Menu
Search by Name
Search by Name
FUNERAL HOME
GERALD BENJAMIN Obituary
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
Memories and Condolences
for GERALD BENJAMIN
Michelle Wardzinski Alessi
January 2, 2025
The world is a less kind place without you. Miss you and think of you often. Selfishly, I need your dental expertise and there is know one that can replace you. May your souls rest in peace.
Michelle
Dexter Family
December 21, 2024
Absolutely one in a million!!! May you be at peace watching over us all.
Bill Niemi
December 21, 2024
42 years of friendship and excellent dental care, I miss him.
Greg Kurtzman
December 21, 2024
having been friends for about 20+ years we spoke daily ranting about our fellow dentists and other things, always entertaining chats and here almost a year later I still think of him often
Betty
December 20, 2024
Still missing you.
LINDO SIGNORELLI
December 19, 2024
Peace doctor
Dr. Ashok
July 15, 2024
Dr. Gerald Benjamin is one & the only mentor, true Hero. Iam a practising Dentist from India, He liked my work, he saw my cases in dental forums and he invited me to visit his office to polish my skills , that's how our teacher and student bonding started in 2006. From there onwards what ever iam today, i owe that to him. Only his wife Susan can understand what kind of relationship I and Gerald had. No one can replace him to me as a mentor. Iam remembering you every day in my office boss. Thanks master for whatever you taught me in dentistry. For me you are always there.
Colleen
April 26, 2024
Blessings to the family..so sorry out of the State at the time and wwre not aware of his sudden passing.Condolences and such a loss to all as he really enjoyed his work and displayed a great sense of humor.
Kevin Gendron
March 2, 2024
Dr Benjamin was one of the kindest people I have ever meet I thank him for all he did for me and my family over the years he will be truly be missed by everyone,KEVIN GENDRON
Delinda Goyer
January 31, 2024
I've gone to Dr. Benjamin about 40 years. The first time I sat in his chair, he gave me a hematoma :) I'm so glad I gave him a second chance...He was very kind. I was a young single mom and he gave me discounted dental work until he made my mouth feel good again. Then I got married and he would tease me and ask if I was pregnant again every time I saw him. We shared something in common. I had an accident and had drop foot like Dr. B. I was fortunate to have had a surgery that allows me to walk without a brace. We talked a lot about that and my experience was no where near what he experienced, but he was very empathetic. I never liked going to the dentist, but I always loved when he said I was in good shape! I will miss him and as I look for a new dentist, I know I won't be able to NOT compare him or her to our precious Dr. B. There will never be anyone like him that I will be able to have so much trust in.
Veronica Gardy Cartier
January 28, 2024
In loving memory of a wonderful person. THE best dentist ever! First started seeing Dr. Benjamin in Cropseyville, NY when I was just a kid and followed him to Saratoga. I am so very sad to learn of his passing. Our family loved Dr. Benjamin. We will miss you always.
Tracy M
January 22, 2024
My condolences to Dr Benjamin´s family and office family. I am heartbroken to hear this. What an outstanding dentist and an even better man. He was the first dentist who actually helped me save my teeth and make my smile whole again. I wish I had met him sooner. I will miss our chats about life, and I´ll also miss the wonderful staff he surrounded himself with.
Until we meet again my friend
Jipala Kagan
January 21, 2024
So sad to hear this news. What a great dentist and a good human. He was extraordinary at his occupation and took such pride in his work and care. Someone who will be remembered and missed.
Lots of love to his family and friends.
Maureen McGrath
January 19, 2024
I was so very sad to hear that Dr.Benjamin had passed. He was my dentist for so many years from way back in the Tamarac plaza days . He was always such a kind and dedicated dentist and I can't imagine having any one else.
Trips to the office always felt like visiting with a dear old friend.
My deepest condolences to his family he will be missed by so many.
Philadelphia
January 17, 2024
Deepest condolences to the family.
Elizabeth Heonis
January 16, 2024
Dr. Benjamin was not only a great dentist, he was a lovely person. I always enjoyed my chats with him during my visits to his office. He truly cared about his patients, he will be missed.
Gabby Wood
January 15, 2024
The world will miss you Dr. B. Condolences from myself, Paul, and our parents to Susan and his staff.
I once asked Dr Benjamin why he became a dentist- he told me, in short form, that he loved to see a good smile, and to make others feel good about themselves. He certainly did that for me, and clearly for a lot of other people. May his memory be a blessing.
