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Diane Duncan Obituary

V. Diane Duncan, 60, passed away on November 27, 2010 into the arms of her Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. Her passing brought to an end her 35-year struggle with kidney disease, with her last 8 years on dialysis. She was born on 6/2/50 in Lubbock, Texas, to Raymond T. and Doris M. (Pair) Davis. She graduated from John Marshall High School in 1968 and received an Associate Degree from OSU in 1970. Diane was a Christian from an early age and remained committed to her Faith throughout her life. Diane met Perry Duncan in high school, and they were married in January 1970. To that union they were blessed with 2 sons, Christopher Duncan and Adam Duncan. Her sons were the joy of her life. Diane worked as a paralegal, accounting clerk and office manager for over 20 years, finishing her career with the Mee, Mee, Hoge and Epperson Law Firm in January 2010 due to a decline in her health. Diane loved to go to church. She also loved to gamble and was a good craps player. But, mostly Diane loved her family. She loved her sons and their wives and "created Memories" at every possible opportunity. During the last 4 years, Diane found a new "great Joy" that being her role as "Grammy" to her granddaughter, Cailyn Duncan. She cherished her time with Cailyn and considered her a precious gift from God. Diane was preceded in death by her daughter, Jennifer Diane Duncan, who passed away at birth and with whom she looked forward to being reunited. She is survived by her Best Friend and Companion, Perry Duncan; son, Chris Duncan & wife, Lizette of OKC; son, Dr. Adam Duncan & wife, Dr. Rachel Duncan of OKC; her parents, Ray & Doris Davis of OKC; sister, Debbie Reinauer & husband, Tony of OKC; brother, Kerry Davis of Houston; numerous nieces and nephews and other loving family members and friends. A viewing for Diane will be held Tuesday from 4:00PM to 8:00PM at the Vondel L. Smith & Son Mortuary North Colonial Chapel. A Memorial Service will be held at 11:00AM, Wednesday, December 1st, at The Chapel at Crossings Community Church at 14600 N. Portland, OKC, under the direction of Vondel L. Smith & Son Mortuary. The family would like to extend their appreciation to the Bellevue Nursing and Rehab Center and the Quail Creek Nursing & Rehab Center for their care of Diane during the last year. In addition, they want to extend a special thank you to her friends and health care providers at the Oklahoma Kidney Care Dialysis Center and to Dr. Chris Sholer, MD for their kind and loving care during the last several years. In lieu of flowers, the family requests that donations be made to the Church of your choice in support of her Lord's work.

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Published by Oklahoman on Nov. 30, 2010.

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Kerry Davis

December 2, 2010

My sister Diane showed me from a very early age unconditional love. It's all she knew. Never selfish to any degree. I love her and miss her but she is so much better off now. I am happy she no longer suffers and rather is with God.

Cindy Doan

December 1, 2010

Dear Family,

I have so many wonderful childhood memories of my very special cousin, Diane. She was two years older and I looked up to her and admired her so very much. We exchanged many wonderful letters when we were teenagers and I always looked forward to the times that I would see Diane, Debbie, and Kerry.

My family and I want to express our deepest sympathy to you all. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and we celebrate the life of Diane Davis Duncan.

Love,

Cindy, Wayne, and Alexa Doan

The Bennetts

December 1, 2010

Dear Adam & Rachel,

I don't have the words to express my sadness at the news of your dear mother's passing... but I am sending my condolences and sincere prayers to you and your family

Love,
Steve, Debbie and Joshua

Cory & Pam Taylor

November 30, 2010

Dear Adam and Rachel
We are so sorry to hear about your loss, We never had the chance to meet your mom but the few Memories you shared with us while on your honeymoon were enough to tell us volumes about the quality of woman she was and how she raised you to be all the things you are today. Your a strong man and you have a lovely strong wife ,the two of you with help from friends and family will get threw this rough time in your life, You have our deepest sympathy

November 30, 2010

Debbie and Mr. & Mrs. Davis,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I remember Diane fondly. She sounds like a wonderful woman. I recall how overjoyed you were when she received a kidney many years ago.
In deepest sympathy,
Kathryn Shubert Phinney
Kalamazoo MI

Catherine Duncan

November 30, 2010

I know that God has prepared a special place for this very special lady. Diane was so loving and so deserving of peace and comfort. Perry, Chris, and Adam, my thoughts and prayers are with you all.

John 14:1-2
"Let not your heart be troubled; you believe in God, believe also in Me. In My Father's house are many mansions;if it were not so, I would have told you. I go to prepare a place for you.

Much Love,
Catherine Duncan

November 30, 2010

Perry and Sons:
There are no words to say or to ease your pain right now for your extreme loss. Diane was a wonderful person and I am sure she is in a much better place now than us. Continue forward, one day at a time and know some day you will be with her again. Love, the Aguileras

Chris Duncan

November 30, 2010

Mom- You will be missed greatly. You were such an integral part of my life. You helped shape me who I am today. I will never forget your words of encouragement, strength, willingness to listen, and your company. May you rest in peace, for now you are home. I Love You So Much

Kenda Townsend

November 30, 2010

My family wishes to express our deepest sympathy at your loss. We were so sorry to hear. Kenda and Wilda Townsend, Mike Anderson, Gary Harrison.

Debbie Reinauer

November 30, 2010

My sweet dear sister, God rest you. I will miss you.

Contreras/Walfoort Families

November 30, 2010

Our thoughts and prayers are with the Duncan family. Her love for her family is truly reflected in her sons. They are wonderful guys with big hearts full of love, loyalty, and honor. She has left a mark on this world that will have a positive impact for generations. We love you, God bless.

Terri Cardenas

November 30, 2010

Diane was such a lovely person. She will be missed. I can see her in heaven. Singing with the angels. God bless all of her family. Terri Cardenas

Gayle & Gary Mahagan

November 30, 2010

Perry and boys,
Our deepest sympathies at the loss of such a wonderful woman and mother. May this not only be a time of sorrow but one of joy as you celebrate her home-going. And, may the many blessings you received by being close to her now comfort you and give you strength. God's special healing blessings upon you all.

lori tinsley

November 30, 2010

I was so sorry to hear of your loss. Please let me know if there is anything I can do to help at this time.

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