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David Bany Obituary
Feb. 6, 1959 - April 1, 2018
David Bany of Wilsonville, Oregan, died Easter Sunday, April 1, 2018 after a long-fought battle with cancer. Dave was born Feb. 6, 1959 to Ray and Ruth Bany in Oregon City and grew up in West Linn as one of nine children.
Dave was a true entrepreneur and always worked to make the world better for others. Along with his wife Sally, he was co-owner of Moonstruck Chocolate Company as well as a co-founder of two non-profits, Youth Music Project and World of Speed Motorsports Museum. Dave was dedicated to giving children opportunities through their family foundation, the Marie Lamfrom Charitable Foundation. Through these organizations, Dave quietly worked to improve the lives of those around him, never seeking recognition for his efforts. He had a deep appreciation for music, as well as a passion for preserving the history of motorsports for future generations.
Those closest to Dave will remember his humor, his passion for cars and desire to help those in need. As a native Oregonian, Dave loved the Pacific Northwest, where he spent time hunting and fishing. He enjoyed studying history, especially the World War II era and cherished his guitar collection. He could often be found on his favorite island of Maui, soaking up the Hawaiian culture through music and one of his favorite films, Elvis Presley's Blue Hawaii. Above all else, he loved spending time with his family.
Dave is survived by his loving family; his high school sweetheart and wife, Sally Bany, his two daughters Annie Bany and Rachael Sneddon, his son-in-law, Russell Sneddon, and granddaughter, Norah.
A public memorial service will be held on Saturday, April 21 at 10 a.m. at Jesuit High School in the Smith Gym. In lieu of flowers, the family asks that donations be made to World of Speed or Youth Music Project.
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Memories and Condolences
for David Bany
Karen C Hunt
March 29, 2024
Dear Bany Family, I will remember Dave always. I am forever grateful for the friendship we shared. He and Sally are so generous and kind. It's hard to believe that it has been six years already without Dave. I sure miss him. Dave left such a HUGE and wonderful impression on everyone that he will never be forgotten! I am so Blessed to have known him and shared such a nice friendship with him. I will treasure this forever.
Merrilee Brockley
March 29, 2023
Dear sweet Sally,
I just reread all of the beautiful tributes. Time does go by, but the amazing loved ones live on in your heart and soul.LOVE remains. Wishing you could pop into your old Bay Meadows neighborhood & get a big hug the broccoli bunch is gathering April´s Fool´s Day for my 80th .The Tear Soup book has the Best recipe for grieving Five years! Bless you ALWAYS Merrilee & John
Bekke and Andre Johnson
March 29, 2022
We think of Dave often with warmth in our hearts. He always made us feel welcome and like family.
Darlene Bond
March 30, 2021
My brother Dave was a loved little brother. Funny, smart and caring. Miss him and his funny impressions of others. Much love to Sally and his girls.❤
Karen Hunt
March 29, 2021
I think of you often Dave! I was going through my inbox and sorting many emails. I have ALL of our emails saved! I loved writing you and always looked so forward to your replies! I will forever remember you as always being sooooooooo kind and generous. Thank you (and Sally too!) for hosting such AMAZING gatherings and allowing me to be a part of the festivities! I miss you so much my dear friend. You are loved!
Karen Hunt
March 30, 2020
Whenever I look back on our years in grade school, I always remember a kid who was nice to me and always so kind and helpful to the Sisters. As a grown up, I dearly loved Dave's political views (as they matched mine!) and was so impressed with how kind and generous he was with everything. I know he was a super busy guy with so many things going, but he always made me feel like he had time to talk and was always so very kind. He talked so much about Annie and Rachel and how super proud he was of them. I miss my friend so much and he will never ever be forgotten. Thank you Dave and Sally for all you do for so many! I appreciate you always!
Lisa and Craig Andrews
May 8, 2018
The two most important things in life are to leave this world a better place and to love your family, Dave accomplished both. One of the worlds truly nice guys. He will be missed...
John and Karen Berrigan
April 26, 2018
Sally, your daughters, all your families and friends,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. May God has taken him to His realm in heaven. May all the wonderful memories of David be forever close to you all till one day shall you meet him again.
John and Karen Berrigan
Heidi Oetken
April 21, 2018
Rocky and I are sending prayers for your family. So sorry for your loss. Beautiful service and such heartfelt tributes by Annie and Racheal to their dad. Rocky and Heidi
Katherine Bullock
April 21, 2018
I consider myself lucky to have known and worked for Dave. I will always remember him as a kind, fair and funny boss, a genuinely good person with a giant heart. He will be missed by many.
To Sally and the girls, I wish you comfort and peace during this time. My thoughts are with you.