Jim Duggan, the Professor
January 14, 2024
Susan and Family,
As I learn the news of a friend's passing I am saddened. The many years since last we met have often been occupied with fond memories of our fledgling years together at Fosdick Masten. Benji, Fundy, Marie, Ron and I formed an unholy alliance as we struggled to find our ways in the classrooms of that venerable building at the corner of Buffalo's Michigan and East North Sts. It was a time of unrest both in the world and in our worlds. Viet Nam raged and the daily uncertainties of military service combined with our own lack of experience in the classroom made for some tenuous days. In retrospect, we made it through because we had a shared belief in our ability to make a difference in our students' lives and a willingness to entertain the vitality that these young women brought to our neophytic experience.
We learned to depend on each other whether it was chaperoning dances, fashion shows, field trips, basketball on Friday afternoons or much-needed gatherings at the Benjamin mansion on Grand Island.
Benji had his ready smile, an indomitable can-do spirit and an open heart to anyone who was in need. He was a hit with our all-female student body because they understood how much he truly cared.
I will forever hold closely those early days, treasure our shared growth and value the worth of a true friend.
Please know that I share in your sadness but am warmed by the rich memories that our relationship fostered.
Bill Niemi
January 14, 2024
My initial entry into this guestbook was way too short for someone of Dr. Benjamin's stature. Dr. Lillquist's recent entry is a better reflection of how I feel.
This is the first time in my life that I have come back to reread condolences. Maybe it's because I can't believe he's gone.
Patricia Lillquist, M.D.
January 13, 2024
I was devastated to hear the news of Dr. Benjamin´s death. My deep condolences to Susan, his staff, especially Trish, and all who were fortunate to know him. I was blessed to have known him for 35+ years - from the strip mall in Cropseyville to Saratoga. He was the only doctor n NY I continued to see after moving to Coastal N.C. 14 years ago. Dr. Benjamin was indeed exceptional as a dentist and human being. He was hardworking, exquisitely skilled, knowledgeable, compassionate, reliable, witty, generous- I could go on and on. His amazing work has stood the test of time and so many of us value our Benjamin Smile. His selflessly shared his knowledge and experience with younger dentists and students. We are all so much better for having known him and I hope we can all find comfort in the wonderful memories he has given us.
Jeanne Waterbury
January 12, 2024
During a dental emergency, I called Dr. Benjamin when my then regular dentist couldn't see me for 5 weeks. He said meet me in the office. No hesitation. I never saw another dentist except for Dr. B. I will miss his care, dedication, and his never ending commitment to "doing the right thing." I had so much respect for him and his consistent goal to save your teeth. He took great pride in his work as he should have, it was impeccable. We all have lost an icon. Susan, staff, and family, I am sure all that everyone has commented about your husband, family, and friend, is no surprise to you. He was one of a kind. Praying for peace and strength for you all as you navigate this sad and uncertain time.
Debbie L
January 12, 2024
So sorry to hear of the passing of Dr. Benjamin. Condolences to his wife and dental family. He was the best in the business. Having had dental work that he did for me over 30 years ago that is still intact says a lot about the amazing dentist and wonderful man he was. He will be greatly missed. I will always remember the "Benjamin Smile" Rest in Peace!
Diane Forkeutis
January 12, 2024
Dear Susan, I am so sorry for the loss of your dear husband. Please accept my deep condolences. I always enjoyed interactions with him both in East Hills and at your home in Saratoga. Particularly I enjoyed his beautiful smile and welcoming our book club ladies. He gave so much to others through his excellent work as Is evident by the testimonies by so many persons who had the good fortune to know him - a wonderful legacy!
January 12, 2024
(P.S. I am SO going to- every day- floss & brush my teeth, scrape my tongue, use straws if I drink anything acidic, not chew on ice, use stuff- day & night- to combat my persistent "dry mouth", swish around mouthwash regularly... I will combat every element encountered in the life of a mouth to preserve my Benjamin Smile. And, every time, I will be thinking of him.
Maila Niemi
January 12, 2024
How can the world keep rotating on its axis without him in it?! To say he will be missed is such a tremendous understatement. I´ve been trying to find the words all day, after attending the memorial. My family has known Dr. Benjamin for over 40 years. There are just no words that could describe what a special soul he graced us with.
