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BARNETT--Donna Fern. Donna Fern Barnett was born on March 5, 1946 at Mt. Sinai Hospital and grew up in the Pelham Parkway Section of the Bronx with her doting older brother David. Her father, Benjamin Jablin, was an immigrant from Odessa, then part of Russia, and managed North End Wine and Liquor on Webster Avenue. Her Mother, Pauline Jablin, was born and raised on the Lower East Side. Donna graduated from high school at the age of 16 and enrolled at Hunter College, where she graduated with a bachelor's degree in literature and history. She worked as a social worker for the City of New York with at-risk children in the late 1960s, and she worked part-time in an eyeglass store on the Upper East Side. Donna met her husband, the late Dr. Jay Barnett, on a blind double date arranged by their fathers. They were married on December 23, 1973 and had three children, Franya, Dov, and Channing. Donna was a committed mother who encouraged her children to shine in the classroom and in athletics. Never a helicopter parent, she allowed her children to learn from their mistakes and forge their own paths. A painter and photographer, Donna appreciated the beauty in nature and the cityscape. She loved delicate, vibrant flowers and skyscrapers. She captured powerful images from Glacier National Park to the Chrysler Building, and from the cherry blossoms of Central Park to the tulip fields of Holland. An elegant presence on the Upper East Side for over forty years, Donna Barnett died peacefully on January 7, 2020 in Boca Raton, Florida, surrounded by her three children. She is survived by her children and her nine grandchildren who will miss their Nana Donna very much.

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Published by New York Times on Jan. 9, 2020.

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Bojan Avramovic

August 10, 2022

We met Donna and Jay on the Seacloud in Panama. These guys were really cool. We had such a good time together. I will never forgett those lovely evenings. It really makes me sad, finding this note. Now I know why there was no response to my mails. But looking back I´m smiling. I´m happy that I met them!

Mark Peress

January 13, 2020

In 1992 I opened a small specialty store on the upper Eastside and Donna was our very first customer. For over 25 years we looked forward to seeing her, not just as a customer but as a friend. She always took the time to talk and ruminate about world near & far, along with offering very good advice about bringing up children. Sending my condolences to the family. MP

Nancy Liss

January 9, 2020

I regret not knowing about Donna's passing. My love to all.
May she Rest In Peace

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