April 16, 2018
Dearest Sally,
I can't imagine your sense of loss. We our sending heart felt prayers for you, Rachel and Annie. May all his goodness live through his loving family.
Big hugs,
Sherrie and Tim Curtin
Merrilee Brockley
April 14, 2018
Dear Sally and all of your lovely family,
How we have missed you, your generosity & sweet smiles since you moved from West Linn. Words cannot express the LOVE we send as you absorb this huge loss. We are very sad to hear this news. Take Care & if you are ever back over our way, I hope you will pop in to say hello & get a hug. We will miss the Memorial tributes on the 21st, but we will be there in Spirit. John, Merrilee & Danny
Angie Daufel
April 14, 2018
My Uncle Dave was absolutely the best and will be incredibly missed.
What I loved most about him was his laugh. He was so funny and when he thought you were funny you got rewarded by one of his deep belly laughs.
I'm also going to miss our dueling itunes rounds where we would play our own version name that tune by playing a snippet of a song. And I'm going to miss being fact checked by his quick google searches when I would spout off some random trivia.
Most of all, I'm going to miss sitting out back by the fire, hearing about his life while he checked in about mine- watching the stars, watching the deer walk by and listening for owls.
Sally, Annie, Rachael and Russ - my thoughts and my heart is with you always, but especially during this time. XOXOXO Angie
Janeen Rundle
April 13, 2018
Much love to you, Sally, and your families. David will always be in my heart as a very kind and conscientious friend to the Oregon Music Hall of Fame and to the world. I hope he is driving his Chevelle with exhuberence xxxxoooo
Phil Madeira
April 12, 2018
I'm remembering Dave this evening, and sending up a prayer for you, Sally, Rachael, and Annie. What a lovely man he was. All the best,
Phil
Ed Lacey
April 12, 2018
We are so sorry for your loss Sally. Please know that we are thinking about you and your family.
Much love,
Ed & Maurine Lacey
Debbie Harwood
April 11, 2018
Dear Sally, so sorry to hear of your husband's passing. Best wishes and prayers for you, the girls and what the future may bring.
Gavin Mardis
April 11, 2018
I was so sorry to find out about Dave's passing. I will never forget him and I will have good thoughts for Sally and the family.
Terry Currier
April 11, 2018
I am so glad I had the opportunity to cross paths with Dave. Our thoughts are with you Sally and all him family and friends.
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Kathleen Host
April 10, 2018
Dear Sally,
I was shocked to hear about Dave, too young.
I can't imagine how hard this is for you and the girls. I am so sorry. I pray that the happy memories you have will help ease your pain.
Thinking of you.
Kathleen
Peter Linsky
April 10, 2018
Janice and I were saddened to learn of Dave's passing, and we send our warmest wishes to Sally and their family.
I always enjoyed the opportunities to chat with Dave at World of Speed, and found him to be a fount of knowledge about the exhibits and the cars in his own collection. Somewhere, he is now driving the Gullwing he recently acquired. Godspeed.
Rich Whelden
April 9, 2018
I'm so sorry for the loss of David. Thoughts and prayers for the family. David was my best friend in grade school, little league, going to movies, the hobbie shop, milkshakes and running around O.C.
Can't wait to see him again!
E.C. Mueller
April 9, 2018
To Sally and the family we offer our deepest sympathies. It was a privilege knowing Dave these past few years. His legacy is strong with the Youth Music Project and the World of Speed Museum. We will miss his smile, grace and loving spirit.
Tom Nelson
April 9, 2018
I met Dave and Sally when I became a volunteer at the World of Speed in 2015. I always enjoyed my conversations with Dave over the few years I knew him and I am going to miss them very much. My deepest sympathy to Sally and all the family.
Dee Silknitter Wright
April 9, 2018
I'm so sorry for your loss Sally. I always enjoyed working with you and Dave when you had your store in Sellwood.
Fond memories, deepest sympathy.
RIP Dave.
April 9, 2018
Jerry and I are thinking of you and your family right now Sally! So sorry for your loss! Judy & Jerry Steagall
Chad Haas
April 9, 2018
I am so grateful to this wonderful man for giving me a chance. And believing in me. He was my very first client and without his support and encouragement it is very likely that I may never have got a start. He made everything possible for me and I will forever remember his kindness and generosity. Please accept my condolences for your loss. I hope that the Bany and Boyle families can find comfort in the fond and cherished memories you have to assuage your grief.
Greg Hartung
April 9, 2018
So sad to hear of Dave's passing. I knew Dave back in the 1980's during electronic engineer courses as classmates. Always friendly, had a nick name for everyone, a gift of humor that made everyone smile....Remembering great times waterskiing in the Willamette along with his wife Sally. Kept his cars shiny (a red mustang and a old fairlane, I recall).