Dorothea Fisher
January 11, 2024
I was so very saddened to hear of Dr Benjamin´s passing. Such a wonderful dentist as well as person. I started with him when the office was across the street from Brittonkill School. Continued with his practice as he moved to Saratoga. After moving to Florida I had considered making a trip or two a year back to see Dr Benjamin. There was just no replacing him!
Condolences to his family and staff who I know will all greatly miss him.
K
January 11, 2024
Dr B was such a wonderful kind funny intelligent honest amazing human and an equally incredible and talented dentist. He was also our friend. We are so sad to hear of his passing. We loved him very very much.
His crazy patients- Faust, Karen, and Kristin.
RIP Dr B.
Our thoughts and prayers are with his wife whom he talked so fondly of, his family and his beloved staff.
LINDO SIGNORELLI
January 11, 2024
A truly wonderful and inspiring person. He always told it like it was
Robert Scott
January 11, 2024
I was Gerry's account for more than twenty years, he was my dentist and friend for all those years as well. I always enjoyed our discussions together, even when we didn't agree.
I will miss him dearly and will never forget him.
Arden Bull
January 10, 2024
"The Benjamin Smile". Do you have one? I know all his staff projected his perfect smile, as they showed genuine care for us the minute we opened the door for our time with Dr. Ben.
My wife and I have known and have had our teeth, and our hearts cared for since the 1970's. What a wonderful man!!
Dr Ben gave both of us (with the professional care of his capable and friendly staff) the smile he gave to so many.
Here's our memory of a typical office visit to see Dr. Ben...
"Hello my friend, how have you been"? Then the stories and jokes start as we set in the chair.
Visit went like this...
* A bib to cover our shirt.
* Take off the glasses
* Time for xrays.. "don't move"...while he goes to an underground bunker to hit the switch...:)
* Then he brings that giant camera to take "pre" pictures.
* Next comes the needle.... doesn't let you see it as Trisha passes it to him behind my head. "Please close your eyes, don't want any of this to get in you eyes by mistake." With steady hands you then feel a slight pinch and he squeezes a quart of cool novicane to keep me stiil for an hour....
* Then the dreaded "rubber dam" is installed with his "on sale" Harbor Freight players. OUCH!! "I'll get professional dental plyers when business picks up" he quips. :)
* Dr Ben gets the drill and water going while Janine gets the suction/vacuum duty.
"Dr...take your foot off the water pump, your gonna drown him" !!! Says Janine...
Dr Ben then says... "Laska will be sending us a laundry bill for his shirt cleaning. We're not gonna make any money today"
Of course I can't respond with that dam in my mouth, and they know it.. All in fun of course, while Dr. Ben's steady hands work miracles on my teeth.
* This procedure continues for xxxx number of appointments until the final appointment from Dr Ben, with his rock steady and sure hands, as he fits the last tooth into place.
And asks..." Are you ready to look in the mirror, as Trisha, Janine, and Suan all gather to see ...
"THE BENJAMIN SMILE"
My first comment was..."Those are awful big teeth!!! At this moment Dr Ben pulls out his big camera and takes the long awaited for, Final photo, which he says will go in his Rock Star Album.
Then Dr Ben and staff reply in unison... "Enjoy your journey as you tell others how you came to have such a wonderful smile...
"THE BENJAMIN SMILE " !!!!!
We were deeply saddened to hear of our beloved Dr. Ben passing so quickly. A big emptiness in our hearts.
We will hold you, Susan, and staff in our prayers as you reflect on good memories of Dear Dr Ben. over the next days/weeks and find peace knowing how he loved each of you and so, so many more. May his love shine with all of us as a friend not to be forgotten.
So long, Doctor Benjamin....
Dear Friends....
Arden and Laska Bull
Eagle Mills, NY
Cindy Sullivan
January 10, 2024
Words can not express how sad we were to hear of Dr. Benjamin's passing. We have been patients of his for more than 40 years. His work was always impeccable and we knew that we were receiving the best care available. We considered him our friend and always enjoyed our conversations covering a variety of topics. We will miss him, he can not be replaced. Our sympathies to his wife, Susan and his staff. Rest in Peace Dr. Benjamin.
Cindy and John Sullivan and family
Edward Gresens
January 10, 2024
I am a 30+ year patient of Dr. Benjamin. I followed him from Cropseyville to Saratoga because of his expertise and skills in dentistry. His attitude toward what he felt needed to be done and what could wait sealed my allegiance to him. His positive attitude and knowledge of dentistry was always impressive. I knew when I entered his office I would receive the best care possible. He will be very hard to replace. I don't think I will find anyone as good as he.
