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TENENBAUM--L. Jay. Renowned arbitrageur and philanthropist L. Jay Tenenbaum died peacefully at his Woodside, California home on January 16, 2011. He was 88. L. Jay grew up in St. Louis, Missouri, and attended Vanderbilt University. In 1942, he joined the U.S. Army, achieving the rank of 2nd Lieutenant and serving with the 10th Mountain Division in Italy. He received a Silver Star, Bronze Star and two Purple Hearts for his service. L. Jay joined Goldman Sachs in 1953 and went on to head the Trading and Arbitrage department. A great source of professional pride was hiring and training some of the firm's most distinguished future leaders. He retired in 1976. Following retirement, L. Jay served as vice-chairman of the board of the San Francisco Ballet; board member of the Commonwealth Club of California, Youth Tennis Advantage, KQED and Stern Grove Association; and Deputy Chief of Protocol of San Francisco under Mayor Frank Jordan. L. Jay is survived by his wife, Gretchen; his sons and their wives, Harry (Rafaela), Bruce (Julie), Kurt (Kristina); his granddaughter, Layne; and his sister, Joy Dunkelman (Mel). The family recognizes those who cared for L. Jay during his illness and the extraordinary compassion he received both at home and at the Stanford University Hospital. A memorial will be held today, Saturday, January 22 at 1:00pm at the Menlo Circus Club in Atherton, California. Donations in L. Jay's memory may be directed to the San Francisco Ballet, or the Commonwealth Club. A celebration of his life is being planned in New York City for later this year.

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Published by New York Times on Jan. 22, 2011.

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Loretta Conway

January 24, 2011

Everyone at Youth Tennis Advantage sends the Tenebaum family our best wishes. The celebration of L.Jay's life was very special. YTA was blessed to have L.Jay in our family and we miss him deeply.

Richard Thalheimer

January 24, 2011

I appreciate you L. Jay! Not only are we both from Little Rock, but also you got me involved with the SF Ballet. That has been a great experience, and you added so much to it! Love you and miss you!
Richard Thalheimer

Joe Hanon

January 24, 2011

My condolences are with his son, Bruce, and the entire family.

john debs

January 21, 2011

Gretchen I was fortunate to have known L. Jay for more than 30 years. What a terrific individual and a great friend. My condolences to you and your family. I hope to see you at the Circus Club. John Debs

Rodger Cooper

January 21, 2011

Dear Gretchen:

Jane and I would like to express our sincere condolences on the recent passing of your husband, L.J. Our side of the family sends their thoughts and prayers to you and your three sons: Harry, Bruce, Kurt; granddaughter, Layne, and sister-in-law Joy (Mel) Dunkelman at this difficult time.
Although I didn't know your husband that well; I do know that he was very highly respected throughout his community and profession, and his good works changed the lives of many. My cousin L. J. lived a very, full and productive life, and was a war hero as well. I was so proud to be related to him.
You were truly fortunate to have such a man as a model in your life! I followed his lead by studying at Vanderbilt University.
I just wish that I had known him better.
Very sincerely,

Jane and Rodger (Buddy) Cooper
Ellisville, Missouri

Robert Bushnell

January 20, 2011

I am so fortunate to have known you. Always the gentleman, always giving of your knowledge and time. You will be deeply missed but always remembered.

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