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ROBERT BRADY MCLAUGHLIN
89, passed away on April 3, 2013. He was born in Colorado Springs, CO on July 11, 1923. His mother died when he was three years old and he missed her all of his life. He lived in Yucaipa and Redlands for most of his childhood. Until recently, when he became ill, he lived on his own in the lovely retirement community of Plymouth Village in Redlands, CA. He drove his car all over Redlands until just a few months ago. He proudly shared with everyone that he was the first mailman in that warm and wonderful retirement community. He was a mail carrier for 38 years and retired at the age of 55, as a top grade Postal Technician (training all the new employees). He used to tell our family he knew every route in Redlands. He started out delivering mail during high school in Redlands, when they delivered mail twice a day! He attended Redlands High School, played trumpet in the band, excelled in track, was an honor student and graduated in 1942. He was given a full ride scholarship to the University of Redlands, but decided to serve his country when World War II broke out. He joined the Army after high school and served his tour of duty mainly in Okinowa, Japan. He was stationed in New York for his training, where he met our mother, Mary Frances Dugan at a USO dance and they fell madly in love. When the war was over they married in New York and moved to Redlands to raise their family. they eventually moved back to Long Island, New York to assist with the care of our mother's family and they lived there until they finally came back to Redlands again in 1958. Our mother has been gone for 13 years, they were married for over 53 years and, now, they are together in heaven. Our father's memory was still intact until his last days and he remembered everyone's address that came to live at Plymouth Village, if they came from Redlands. When we were in high school he knew the address of every boy or girl we dated, which was quite embarrassing to his children at the time. He volunteered as a Boy and Girl Scout leader, loved restoring and showing antique automobiles, helped out family and friends whenever needed, loved animals, worked at least two and sometimes three jobs when his children were in school, ushered at Sacred Heart Church (when it was called that), loved to travel the country, knew volumes about gardening and was the best father and grandfather any child could ever have. He was preceded in death by his loving wife, Mary and a much loved granddaughter, Robynn Kristen Goodell. He leaves behind a very grateful family of 5 children, 6 grandchildren, 3 great-grandchildren and 3 loving nieces. His children; David McLaughlin and wife, Diana of Redlands, Joan McLaughlin of Roseville, Laura McLaughlin of Redlands, Jill McLaughlin-White and husband Mitch of Oklahoma City, OK and Ken McLaughlin of Long Beach. His grandchildren; Jennifer Lindstrom and husband Derek, Molly McLaughlin-Coker and husband Scott, Casey Rideout and wife, Jake of Morrow Bay, Scott Rideout of Oakland, Cory Elgin of Redlands, and Caitlin Elgin of San Jose. Great grandchildren; Brady and Hailey Goodell of San Luis Obispo and Lila Brooke Coker. Nieces; Kim Wible, Kelley Weir and Tara McLaughlin. Visitation will be Sat., April 6 from 1 pm-3 pm at Cortner Chapel with private interment pending. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the BARC, pet rescue, 912 New York St., Suite A, Redlands, CA 92374.

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Published by Pasadena Star-News on Apr. 4, 2013.

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Marilyn and Dalton Cantey

March 29, 2021

Bob was quite a guy. Mary took care of my boys Alan and David while I was Parish Secretary at Trinity Episcopal. I gave my wedding dress to Jill. In thanks for that, Bob installed a bathroom at our cabin in Big Bear. He could fix anything and I was told he had a string of widows who depended on him. Bob and Mary were an incredible couple. I live in Santa Cruz now. Had to leave Redlands when Lockheed closed in Mentone. But I’m in Redlands now and then and I think of them every time I pass their house.

April 8, 2013

We're so sorry to hear about Bob. We last saw Mary during her last illness when they were living up near Center. Bob and Mary were really special and it was obvious how much they loved each other. Mary took care of our boys, Alan & David, when I was secretary at Trinity Episcopal. I gave my wedding dress to one of the girls and in return, Bob installed a 2nd bathroom in our cabin up in Big Bear. I'm mailing his obituary to Ian Johnstone who is living near Boston now. When Mary was taking care of our boys, all the McLaughlin kids were still living at home. Do please tell them all 'hello' from us. I remember them all so well, especially when I'm visiting in Redlands and pass the Fern Avenue house. With very, very best regards, Marilyn and Dalton Cantey.

April 4, 2013

We were so lucky that he was our Uncle Bob.

Karen Proctor

April 4, 2013

Laura, I am sorry about your loss. You were there for me when I needed I you. PLEASE let me be there for you. If you need anything, please let me know. I still have alot of vacation time on the books. Karen

April 4, 2013

Dear Family,
So sorry to hear about Bob. Such a nice man. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
love always,
Terry and Terry McDonald

Mikki Moore

April 4, 2013

I was honored to be a part of such a wonderful family. I was always amazed by Bob's wealth of knowledge in almost every subject. He was so full of life, and passed on that gift to his children. What a wonderful, wonderful man.

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