Shelia McKeon
January 10, 2024
Susan
My sincere condolences.
Shelia McKeon
Michele Rosenthal
January 10, 2024
I am so sorry to hear of Dr. Benjamin´s passing. I met him this past summer in Saratoga while I was up visiting family & friends. I had temporaries fitted over my upper teeth in NJ a few days prior (while the lab made my porcelain veneers) & while I was in Mrs London´s they shattered while biting into a baguette!!!! I was in agony!!! Not one Dr would see me or help me as it was 5pm on a Sunday & my dr was about 3-4 hours away back in NJ! My mother said let´s call Dr Benjamin & see if he can help, so I did & minutes later he called me back & asked if I could come to his office around 8pm after he got home from dinner on a Sunday evening!!!. He worked on my teeth for hours & relieved all my pain & they looked GORGEOUS!!! He refused to take payment for his services. I started to cry because he was so unbelievably kind. I sent money to St Jude´s on his behalf instead, as he refused to accept any payment. He then called me for days making sure I was ok & enjoying my vacation in upstate - and then I flew to Paris for work without any pain or issues. (& ate more baguettes too!!!) None of that would have been possible without Dr Benjamin. He said he was from a different time in medicine & that he loved what he did ! I´ll never forget him & his kindness & artistry
Bette Durrant
January 10, 2024
Over twenty years ago, Dr. Ben became my dentist. I always called him Dr. Ben and when he walked into the cubical I would always say " Hello my dentist" and it would always start a conversation and a story how we met. I will always remember you and our conversations, and so I say to you "Good-bye My Dentist". You will always be remembered .
Glenn Davenport
January 10, 2024
I'm devastated for our loss. I've only been a patient for a decade or so, and I wish I had met him sooner to avoid all the bad dental experiences that let me to him.
As so many have said, Dr Benjamin made dental visits so pleasant and, yes, fun! As a patient, I trusted him implicitly. He always knew what to do, and he clearly enjoyed the process.
I adored him and the conversations we had. I felt guilty for holding up other patients' appointments because we would just keep talking. Knowing the next patient would receive the same thoughtful care and enjoyable conversation made me feel a little better, of course.
He was a superhero dentist that railed against the multitude of bad ones that focus on profit and speed over preserving our teeth and, ultimately, our health. I can't think of too many healthcare professionals that anyone would care this much about - professionally and personally.
Susan, we've never met, but I'm terribly sorry for your loss. And, of course, the whole family he worked with that are equally amazing; he wouldn't have it any other way, and that's why we trusted you all so much.
He was truly a gem.
Jo-Anne & Walter Hughes
January 10, 2024
We were shocked and saddened to hear of Dr. Benjamin´s passing. We met him many years ago when he had a little office in Cropseyville. We eventually moved and then followed him to Saratoga. He was one of a kind and his obvious enthusiasm for all things dentistry, always brought a smile to our faces. We will miss our many interesting conversations, some of which included our mutual love of cars. Our thoughts are with his wife, Susan, and his wonderful Staff.
He always told us that we should always ask for the best, especially when it involved our health. Dr. Benjamin, you were the best and you will be missed!
Sincerely,
Jo-Anne & Walter Hughes
Sander White
January 10, 2024
May all who knew Gerald be comforted by the pleasant memories that he created for his family and Friends as well as his many patients throughout his lifetime. He was an exemplary practitioner and mentor to many. I will remember always our political discussions. Though I never met him personally, I felt like I knew him well through the dental forums of which we were both members. May his memory be for a blessing. Sander White DDS
Mo & Winnie O'Connell
January 10, 2024
We were shocked and saddened to hear of Gerald Benjamin's passing. He was larger and life. A great loss for all our but of course, especially his family, staff and close friends. He was a wonderful doctor and person, a real professonal.
There will never be anyone like him and we will miss him.
Dr Maurice and Winifred O'Connell
John Seward
January 10, 2024
From a dentist in Ireland who only knew Gerald through online ACE discussions but learned a great deal from him especially the necessity to constantl aim for perfection in what we do. John Seward.
Deb Weiskopf
January 10, 2024
I was so sad to hear of Dr. Benjamin´s passing. Sending sympathies to his family, staff, and friends. He has been my dentist for over 40 years. He was so patient and kind to me. I will miss him dearly.
