1978
2022
PORTSMOUTH — Jeremy M. Burnside was born on June 28, 1978, in Cleveland, Ohio. He went home to be with the Lord on June 14 at home, surrounded by his loved ones.
Jeremy graduated from Brooklyn High in 1996 after participating on the wrestling, cross country, and track teams. He received his undergrad degree from the University of Charleston (WV). He was elected to many leadership positions, including student government president, captain of the crew team as well as the 1998 US Army ROTC National Sojourners Award and Cadet of the Year.
Upon graduation from college, he earned a position as a legislative intern and analyst for the WV Senate Committee on the Judiciary where he was inspired to go to law school. He applied to 26 schools and was accepted to 2, one of which was nestled up the road in Grundy, Virginia, at the Appalachian School of Law, where he feels most of his real-life experiences really began.
In 2001, that law school journey began with him finding a way to become the worst law student in America after that predecessor of that title shot six, killed three, and inspired his book, Look to Your Left. The events which took place the following semester were when things really got difficult. Some may say that those events prepared him for the rare brain tumor and rarer brain disease that he so bravely battled.
After passing the Ohio bar, he practiced law in Cleveland for five years. In 2009, he took a risk and moved to Portsmouth, Ohio, where he met the love of his life, Maddie. The small Ohio town, considered part of the Appalachian Peninsula, right where he wanted to be based upon murdered Dean L. Anthony Sutin a Harvard graduate who dedicated his career to making ASL Appalachia's legal training ground. He took that seriously and grew his practice to West Virginia and Kentucky, two places very special to him to serve that shared dream. He assisted hundreds of personal injury clients for nearly (hopefully over) twenty years. He became friends with most of his clients and felt professionally fulfilled from this very rewarding experience. He thrived on taking challenging cases and enjoyed assisting the Underdog.
Jeremy was instrumental in starting the local organization, Friends of Portsmouth, igniting a movement helping to revitalize Portsmouth. In 2018, he orchestrated Plant Portsmouth, by bringing together the community to break a world record, "Most People Potting a Plant Simultaneously". Jeremy was a guy who convinced his community to throw a "pep rally" to quiet the nay-sayers, a guy who said, come to Portsmouth, to Dream, Build & Live here, He said let's build a Unity Project, I'll be Milton Kennedy. He said let's GO OUTSIDE and ride bikes in the forest, I'll help carve the paths. He said let's race boats on the river again. He said, let's get Minor League Baseball to put a museum here. Jeremy was very passionate about his community, and made it well-known through the energy, heart, and soul he invested in it.
Most of all, Jeremy was a faith-driven family man. His Catholic faith was always his driving force and was the foundation of his love for Maddie, as well as his 4 girls, who made him realize what was truly important as his life was winding down. He loved nothing more than to spend time outside with his family, swimming, hiking, biking & even starting a little farm for the girls to enjoy.
Jeremy was preceded in death by his dad, Michael Burnside, and grandparents Ed and Helen Romanowski and Ruth and Virgil Burnside. He is survived by his nurturing mother, Mary, his beloved wife Madelyn ("Maddie"), and their four children: daughters, Maura Rose, Marty Katherine, Maren Elizabeth, and Macie Elaine. He is also survived by his dear sister Jennifer (Edwin) Martell, and half-sister Nicole Riehl; beloved in-laws, Robert & Jeanne Rutman, Ryan & Chivonne Rutman, Nick & Kendra Rutman, Carly & Dan Godshall; Nieces & Nephews, Marissa Soto, Xavier Williams, Marissa, Carter and Evan Riehl, Addie-Belle & Charleigh Rutman and Sawyer, Bowen & Griffin
A Mass of Christian Burial will be 1:00 PM Friday, June 17, 2022 at St. Mary's Catholic Church with Rev. Brian Beal officiating. Burial will follow at Greenlawn Cemetery. A visitation for friends and relatives will be on Friday at St. Mary's Catholic Church from 10:00 A.M. until the start of Mass at 1:00 P.M. Melcher Hammer Funeral Home is handling the arrangements.
In lieu of flowers, the family wishes for donations to be made to The Friends of Portsmouth in honor of Jeremy at PO Box 132, Portsmouth, Ohio 45662.
"My Catholic faith has always been my driving force and is the foundation for my love for Maddie, who has made me realize what is truly important as I wind down what has been an awesome life and look forward to meeting my God." - Jeremy
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
Linda Weber
July 24, 2024
I had the opportunity to work with Jeremy as my company provided demonstrative exhibits like timelines and medical illustrations for many of his trials/cases. I had heard that he was sick, but didn´t realize he passed. Just found out a couple of weeks ago. My deepest sympathy to his beautiful family. He was so proud of you. Jeremy made every person he met feel like a friend. He was an amazing person and I´m certain is watching over you all now. Look to your Left inspired me and many others. The world was blessed to have Jeremy and heaven is surely shining brighter with Jeremy there. He won´t be forgotten.
Sandy Mudgett
June 25, 2023
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
Mary Burnside
June 16, 2023
Thinking of you always Jeremy. Love and miss you soo much! Mom XX OO
Mom
January 25, 2023
Miss and love you so much Jeremy!! XX OO
Jeff Loya
January 25, 2023
Blessings and condolences from the family of Jan and Steve Loya (janitors from Corpus Christi school)
Ethan Dubon
January 1, 2023
I wish I could have see him one more time with my dad.
