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Mary Gargas Obituary

MARY C. GARGAS HIGHLAND, IN Mary C. Gargas "Kathy", age 64, of Highland, IN, passed away suddenly on Monday, April 14, 2008. She is survived by her husband of 44 years, Matthew Gargas of Highland, IN; three children: Jeffrey (Phyllis) Gargas of Sacramento, CA, Gina (Kevin) Balicki of Charlotte, NC and Rachael (Mark) Hall of Highland, IN; three grandchildren: Brandon, Emma and Riley; father, Albert Robinson, Sr. of Highland, IN; two brothers: Albert (Donna) Robinson, Jr. of Highland, IN and Timothy (Hope) Robinson of Niles, MI; one sister, Becky Henry of Merrillville, IN; one sister-in-law, Maryanne (Jeff) Fultz of Griffith, IN; and numerous nieces and nephews. Preceded in death by her mother, Marjorie Robinson; and her beloved dog, "Petie". Funeral services will be held Friday, April 18, 2008 at 9:30 a.m. from the Fagen-Miller Funeral Home, 2828 Highway Ave., Highland, IN followed by a Mass of Christian Burial at 10:00 a.m. at St. James Church, Highland, IN with Rev. Keith Virus officiating. Interment Chapel Lawn Cemetery, Schererville, IN. Friends and relatives may meet with the family at the funeral home on Thursday from 4:00-8:00 p.m. Prayer service 4:30 p.m. Kathy and her family were one of the founding families of St. James Church in Highland, IN. She was a Cosmetologist at Bunny's in Munster and a Real Estate Agent for McColly Real Estate in Highland for 16 years where she was a multi-million dollar producer. Kathy loved to travel, golf, fish, garden, write poetry and crochet blankets for her children and grandkids. She was a talented seamstress. Kathy was a loving wife, mother and grandmother. Donations to the American Heart Association or the Humane Society of the Calumet Area would be appreciated. www.fagenmiller.com

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Published by The Times from Apr. 16 to Apr. 17, 2008.

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Peter and Sherry Metz

May 5, 2008

Dear Matt & family, Pete and I are in shock as I'm sure you are too. Our sincerest sympathy goes out to you. Kathy was a good friend all the way through school and for several years after. I cannot believe we lost touch through the last few years . Matt our thoughts will be with you and your family.

Jeremy and Carri Gibson

April 23, 2008

We were so very sorry to hear about your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with your entire family in this time of grief. She was a wonderfully charming woman and it was a blessing to know her.

Marvin and MaryEtta Piper

April 21, 2008

Matt and Family Our sympathy and prayers are with you. Kathy will be greatly missed. May GOD comfort you in your time of sorrow.

Virgil Perry

April 19, 2008

Jeff.
Sorry to hear of your moms passing. Our prayers are with you and your family.

Darryl Evans and Ron Townsend

April 17, 2008

Jeff, Sorry to hear about your mom. We will be praying for you and your family.

Al Bement

April 17, 2008

I'm so sorry to hear about your Mother... I'm traveling or else I would be there...Al

RAY & LOIS POZYWIO

April 17, 2008

WOULD HAVE BEEN THERE FOR YOU IF WE COULD. PLEASE KNOW THAT OUR THOUGHTS ARE WITH YOU AND THAT WE HAVE MANY PLEASANT MEMORIES OF OUR TIMES SPENT TOGETHER

Jerry De Lira Sr.

April 17, 2008

Jeff,
So sory to hear about your mom. Our prayers are with your mom and your family.

Mike Wurst

April 17, 2008

Jeff, Phyllis and Gargas Family,

I know that words can not offer much comfort in such a time of loss, but rest assured that Cathy and I are keeping all of you in our thoughts and prayers as well as members of my church.

Mike & Cathy Wurst

Leonard Dozier

April 16, 2008

Jeff and family sorry for you lose. Your mom was a great person and she love all.

Apple Hill Golf course-Placerville, CA

April 16, 2008

Wine tasting in California

April 16, 2008

Jeff and Phyllis' wedding in Yosemite

April 16, 2008

Dave & Julie Czysczon

April 16, 2008

Matt, Rachel, and Family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with each one of you in your time of sorrow. When meeting Mary, it was as if we were already friends. We wish we would have gotten the chance to know her better.

Beverly Manzella

April 16, 2008

Jeff, so sorry for the loss of your mother. My prayers are with you, Phyllis and your family.

Patrick Shulack

April 16, 2008

Jeff, our deepest sympathy in this difficult time of loss for you and your family, Arlene and Pat Shulack

TJ carrier-murphy

April 16, 2008

Jeff,
I'm so sorry for your loss. Your friend from ski club.

TJ Carrier-Murphy

Jason, Caitlin & Finley Cartwright

April 16, 2008

Jeff, Phyllis and the Gargas Family:

You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Kathy June 11, 2005 at the lake for a reception!

April 16, 2008

Matt and Kathy at Graziano Reception 6/11/2005

Nelson, RoseAnne, Sheila, Peggy and Families

April 16, 2008

Matt and Family -Our deepest sympathies go with you and family in this time of loss. She will be greatly missed not only as a neighbor but also a good friend.

Norine Mulroe

April 16, 2008

Jeff,

I just heard about your Mother. I am so sorry for your loss. You will be in my thoughts and prayers.

Suzanne Schwandt Delich

April 16, 2008

I am writing to express my sincere condolences. I am so sorry for your loss. Mrs. Gargas was a very nice lady.

I have very fond memories of her; especially, when your family invited me to spend the weekend at your cabin. That was always a fun time, even if we had to ride in the back of the truck with Paul and Jeff giving us grief. Always fun though. Your Mom really reached out to the neighborhood kids and was kind enough to let us spend time at your house. She was one of the cooler mom's on the block.

I will keep your family in my prayers during this trying time. Please contact me if I can help in any way.

Sincerely,

KENNETH VENTRELLA

April 16, 2008

DEAR MATT,OUR DEEPEST CONDOLENCES FROM AFAR.
SINCERELY KEN & IRENE VENTRELLA

Rich Lahti

April 16, 2008

Matt, You have my deepest sympathy. I was just thinking back how long we have known each other, man it goes back to Cub Scouts. Take care. Rich

Sharon Percy

April 16, 2008

Matt(Al) & Rachel-Our deepest sympathies go with you in your time of grief. Precise Accounting is in shock at this sudden event. Kathy always brought a laugh to this serious side of life. She will be missed. You know you can always count on us for any help we can give.

Sam Morris

April 16, 2008

Jeff, My deepest sympathy goes out to you and your family. We here at Union Carbide ( Dow ) are praying for you during this trying time.

Marie Broughton

April 16, 2008

My name is Marie Broughton. I am Jeff and Phyllis's aunt from Winnebago, Illinois. I am so sorry for your great lost. It is so hard to lose a loved one. You can never replace a mother. My thoughts are with you all. God Bless. Marie.

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