Jack Weiss
January 10, 2024
Gerald was a member of the dental forum I was on and even though I did not know him personally, he was well resepected by the dentists around the world that were memebers of this group. We all respected the incredible work he did and the care he gave his patients. I know he'll be missed by his patients and family as he will be missed by all of us that knew him on the forum. May his memory be a blessing.
Dr. Matthew Gillespie
January 10, 2024
You were probably one of my most influential mentors even though I never met you in person. Thank you for the impact you have had on me as a person and a dentist.
My patients are better off because of you even though you never set foot in my practice which I believe is one of the biggest compliments I could give you.
Thank you for all you have done for me.
Gregori M Kurtzman DDS
January 10, 2024
Was fortunate to become friends with Gerald about 16 or so years ago. We talked typically weekly on various dental things and have to say he was the dentist many of us strive to be. A perfectionist and really cared about his patients. I will truly miss him and the connection we had. Let me share a story about us
About 14 years ago I was in Albany to speak at the local meeting for the region. I am walking down the street with a friend and she says "Do you know anyone at the meeting?" I look in front of us and see someone walking towards us and say "Yes in fact here comes a local friend Gerald Benjamin" He just happened to be walking on the sidewalk but was not attending the meeting. What a lucky break, he and I had been friends a few years at that point.
Patrick Carroll DMD
January 10, 2024
I think the best thing that can be said of a man is the following" He was truly a good man." That truly describes Gerald. I am so sorry for the families loss. RIP Gerald.
Tammy L Rucigay
January 9, 2024
Dearest staff and family of Dr B.
I am so shocked and sad to hear of this news. I recently saw an ad on TV advertising his wonderful practice. I always intended to come back to him when my veneers from 2010/2011 would need to be replaced. I still get compliments on them after all these years.
Tricia, Janine, everyone- I am so sorry to hear of this tragic news! I know both of you have been with him forever! I can only imagine how devastated you are. I also remember his lovely receptionist Betty. I believe she may have retired, but she had the most soothing, melodic voice, and was always so kind and professional when she answered the phone!
She was the very first person a patient would interact with, and I have missed her being there.
I also knew that the only thing that would stop him from practicing his gifted craft, which he loved and was born to do, would be his passing.
Dr. Benjamin was always kind, cheerful and happy; not to mention, he was the very best at his profession!
He must have been a wonderful employer for all of you were with him for so long!
He was also very fortunate to have all of you by his side!
Each of you contributed so much to his practice!
I know he would have been lost without you Janine- you were an angel! I always thought you could take over for him if necessary...lol, because of your talent and the devotion to the work both of you did!
And Tricia- what can I say? You ran the office as if it were your own business, and I am quite certain you could have done it in your sleep, or with your eyes close; that is how excellent you were! Furthermore, you were fair;
You had to make a lot of decisions on his behalf, and in the best interest of his patients.
Each person, all of you-contributed so much!
I was a patient in 2010-2011;
and had to return a couple of years ago, for a minor problem in which he and all of you welcomed me with open arms.
Dr. Benjamin was one of the most down to earth, and kindest, yet extremely skilled professional physicians that I ever had the pleasure of meeting; and am very grateful for having been one of his patients.
My deepest condolences to his wife, family, office staff, colleagues, friends, and fellow patients. He was an amazing man and doctor, who treated everyone with kindness and was blessed with a skill which he bestowed upon his patients.
He will be deeply missed in this community, and personally by me!
May he rest in peace and his family somehow find comfort in the fact that he was a wonderful human being and possessed a superior expertise in his craft!
Donna Mahoney
January 9, 2024
In addition to my earlier message, I want to extend my deepest condolences to Dr. Benjamin´s wife Susan and to his staff.
Donna Mahoney
January 9, 2024
I was so deeply saddened when I read the office email to notify me of Dr. Benjamin´s sudden passing. I first met Dr. Benjamin in the early-mid 90´s. He was covering for Dr. Purcell during the Christmas holiday. I called Dr. Purcell on behalf of my elderly dad who had suddenly developed a severe tooth ache mid afternoon Christmas Day. Dr. Purcell´s service contacted Dr. Benjamin who phoned me in short order. He treated my dad that evening without his dental assistant or hygienist to assist. He was kind, welcoming and very reassuring to my dad. When he finished his work, Dr. Benjamin advised my dad to call him if he developed any problems, and then advised my dad as to how to proceed with his dentist. That evening defined everything about Dr. Benjamin- Extraordinaire as written in the obituary. Such an accurate and fitting description.