A true genuine down to earth person, he was. My condolences to his family, friends and colleagues.
Liz Sabin
April 9, 2018
May you rest Uncle Dave.... My life has been forever changed and I will miss you until we meet again. I am so thankful to have shared some of the most important times in my life with you and your family. Thanks for living this life with passion, purpose and a huge heart! What a legacy you left behind......
Only the good die young......
Love always,
Liz
April 9, 2018
I worked with Dave and Sally 30 plus years ago when they opened their first shop below the Oddfellows Lodge in the Sellwood area. Sally did the buying and Dave took care of the business on the computer. He always was kind and warm and great to work with. Those memories are cherished. Sally, you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. With sympathy, Ted Carlson
Mark Schlesinger Dave Loney
April 9, 2018
On behalf of the Board of Directors of Youth Music Project and World of Speed we want to say a heartfelt THANK YOU to you Dave (and to Sally) for having the confidence in us to carry out your vision for both organizations. Please know that we will do our best to continue to:
1. Raise funds for kids in Clackamas County to have the experience of music, even if they can't afford it
2. Raise funds for children and high school students to attend WOS classes, and to continue to bring spectacular motorsport exhibits
Dave we will miss your keen listening skills, your subtle ability to summarize our enthusiastic discussions, and your quiet wit and focus on the missions. Thanks for your trust in us - we know you'll be watching our progress from the best seat in the house.
For Dave, it wasn't just his love of cars or the twang of a well-tuned guitar. Dave was passionate about children, about our community and finding ways to inspire learning whether it be a spark plug and internal combustion or how to inspire the self-confidence in a young person to stand in front of an audience and play a musical instrument like a rock star. Dave Bany along with Sally, his wife and his family saw the need and had the vision to create World of Speed and Youth Music Project; two amazing facilities and non-profit programs that continue to teach and inspire. Dave has shared with us the lesson of giving back to our community and to pay it forward by unselfishly creating these centers of learning and creativity. We are honored to have worked alongside Dave and his family and will continue to foster his vision forward.
Dave Loney & Mark Schlesinger
Board Presidents
The Bany's were the best neighbors. They are the most generous and kind family. We will always treasure the time and memories that we spent with Dave
Ellie and Emily
April 8, 2018
Lisa Veber
April 8, 2018
Sally and family, our deepest sympathies for your loss. I know this has been a long road and you can rejoice that he is having fun in heaven with the angels singing.
Lisa, Yale, Matt and Brian Veber
Jack and Kathy Sawchuck
April 8, 2018
Sally and family, we were so saddened to see notice of Dave's passing. When we first met years ago at the Lake Oswego car show he was so kind and friendly. Thoroughly enjoyed seeing him at many shows and events at your home. We both shared a great passion for the cars and truly enjoyed meeting you and your family and having the pleasure of knowing him. He will truly be missed and the world has lost a great asset. Thanks for the memories Dave.
1971 Chevelle (Enjoy Dave)
David,Diane, and Dan Huntwork
April 8, 2018
We have had multiple meetings with Dave and his family and we are very thankful to be involved with such wonderful people, in their many pursuits. We are longtime friends with his brother Al Bany and his family and we are very thankful to be part of Dave and Al's families life's.
We wish you all the best and hope to see you soon.
Dave was honest, kind, loving, inspiring, selfless, hilarious, thoughtful, genuine and unforgettable. Thank YOU, Dave, for sharing your spirit with us in your boundless love of life! The Hamilton Family
Desiree Hamilton
April 8, 2018
Dave, thank YOU for inspiring us to be better humans each and every day. Your spirit left a little goodness with everyone you touched in this life. We are all so much better for it. Sally and your family were especially blessed to have you as their own. The Hamiltons send their love and fond memories of Dave.
Jefferson Dykes
April 8, 2018
No expression can define my sadness at the loss of my friend, fellow funny car owner and guitar collector buddy. The world is a better place for letting us share Dave and the world is a smaller place without Dave. My deepest sympathy and condolences to Sally and the family for their loss. I will not forget you my friend.
Michael C. Hobbs
April 8, 2018
Missing You.
Loving You.
Forever.
~mch
Lyn St. James
April 8, 2018
I'm so sorry to hear this! Sending my blessings and prayers to Sally and the family. I had no idea Dave was suffering with cancer. Such a wonderful and spirited man.
Gregg Kerber
April 7, 2018
As a volunteer at World of Speed the past few years, I had the pleasure of being around Dave on a few occasions. I always enjoyed his company and his passion for cars.
John Hobbs
April 7, 2018
The world has lost a wonderful man. Rest In Peace dave.
April 7, 2018
My younger brother David, was a well behaved little boy who was very easy to take out for breakfast after church on Sundays. When Dave grew up he as very generous to his brothers and sisters and shared his and Sally's wealth. Love to his family❤
Michael C. Hobbs
April 7, 2018
Rest in Peace, DB.