Dolores Martin
June 29, 2022
I met Jeremy once while he was an analyst for the WV Senate Judiciary Committee. Athough it was a brief meeting, he apparently struck a chord within me.
What a full and meaningful life he led after that. I am so sorry his life was interrupted at such a young age. I have no doubt he is just as busy in Heaven as he was on Earth. My condolences to the family.
Debbie Hyland
June 17, 2022
So sorry to hear of Jeremy's illness and passing. May God give you all comfort at this time. I really appreciate that Jeremy worked with my son Jordan Hyland and his friend Tyler McGraw to give them a new place for their shop. Jeremy will be missed but his presence will always be with our community.
Frannie & Rayburn Minton
June 17, 2022
our hearts are broken at the loss of such a great man. we now have a n angel looking after all. we will have mass for him as well for you all at St. Joseph's Catholic Church in Grundy. Sending love hugs prayer and blessing .
Luisa Boyaggi
June 16, 2022
Simply heartbroken to hear of this loss. Jeremy was a bright-eyed, energetic, funny, kind and lovable young man when I was lucky enough to teach him and it was an honor to see what a giving, mature, grounded and generous man, friend and father he became. Blessings, love and strength to his family and loved ones.
TJ Rucker
June 16, 2022
Maddie,
We never met but I knew Jeremy well at the University of Charleston as a friend and frat brother. Was very sorry to hear the news, he was an amazing person in so many regards. I have fond memories of his spirited personality and nonstop energy.
My deepest regards and sympathies
TJ
Liza Hoskins
June 16, 2022
I AM SO SORRY TO ALL OF HIS FAMILY.
Anna Starkey
June 16, 2022
I am so saddened to hear of Jeremy´s passing.
I have very fond memories of Jeremy as a young man. He was kind, caring, compassionate with a personality that was electrifying. All traits in such a young man was exceptional.
I remember Jeremy pulling up to my grandkid´s home, as soon as they noticed, they dropped everything and went running full speed to him. They knew he would give them his attention and play with them for hours. Always with a smile on his face, laughing and enjoying it as much as the kids. I knew then that Jeremy was a special person.
To his family and friends, I pray that our Lord gives us comfort, peace and strength to endure. May his memory live in our hearts forever.
Rest In Peace, Jeremy!
Jason Shepherd
June 16, 2022
My condolences to Maddie, the girls, and entire family. In the brief time I had the pleasure of getting to know Jeremy, his positive attitude was contagious. He is one of a kind. I'm sad to hear about his passing and will continue to pray for his family.
Marge Glaser
June 16, 2022
My deepest sympathy to Jeremy's family and friends. May God give you comfort and strength during this sad time and peace in the days ahead. The Scottish poet Thomas Campbell once wrote, "To live in hearts we leave behind is not to die".
Dr. Richard Dustman
June 15, 2022
Sincere condolences. I admired and respected Jeremy. An amazing young man. Truly a tragic loss.
Jeffrey M. Kessler, esq.
June 15, 2022
I'm a law school classmate of Jeremy's. It's been quite a while since I last spoke with him, but always held him in high regard, and had no doubt he would be a credit to our profession. My deepest sympathy to his family, loved ones and colleagues.
Larry Iery
June 15, 2022
Jeremy has been called to his eternal home way too soon, but we believe God has and knows the plan. I have great thoughts of him always was kind, considerate and caring to everyone. You never felt unimportant with Jeremy. Always felt a blessing and seen so much love when he and his beautiful family were at church. In his short years here he has truly left a legacy for this community and his family. To his beloved family my sympathy, love and prayers are with you today and always. God has you in his protective loving embrace today and always!
Melanie Altiers
June 15, 2022
So heartbroken for this young man and his family and friends Prayers to his young family
Kim Hill
June 15, 2022
I didn't know Jeremy, but I did know that he was an inspiration to our community, and gave people hope where there was none. Maddie and family, I wish his time on earth had been much longer for you and the girls. I am so sorry for your loss, and Randy and I extend our deepest sympathies to the entire Rutman and Burnside families.
Cathy Fleming
June 14, 2022
Maddie, I'm sending so much love to you, the girls and the entire family. There are no words. I wish I were there to give you a very big hug. Much love, Cathy
Chip Ebert
June 14, 2022
I am so sorry to hear this news. I remember Jeremy walking the halls of Brooklyn High School. My deepest sympathy to the entire Burnside family.
Roberts Duncan
June 14, 2022
Maddie, I´m so sorry to learn of Jeremy`s passing. You, the girls, and your family are in my thoughts and Prays. God bless you with peace and comfort.
Brenda Evans
June 14, 2022
I am so saddened to hear of his passing. He was one of the nicest, kindest guys I´d ever met. He gave so much of himself to others. I met him when I was a Volunteer for the Red Cross.,he did a lot for them. My Daughter Corvella & I Dearly loved him. He will sadly & Truly be missed. Thoughts & Prayers to wife & children. And all his Family
Mary Whitt
June 14, 2022
Maddie, I am so sorry to hear about Jeremy. Prayers to you and and your family. He will be missed in church and around the area.
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