I always viewed any appointment at Dr. Benjamin´s office - be it for a checkup or for any type of restorative work - with anticipation that is typically associated with a fun social time. He set that kind of culture in his office. That culture also translated to the respect and deep caring that he showed for his professional family. Dr. Benjamin´s sharp eye, compassion, quick wit, & sense of humor, along with his amazing professional skills and knowledge made every visit a real joy. I truly never wanted to leave when the appointment was over. The conversation was so rich and fun.
It was clear that Dr Benjamin truly loved and relished his work as a dentist. It was also clear that he loved life.
Dr. Benjamin made a point to share his knowledge and insight in such an interesting and unassuming manner. If he was presented with a challenge during a procedure, Dr. Benjamin would welcome it with his signature professional zest and ease. In the end, Dr. Benjamin would overcome the hurdle, and share with delight how he was able to achieve the desired outcome.
A consummate professional who truly gave his all to his patients, he would remind me at the conclusion of any appointment, that if I ever developed a dental problem, to call him day or night or over the weekend.
At one point, Dr. Benjamin did just that for me. I was in France and needed an antibiotic for a dental problem related to oral surgery. The oral surgeon was unable to call the French pharmacy. I remembered Dr. Benjamin´s advice, and so I called his cell and left a message. In very short order, he contacted the French pharmacy and I was quickly able to have my antibiotic and enjoy the remainder of my vacation. I was extremely grateful to Dr. Benjamin for his help to say the least.
I greatly appreciate that I was able to be a long time patient of Dr. Benjamin. He was an amazing and brilliant dentist, and an incredible human being.
Michael J Guilianelle
January 9, 2024
How many people can say I love going to the Dentist ??? Well I can and it was truly my pleasure to be your patient Dr. Benjamin. Such professionalism and dedication you always afforded me. I always looked forward to visiting with the Great Dr. Benjamin. It was always a fun experience and his expertise was beyond reproach. He would always put you at ease with his humor and of course our political debates. Such was the exemplary team you surrounded yourself with Dr. Benjamin with, Jeanie, Trish, Amy, and Shawn. I will miss you dearly Dr. Benjamin especially your kindness and gracious smile. You are truly blessed and may the Good Lord great you with the same kindness you dispensed with everyone you touched. Rest In Peace Dr. Benjamin...
Arnold Greenberg
January 9, 2024
Susan and family. My sincere sympathy
David J. McGrath
January 9, 2024
So sorry to hear of his passing. His talents and expertise will surely be missed by all who were fortunate to be is patient his caring, concern and compassion for all was second to none. Long live the smiles he has created.
Barb Treiber
January 9, 2024
What a surprise it was to hear of Dr. Benjamin's passing. I have been a patient since the 1970's so we had a very long relationship. He will be missed very much. He "saved" many of my teeth and for that I am grateful. To Susan and staff please keep all the good memories in your hearts. I know I will. Gone but not forgotten.
Anita Comtois
January 9, 2024
May the road rise to meet you
May the wind be always at your back
May the sunshine warm your face, the rain fall soft upon your fields
And until we meet again, May God hold you in the Palm of His hand.
What a Gift you have been to me and so many others and I will always Forever have a Benjamin Smile
Heather Fougnier
January 9, 2024
My family and I would like to express our deepest condolences for the passing of Dr. Benjamin. He was an extraordinary, talented and inspiring person. He will be sorely missed.
Deirdre Dugan Mammen
January 9, 2024
Tom, Kate, Chris and I were patients of Dr. Benjamin for over 30 years. He was recommended to me by another dentist as one of the best two dentists in the Capital District. Over the years, we had many delightful conversations about how Kate and Chris and then our grandchildren were doing as well as our shared political views. We will miss his excellent care. Our condolences for his family and his staff.
Peter Mahigian
January 9, 2024
Dear Susan, although we've never met, I enjoyed Gerry's stories about his life and times while unable to comment as his fingers were always in my mouth! He was an amazing dentist and friend. He often told me as he was looking in my mouth that "he could see my house from here"...a punch line from a joke I told him when we first met. I still carry his work and great dental perfection and am proud to have known him. Much love always.
