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John Havener Obituary
Born Aug. 30, 1976, he was the son of John Charles Havener Sr. of Vernon, and Joyce Reed Havener of Vernon Center.John was predeceased by his brother, Jeffrey Ralph Havener.Johnny was loved by his family and friends, especially his best sister ever, Jennifer.
Friends and family are invited to call on Saturday, Jan. 27, 2018 from 2-4 p.m. at the Malecki Funeral Home Inc., at 23 Front St., Vernon, N.Y.
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March 1, 2019
We extend our deepest sympathy in the passing of your precious son, John Charles H, Jr. He was, indeed, too young to say goodbye to his family! AND, we are so very sorry to read your son Jeffrey also passed! (I have a brother named Jeffrey.) Having come across Legacy.com and the listing of John's name ... I am reaching out to you. Our family is attempting to locate Havener/Havenor's from Ireland. Would your family happen to have ancestors from there? Our John H. was born in 1821 in Ireland and left at age 25 for U.S./Canada; he spent the first 14 months in Canada. During the Civil War he served the Union Army by delivering supplies on a barge, as his age denied him combat. After the war, he settled in Fillmore County, Minnesota - south of Rochester, Minnesota, where he became a prosperous man and became known as the "Potato King" - ironic, since he left Ireland within the time frame of their potato famine. My name is: Penny Havenor-vonHaden of Eau Claire, Wisconsin. My email: [email protected]
December 15, 2018
I love you john. I miss you every single day.
Jess Offerman
February 15, 2018
Oh My God......I cannot believe your gone......I just found this out......Fly high Buddy! Will miss You!!!
Tom & Shelli Houck
January 29, 2018
Joyce, John & family,
We are so sorry for your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers. We will continue to remember you in our prayers.
Dorothy and Kevin Boone
January 28, 2018
John , Jim, David, Linda, Joyce and the Havener family our hearts are open for all. With the trust in the Lord and time will help ease the sorrow you feel. Only good thoughts!
Joseph Warcup
January 27, 2018
Round boy I'll miss you dearly, brother for life, first my sister then you, love you bro
Kris Richardson
January 26, 2018
Another star shines brightly in Gods night sky. Joyce and Jen - no one can take away your memories - the love, laughter and smiles. The hugs and kisses, even the spats between siblings Jen. They will be there, inside that special place in your heart. Put you hand on your chest-you will feel two hearts beating as one.
Dawn Shoen
January 26, 2018
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Donna and Rodney plus family Studer
January 26, 2018
Rip Johnny forever in our hearts and never forgotten but also forever missed and loved
Stacy blondie Scalzo
January 26, 2018
My thoughts and prayers for your family and loved ones! I will miss you and all your crazy ways! Thanks for the many talks and an ear to listen....love u round boy....fly high my friend until we meet again..may you Rest In Peace John! <3
Martha Findlay
January 25, 2018
I am so sorry..love u all and rip john
Laurie Meadows
January 25, 2018
Joyce,Jen and family...though there are no words to ease your heartache and pain,I am so very very sorry for your loss.
Christine Hazard
January 25, 2018
Love Always John
Jamie Jones
January 25, 2018
That laugh, oh that laugh... So many good times. Thank you for all of it. You are now and will always be missed. This is the third time you've made me cry. I know because you kept track and reminded me often.
With love,
The Warden
Sherry Zabele Lacombe
January 25, 2018
John, Joyce and the whole Havener family. I am so sorry for your loss. I know the love you have will see you through these terrible times. Fly high with the angels Johnny <3
john wier
January 25, 2018
in memory of ,,,john havener
Dianne Ellis
January 24, 2018
Joyce and Family
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I will pray for your family.
Brenda & Willy Baker
January 24, 2018
So sorry Joyce RIP John
Jen H
January 24, 2018
Johnny only the good die young! you're forever going to be missed
Dort Curtis
January 24, 2018
Johnny will be sadly missed. Rest peacefully John. I will remember you with love. Aunt Dort
Terry and Vivian
January 24, 2018
All our thoughts and prayers are with Joyce and family.
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