nephews. He leaves behind his best friend, his black lab, Dallas. He was predeceased by a brother, Richard Rathbun and niece Kayla Constant. Visitation 6 to 8 p.m. Thursday at the Labenski Funeral Home, 107 Boswell Ave., Norwich. Funeral Services will take place on Friday at 10 a.m. at the Funeral Home with interment to follow with Military Honors in Pautipaug Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in his memory to the Franklin Recreation Commission for Youth Sports, 7 Meeting House Hill Rd., North Franklin, CT 06254.

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Published by Norwich Bulletin on Jul. 20, 2010.

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Carolyn Wolf( kapas)

August 6, 2010

This is Bobs cousin Carolyn(Cappy) ..I am so deeply sorry and I send my deepest sympathies to the family. I hadn't seen Bob is a long time since I live here in PA..but my thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Patrick White

August 2, 2010

To the entire Rathbun family I express my deepest sorrow and heartfelt condolences. I worked with Bob at the Groton Utilites for over 10 years and I always admired his commitment to family and friends. May God rest his soul and bring comofrt to his loved ones.

Paul & Linda Fraser

July 30, 2010

Linda, Bobby, Jeff,Jen and your families,
We just returned from a trip and were very sad to hear of your loss. Linda will fondly remember the days at the One Room School House. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you.

Maureen Burridge

July 22, 2010

To the Rathbun Family:
We worked with Bob at Groton Utilities for many years. He was such a nice man and he sure had the best Christmas trees. We will keep you all in our thoughts and prayers.

Larry & Maureen Burridge

Dan Nemeth

July 22, 2010

Linda, Bobby, Jeff, Jenn and Family,

I am so sorry for your loss. Bob was a great man and will never be forgotten. I have so many great memories from growing up down the road, playing baseball and basketball and buying our tree from him for several years. My heart goes out to you all. If you need anything, please don't hesitate in contacting us. I would have liked to have been able to make it tonight but I am unable to because of scheduling matters with my son. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

With Deepest Sympathy,

Dan Nemeth

Susan Hervieux

July 21, 2010

Linda,Bobby,Jeff,Jen and their families
My heart goes out to you all. Bob was quite the man the big smile he alway's had, the jokes he made, and boy how he could dance, he was diffently the life of a party.I am honored to have known him. He will be missed. My prayers are with you all.

William Beebe

July 21, 2010

JULY 21, 2010
To The Rathbun Family, I was shocked to hear of the passing of Bob. Bob and I worked for years together at The Groton Utilities. I have many fond memories of the years that we worked together. I hope that you as a family will draw even closer in this time of sorrow. Fond memories and may God be with him and with your family.

Staci Ballaro

July 21, 2010

Linda, Bob, Jeff and Jen
We are so sorry for your loss. Bob was a great man. He will be missed by many. Our thoughts are with you at this sad time.
Staci and Pete Ballaro

Elizabeth Kapas-DePetro

July 21, 2010

Linda and Family,
Bob and I just learned of your loss, and our hearts go out to you all at this time of great sorrow. I remember younger days when my parents would bring my brother, sister, and me to visit Aunt Mabel and Uncle Palmer for Sunday dinner, and how much we enoyed our visits with them and the two boys, Bob and Dick. My mother was especially fond of these two boys, and lived a long life to see them mature into adulthood and have families of their own. She would be so very sad today, as are we. And Linda, you know the wonderfully warm hug she would give you to comfort you at this time. I know she is praying for you and the family along with us.

Our deepest sympathies,
Cousin Betty and husband Bob
East Douglas, Massachusetts

Todd Gigliotti ABCO

July 21, 2010

Jeff,
We are very sorry to hear about your loss.

Neil Liskey

July 20, 2010

Bob, Jeff, and the Rathbun Family, sorry to hear about your tragic loss. Its so painful to lose someone so close and someone you love. My condolences go out to your family in this most difficult time of need. May you find peace in all the wonderful memories of your father and husband.

barry card

July 20, 2010

to all of Bob"s family
my thoughts and prays are with you all.i coached with bob in the green devils org. and we use to get are xmas trees from bob.bob always had a kind words for me and a smile.he will be missed by of us that new him in the softball world as well as a friend.
god bless you all
barry card

April Weaver (Ware)

July 20, 2010

I am so sorry for your loss. It was really great reading all the wonderful memories of Uncle Bob. I know he has touched a lot of lives in a positive way. My family will keep you in our prayers. April, Larry, lil Larry and Alex.

p tarr

July 20, 2010

so sorry for your loss

barbara glenney

July 20, 2010

so sorry for your lost. you are in our thoughts and prayers. marci, lauren and barbara

Patty Herrick

July 20, 2010

Dear Linda and family, Mike and I were so sorry to hear of the passing of Bob. We share so many memories of Little League days. Bob touched so many lives, and in particular the lives of many children, through his love of sports. We will keep you all in our thoughts and prayers.

In loving kindness,

Patty and Mike Herrick

Theresa & Dave Ware

July 20, 2010

Linda,Bobby,Jeff,Jen
Our deepest sympathy to you all. We are so sorry for your loss. Bob touched many lives and will be remembered always.
I have fond memories when Bob, my dad,uncle Bob, and uncle Roland played softball, and you Linda kept score. Those were great times.I guess that is where it all started.
Bob will be missed.
My prayers are with you all.
Theresa & Dave Ware

Ron & Nancy Constant

July 20, 2010

Linda, Bobby, Jeffrey & Jen, we are so sorry to hear of Bob's passing, what a shame. Although we didn't get together often when we did Bob was always fun to be around. I remember him telling me if I needed a personal shopper he was available as he loved grocery shopping. Cherish all the good times that you shared with him. Again so sorry for your loss.

July 20, 2010

To Linda, Bobby, Jeff and Jen and their families,

Our deepest sympathy to all of you for the tragic loss of your husband and dad. We were all shocked to hear of Bob's passing and will remember him always. He influenced our lives as both coaches and players during our association with him during those wonderful years we knew him at SFC. Whether coaching or playing with or against him, he will always be one of the most influencial persons that taught us the way to play the game. We were fortunate to be friends with him and will cherish that friendship we had with him. He will be in our prayers and thoughts.

With deepest sympathy,

The Coletti Family

Delores Hervieux

July 20, 2010

It always is a sad day for those left behind but it is a day of celebration for he who is going to everlasting life. You have a great family to support you and help you to get through this trial. Bob would have wanted you to stay strong and remember the good times. My prayers are with you and your family.
Love Aunt Delores Hervieux

Rick & Michelle Coutu

July 20, 2010

To the Rathbun Family, We are so sorry for your loss. Bob was a great person and fun to be around. Our prayers are with all of you.

Andrea Rizzuto

July 20, 2010

To the Rathbun Family, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I have not seen Mr. Rathbun since I was in high school at NFA with Jen (playing softball) but he was a very nice man. He will be most definitely remembered as a wonderful person. Again I am so sorry for your loss.

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