Betty Rice
January 9, 2024
Like so many of Dr Benjamin´s patients I too was the recipient of his extraordinary care, treatment and kindness. I am devastated and know there will never be another person like him. I will miss him and send my condolences to Susan and the staff.
Bernice Cietek
January 9, 2024
So Sorry for the loss of this Great Man & Wonderful Dentist. Only had the pleasure of knowing him for 2 years but He was Amazing. May He Rest in Peace.
Bernice Cietek
Charles & Sharon Dubacher
January 9, 2024
Dear Suan, family and Dr. Benjamin's Staff,
We are so sorry for the loss of Dr. B. My family and I have been going to him for over 35 years. As many of his patients, we took the ride to Saratoga after the move from Tamarac because that's what he meant to us. He was such an extraordinary dentist and person that we knew he was always worth the trip! His perspective on life and his sense of humor were always welcomed as you sat in the chair and listened to him. Our sincere sympathy to you all!
Chris Schillinger
January 9, 2024
We are so sad and pray for comfort for Susan, friends, family, and his loyal staff.
Over 30 year of dental care, friendship (greeting us each visit with, "hello, my friend), and sharing of heart, he is already greatly missed .
I credit Dr. Benjamin in helping save my life. His encouragement to seek treatment at Memorial Sloan-Kettering when I was diagnosed with cancer 22 years ago, I believe, is why I am here today.
You inspired us to do what we love because then, it's not work at all, especially when we are helping others.
We have loved and lost you, but are better for it, my friend.
Ann Denio
January 9, 2024
I thought if anyone could live forever it would be you. I came to you at age 23, 43years ago and you were so confident and friendly. We discussed many topics and you made each visit a joy.... What dentist does that? You have a staff that is so friendly and kind, you created that atmosphere... you were truly a gift from God. I will miss you and our banter. My condolences to your wife, what a blessed life she shared with you. Until we meet again!!
Jeanmarie Church
January 9, 2024
I am so deeply saddened to hear of Dr. Benjamin's passing. My most sincere and heartfelt condolences to his dear wife Susan, family, friends and dedicated staff. My thoughts are with all of you. Over 40 years ago I made the right decision when I entrusted my dental care to Dr. Benjamin. It has truly been a rewarding journey. Dr. Benjamin, I am not able to express how much you are missed. Thank you for everything, my friend!
Marri Aviza
January 9, 2024
My deepest sympathy, sending prayers and love to his family. Dr. Benjamin was a wonderful man always kind, compassionate and professional. I enjoyed getting to know him and you could always count on him to make you smile. He was truly an exceptional person! He will be greatly missed by many, he was truly one of a kind.
Margie Rotchford
January 9, 2024
Dr. Benjamin was a wonderful, kind, caring, and very funny man in addition to being the very best dentist I ever went to. I loved him very much. My condolences to Susan. He loved you so much. He always spoke of you when I was in his office.
Ronni Rosenfeld
January 9, 2024
I am so sorry for the loss of Dr. Benjamin. He was a wonderful person and an extraordinary dentist. I was honored to have him as my dentist and enjoyed my visits with him as I sat in his chair and listened to him tell me his thoughts, his philosophies and his comical comments.
I will miss him. My heart goes out to Susan and the staff.
Ronni Rosenfeld
Linda Dayton
January 8, 2024
Susan, I am so sorry to learn of Dr. Benjamin´s passing. I will keep you, your family, and his staff in my thoughts and prayers. May God bless you.
Andie Lawrence
January 8, 2024
I am crushed to hear that Dr. Benjamin is gone. I just saw him before Christmas. He was my dentist for over 30 years. He was worth traveling an hour for!! I will miss our silly and/or serious conversations about a myriad of things. He helped me through so many dental issues. He always spent so much time explaining things to me. It will be hard to find someone that I can trust as much and who has such amazing talent. The world has lost a gem. Thank you!
Bill Niemi
January 8, 2024
He was my dentist from 1981 to the present. He was a perfectionist and highly skilled. He was a friend as well and had a great sense of humor. I last saw him in the fall. I asked to not retire because my family needed him. He said he had no intention of retiring. We will miss him.
Michelle Wardzinski Alessi
January 8, 2024
My deepest condolences to Dr. Benjamin´s family, friends, and staff. As one his patient's, I was blessed to be under his care. He was one of a kind person and dentist- kind, caring, brilliant, funny , and beyond meticulous. I waited 15 years (as did he) to have him give me the `Benjamin Smile´ and it was worth the wait. There will never be another Dr. Benjamin, never a dentist more humane and geniune. May his soul rest in peace and he will be greatly missed.
