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Mark Shelander Obituary

Mark A. Shelander, loving father, son and brother

ELDRED, Pa. - Mark A. Shelander, 53, of Canfield Hollow Road, passed away unexpectedly in his home on Saturday (Nov. 20, 2021).

Born Sept. 7, 1968, in Bradford, he was a son of Ken and Florence Hoke Shelander. On Sept. 26, 1992, in Emmanuel Lutheran Church in Olean, N.Y., he married Kathleen L. Graves, who passed away on Nov. 20, 2021.

Mr. Shelander was a 1987 graduate of Otto-Eldred High School, and later graduated from Williamsport Community College, with a degree in heating and air conditioning.

Mark was employed by Market Basket Stores, Stroehmann's Bakery in Olean, and for the last 20 years, Frito-Lay Corporation.

Mark had attended St. Raphael's Church in Eldred. He loved being outdoors and enjoyed hunting, fishing, snowboarding, golfing, gardening and classic cars, as well as making maple syrup. He also greatly enjoyed vacationing with his family and hanging out with his friends.

Surviving are his father, Ken Shelander of Eldred; two daughters, Chelsea Lynn Shelander of Enfield, Conn. and Alyssa Leigh Shelander of Eldred; a brother, Kenny Shelander of Eldred; two nieces, Jordan and Brooke Burdick; a nephew, Travis (Sara) Aderman; as well as several great-nieces and nephews.

He was preceded in death by his mother, Florence Shelander in 2019; two nephews, Ryan Aderman and D.J. Aderman.

Friends may call today from 2 to 4 and 6 to 8 p.m. at the Eldred United Methodist Church, South Main Street, Eldred. The funeral service will be held at 11 a.m. on Wednesday (Nov. 24, 2021) with the Fr. Thomas Brown and Vicar Gerry Zimmerman, co-officiating. Burial will be in the St. Raphael Cemetery in Eldred.

Memorials may be made to the Eldred Angel Tree, PO Box 408, Eldred, PA 16731.

Online condolence's may be made at framefuneralhome.com.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Olean Times Herald from Nov. 22 to Nov. 24, 2021.

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Don Wheaton

November 29, 2021

The World has lost two wonderful people. I helped Mark With His maple syrup operation for two years.He was a really nice person.

Scott Green (Coca Cola Driver)

November 24, 2021

My thoughts and prayers to the family. Definitely going to miss seeing and talking at our drop sites.

Erik Olsson

November 24, 2021

So sorry to hear about Mark and Kathleen. My thoughts and prayers are with Chelsea and Alyssa and family.

Amy J Thompson and Jessica Gortz

November 23, 2021

Thinking of you and your family during this difficult time. May memories provide you some comfort.

Jim Sauerland

November 23, 2021

It was a privilege to work with Mark at Frito Lay, he was a genuinely good man. Praying peace for their family at this difficult time.

Ron A

November 23, 2021

Mark was one of the best whitetail deer hunters of Canfield hollow

Rob & Mary Ann Larose

November 23, 2021

Chelsea & Alyssa both my wife and my family offer our prayers and condolences

Lynne and Dolly

November 23, 2021

What a beautiful soul .. who left way too soon. I´m sure she will forever be with you. We love you so very much !

Tracy Marsh

November 23, 2021

So sorry to the family. I remember Kurt and I use to hang with Kathy and Mark when we were were younger. Fun people to be with. Prayers for the family.

Rodney Johnson

November 23, 2021

I am so very very sorry to you and your entire family for this tragic loss

Lori (Hollamby) Hitchcock

November 23, 2021

I am deeply saddened by the loss of my classmates Mark and Kathy. Just so hard to put into words the heartache I feel. I will hold on to the memories I have of our adolescent years and beyond. Hugs and prayers go out to the Shelander and Graves families.

Lori (Hollamby) Hitchcock
OE Class of '87

Linda Miller

November 22, 2021

The world was a better place with Kathy in it, she had a smile for everyone always. Prayers for the whole family.

Barry Foster

November 22, 2021

I was extremely saddened to hear about Mark and Kathy. I send my deepest sympathy to the Shelander and Graves families.

James Steen

November 22, 2021

Prayers for the family. Very sorry for your loss.

Kathleen Donovan

November 22, 2021

I don't think I ever saw Kathy without a smile on her face. The world is less bright without her in it. Condolences to the entire Shelander family. Praying for comfort and peace.

Ann Eaton

November 22, 2021

Thoughts and Prayers.

Tina

November 22, 2021

Mark was such a good guy. He could always put a smile on someone´s face e be n if they were having a bad day. He was one of the best frito delievery guys and will be remembered

Larry A Penman

November 22, 2021

Had the privilege of working with Kathy at Cutco for many years. My heart is saddened at the news of her and Mark´s passing. I got to know her Mom and Dad by serving them coffee at the Masonic Fish Frys in Shinglehouse. Also worked with Alyssa and Chelsea in the shipping department at Cutco. I can still see Kathy´s big grin whenever we spoke about them.
As I am retired and living a distance away I regretfully will not be able to attend the services.
My sincere condolences to the family.
Larry A Penman

Randy Cassidy

November 22, 2021

Sending prayers to the families. Work with Kathy great lady .

David Coatney

November 22, 2021

So sorry to hear this news. My wife and I will keep the girls in our prayers.

Darlene Wedge

November 22, 2021

So sorry for loss she a wonderful person.

Gene Seal and Bonnie

November 22, 2021

Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always.

Regina Heckman

November 22, 2021

Sincere prayers for comfort for your family at this difficult time

Elsie Thompson

November 22, 2021

Know that lots of thoughts are with you and u you our family. Prayers got the days ahead

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