Love always ~mch
Mardy Charles
April 7, 2018
So sorry for your loss. Prayers for you and your family
Amy Faust
April 7, 2018
What an honor to have known Dave, worked with Dave, rocked out with Dave! He was all heart, but all business, too, when he needed to be. Such a gentleman and so much fun. I'm thinking of all of you and wishing you comfort after this unimaginable loss.
Jean Pierre Veillet
April 7, 2018
Dave,
It was an honor to work along side you as you realized your dream. You were a friend every step of the way. You worked to make it possible for kids to sing and engines to roar. Your dream and passion for it defined a great life. Thank you for making all that happen.
Charlsey Thornton
April 7, 2018
Dave Bany was an excellent leader, mentor, and human being. My time spent working with him helped me grow and develop in each of these areas. Whether he was offering comic relief or guidance, when he spoke, everyone listened. He was a man of great character, and he instilled that character in those around around him. He created a legacy that will continue to have a positive impact on individuals, families and communities for several generations to come. Dave will be missed by so many. I send my most sincere condelonces and best wishes to the family. I will continue to keep you in my thoughts and prayers.
Becky Morreira
April 7, 2018
I am so very sad and can hardly believe uncle Dave has passed. We can look forward to seeing him again in the resurrection. He was a kind and generous man. The world is better place because he lived in it!
Sending out much love to Sally, Annie, Rachael and Russ
April 7, 2018
The Schrank Family extends our sincere sympathy. Lovely memories of the girls playing soccer. Grateful for the time collaborating with you during Mock Interviews at Art Tech. Love to you, Sally.
Ralph Giannini
April 6, 2018
Sally,Gert and Family .So Sad to hear about David. My sincere thoughts go out to all of you,Thinking of you, Ralph Giannini
John Amschler
April 6, 2018
Dave was a great boss, friend, and gentleman. He will be missed. I didn't work for Dave for very long, but during the time I was blessed to work with him, he was a true role model and someone I admired greatly. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of the family.
Me & Dave 2010!
Karen Hunt
April 6, 2018
I can only echo the words of others here. Dave was a true friend. I loved him dearly. I am so sad that my dear friend is gone. He touched my heart deeply. Dave was one of the kindest, dearest, most generous and humble guys I have ever known. THANK YOU so much Dave for all you did for so many people. You are one in a million!
Andre and Bekke Johnson
April 6, 2018
What a wonderful man who truly will be missed by all. It was a blessing and a treasure to have met him. He and Sally have done so much for so many and he definitely has left his mark. My husband will always remain a member of the World of Speed and iwas thankful it was built.
~Andre and Bekke Johnson
bob snyder
April 6, 2018
Sorry to hear this.....Dave was always a happy guy whenever I saw him. GodSpeed Dave.
Woodburn, Dragstrip. PEACE and good times!
Doug Huegli
April 6, 2018
Michelle O'Brien
April 6, 2018
The best big brother anyone could ever wish for. I love you and will miss you every single day, this is a devastating loss. Michelle
Jill Steltenpohl
April 6, 2018
I'm so sorry to hear of Dave's passing. He always seemed like such a gentle, kind soul and a true family man. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family during this difficult time. Hugs and Love...Jilly
April 6, 2018
I was in shock when I heard the sad news. I remember how a couple that met in high school got married, worked in their business putting in long hours, then went home together and spent time raising Rachael and Annie. I loved hearing Dave talk about how and when they met at softball games when Rachael was pitching on a team with our daughters. On those very hot days when Rachael was pitching, Dave would come with ice cold sodas and water in coolers for everyone to enjoy. He enjoyed making sure everyone was comfortable. He was always willing to say hi. Sending much love to Sally, Rachael and Annie hugs and prayers. Rest easy Dave.
Norm & Barbara Lemly
April 5, 2018
The World has lost a wonderful humanitarian. You could spend just a brief time with Dave, and see that he always put others first. He didn't have an arrogant bone in his body. One of the most humble men I have ever met. He had a lot of the traits that Jesus Christ displayed. That is a true Christian. We feel so honored, and blessed to have known Dave. Our hearts go out to his family. A terrible loss.
April 5, 2018
I can't even begin to say what a wonderful, generous and amazing uncle he was. I am praying for you aunt Sally, and Rachel and Annie and Russel. I have so many wonderful memories of my uncle Dave. The sadness is overwhelming! Love Tracey
Lynn and David Pass
April 4, 2018
We were so shocked to hear of Daves passing. Were thinking of you, Sally, Rachael and Annie and all of your family during this sad time. We hope that with time your wonderful memories will help to ease your pain. ❤
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