Michelle Wardzinski Alessi
Trevor Simmons
January 8, 2024
I was lucky enough to meet Dr. Benjamin and have him as my dentist for just a few short years. After we moved to Boston in 2019, I had my dental work (from another dentist) fall out and break a tooth...i drove three hours to get it fixed by Dr. Benjamin. His professionalism and excellence are the high bar by which I judge all my doctors ever since. He took the time to mentor my wife who is a dentist, talked to me like an old friend, laughed deep and from his heart, and it was infectious. I am proud to walk around with his work in my mouth, and now when I am smiling, I'm bringing his joy with me to share with another person who might need it. Rest in peace Dr. Benjamin, an exceptional human.
Deb Tomaso
January 8, 2024
I am incredibly sad to hear of Dr. B's passing. I was a patient of Dr. Benjamin's for many years. He was a true professional and a master of his profession. Most of all he was the most sincere, kindest and compassionate man. He and his staff took extraordinary care of me and my smile. I will forever be grateful for him "doing the right thing" and for having had the pleasure of knowing him. My sincerest condolences to his wife, family and staff. There are no words to express how much you will be missed.
Deb Tomaso
Jenn Keating
January 8, 2024
Dr. Benjamin was simply the best and one of a kind. I never met anyone who loved their job more than he did and going to his office was a pleasure. I was lucky enough to find him when looking to get a tooth fixed, which he did beautifully and then I stayed with him. His work was top notch and he did the right thing every time. You went to him if you were a "tooth person" because he would do what was right and not what insurance dictated, I wish there were more medical professionals like him. Thank you Dr. Benjamin, you will be greatly missed. My condolences to his wife, family, friends and his lovely staff.
Rayna Caldwell
January 8, 2024
I am so very sorry to hear of Dr. Benjamin's passing. I admired his commitment to excellence. Condolences to the staff, as well, whose lives will be disrupted.
Pilar Dexter
January 8, 2024
Dr. Benjamin was more than a dentist. While his professional technique was beyond perfection, but the depth of his character and his dedication to his patients were beyond extraordinary. Words cannot express my appreciation for the care he gave to me and my family for almost 40 years. After he moved his practice an hour away, we followed him because his care was incomparable. He inspired a trust that is so rare in medicine today. I cannot express how truly we will miss him and I´m sure I am not alone. He was more than a dentist. He was our friend. May God keep him in a special place.
Linda Alifano
January 8, 2024
I am truly heartbroken to have heard of the passing of Dr B . I have been a patient of his for over 20 years. He took such good care of his patients. I will miss you and the great service you provided me over the years.
Christine C Sarratori
January 8, 2024
I am devastated. He was my dentist for the last 20+ years. He treated all of us like he would treat his family. He was an extremely talented, knowledgeable and professional as a Doctor but what stands out to me is his humanity. My sincerest condolences to his wife, friends and staff. There is no one like him and he will be missed.
Jennifer Dunn
January 8, 2024
There are no words to express how saddened I was to hear of Dr. Benjamin's passing. Dr. Benjamin always greeted you with a smile and a heartfelt how are you? My son, Andrew, always got a charge at the comment, "You have the best teeth in the entire family!" after every appointment. This says a lot after 40 years of seeing the best dentist around. He will be deeply missed.
Debora Grandeau
January 8, 2024
I am beyond heartbroken as I have been a patient of Dr Benjamin´s for 35 years. He was one in a million and truly cared about each and every one of his patients. I will greatly miss our conversations but most of all the phenomenal care he has given me all these years. I am going to miss him in countless ways. I still can´t believe it. Rest easy Dr B and thank you for everything you have given me. I miss you friend!
Showing 1 - 82 of 82 results
Make a Donation
in GERALD BENJAMIN's name
Memorial Events
for GERALD BENJAMIN
How to support GERALD's loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.
The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.
Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?
What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?
Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?
We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.
Read moreResources to help you cope with loss
Estate Settlement Guide
If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.
Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast
Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.
Read more
The Five Stages of Grief
They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.
Read moreWays to honor GERALD BENJAMIN's life and legacy
Obituary Examples
You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.
Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples
These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.
Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?
Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.
Read more
