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J. GAVIGAN Obituary

GAVIGAN--J. Thomas. 65, of Long Island, NY, born August 15, 1947, died unexpectedly of complications from a broken femur, in La Quinta, CA, on October 23, 2012. Tom is survived by his wife, Judy, his four "suns", Mark Thomas, Matthew, Christopher, and Jude, as well as his six grandchildren, Luke, Eve, Poppy, Carleigh, David and Ryan. Tom's spirit of enthusiasm, generosity, and devotion to those he loved will be deeply missed.

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Published by New York Times on Oct. 28, 2012.

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Carol Philipp Goodwin

November 4, 2012

I remember the first morning that Tom walked into the Management Office at Gimbels East ~ a twinkle in his eye and a presence to be admired. His reputation did preceed him. He quickly became a friend, ally and teacher.

My deepest sympathies to all the family.

November 4, 2012

Papa T, you will forever be. Your life has touched so many in such a positive way. A model for all to keep living life to its fullest, staying positive and putting family first. We miss you terribly, will love you always and you are in our hearts and thoughts every day. All our love, Kim, Matt, Carleigh, David and Ryan

Dianne Babb

October 30, 2012

Tom was a loving and devoted family man, a great friend, a dedicated businessman and the true definition of a gentleman.

Jude Gavigan

October 29, 2012

Dad,
Was a leader and role model for many
he shows true love to all the soles he has touched
love you forever

Mark-Thomas Gavigan

October 29, 2012

Dad, was a man of character, of strength, and dignity. His family was blessed through the years with laughter, joy and goodness. love, Mark Thomas and Kristin

Rochelle Phillips

October 29, 2012

As I was flipping through the NY Times yesterday a familiar face caught my eye. I couldn't believe what I saw. Tom was my boss when I was a Group Manager at Gimbels East. He was a great boss! Tom was supportive, a great teacher and a great merchandiser. I remember that Jude was born during that time! Please accept my deepest condolences on your loss.

October 28, 2012

My favorite memory of Tom is watching he & his lovely wife Judy......holding hands & walking in the sun!

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