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1932
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2020
Ruth Brantmeier Obituary
Menasha, Wisconsin - Ruth Betty Brantmeier, age 88, of Menasha, passed away on October 1, 2020 at her residence.
Ruth was born on April 10, 1932 to the late John and Mary (Ellenbecker) Jochman in Appleton, WI. She was united in marriage to the late Lloyd Brantmeier in Appleton and together raised 4 children.
Ruth worked at ThedaClark Regional Medical Center, Neenah preparing food for patients.
In her spare time Ruth enjoyed cooking, canning, baking and taking care of other people. Most of all, she loved spending time with her family.
Ruth is survived by and will be dearly missed by her children, Ronald, Carla (Ronald) Tesch Steve and Shari (Dave) Herman; grandchildren, Sheri, Christine and Amber; great-grandchildren, Keiah, Allianna, Jaylynn, Catalina and Carter; sister, Joyce (Bill) Anderson; siblings-in-law, Leona Brantmeier, Myrna Brantmeier, Margaret Jochman and Richard Nichols; many other dear family and friends.
Ruth was preceded in death by her siblings, Nancy, Helen, Eleanor, Esther, Alfred, Robert and David.
A Funeral Mass will be celebrated for Ruth at 11 AM on Friday, October 9, 2020 at St. Mary Catholic Church, 528 2nd St., Menasha, WI 54952 by Rev. Paul Paider. Family and friends may visit at the church from 9:30 AM to the time of mass. Interment will follow in the parish cemetery. Masks and social distancing are required.
The family would like to extend a special thank to the hospital and hospice staffs for their care of Ruth, especially nurses Mary and Roberta.
To leave a special message or condolences for Ruth's family, please visit wichmannfuneralhomes.com.
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Sherri Driessen
October 9, 2020
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived. So BEAUTIFUL sorry for your loss Another Angel in Heaven Love
Jennifer Lingnofski
October 7, 2020
Thinking of you all. Your mom was a super nice and funny lady. Many good times hanging out at the house. Take care and Angel's are watching over you now jennifer lingnofski
Jennifer lingnofski
October 7, 2020
Your mom was such a nice lady. Thinking of you all at this difficult time. I went to school with shari but knew other family members. Stay strong and know that Angel's are watching over you jennifer lingnofski
Vicky van vonderen
October 6, 2020
Ruth was a good friend of my mom (Carol Van Vonderen),you have our sympathy ,sorry I could not get Carol there to visit
Sam & Brenda
October 4, 2020
Shari- Your Mom was one of the nicest (and funny!) people I've ever met. I'm guessing she already found a casino in Heaven, as you girls always enjoyed your casino trips. Our deepest sympathy to you and your family.
Shaney Westenberger
October 3, 2020
I’m so sorry for your loss. I loved having drinks with her and Carla back in the day❤
Tammy L
October 3, 2020
Ruth was one of the nicest and sweetest people I have ever met. She always made me and my son feel welcomed when we were there. My deepest sympathies to her family.
Mark Anderson
October 2, 2020
So many fond memories growing up with such a loving aunt!!!! I can’t even begin to talk about them all....
I’m sure there already has been a glorious reunion in heaven... someday I only hope to be part of it!!! Love you Tootie!!!!!❤
Tracy Christopher
October 2, 2020
Rest in peace Ruth, i will always remember your smiles when i would come and visit Shari all the time, you were such a sweet and caring lady, my prayers and thoughts goes out to the family during this difficult time.
lisa christopher
October 2, 2020
Ruthy may you rest in peace. I will always remember your beautiful smile when we would always park in front of your house on July 4th. You will have a special place in my heart.
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