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Sandra McCarthy Obituary
Endwell: Sandra K. (Grummond) McCarthy, 55, of Endwell, passed away at her home on Monday, July 4, 2011, after an extended illness. She was predeceased by her father, Franklin C. Grummond, Jr.; and her uncle, William M. Kelly. She is survived by her loving and devoted husband of 34 years, Richard McCarthy; a son, Matthew McCarthy and his partner, Jodi Harrison, Ithaca, NY; her mother, Frances Grummond, Binghamton, NY; sister, Pamela Stein and partner, Dr. George Petro, Binghamton, NY; and sister, Jill Adams and husband, Christopher, Hannawa Falls, NY; a niece, Kathryn Stein; and nephews, Jacob, Zachary and Joshua Adams. Sandy enjoyed an active lifestyle that included racquetball, golf, and walking. Her favorite activity was traveling the world with her husband and son. She had an infectious laugh and a warm smile that would light up a room. Sandy was a devoted and caring wife, mother, daughter, sister, sister-in-law, aunt and friend. She will be deeply missed by all who were lucky enough to have known her. The family will receive friends at the Allen Memorial Home, 511-513 East Main Street, Endicott, Friday from 11 a.m. until 1 p.m. Expressions of sympathy in her memory may be made to Lourdes Hospice, 4102 Old Vestal Road, Vestal, NY 13850.
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Memories and Condolences
for Sandra McCarthy
Jim OHara
June 30, 2025
Still miss that laugh. Sandy was a good friend an a ball to work with. I know I've said it before, but I really miss her.
Jim O´Hara
June 30, 2023
Can´t believe it´s been 12 years since we lost this wonderful soul.
I still miss her, and I still tell stories of her to my friends and family.
She was a dear friend.
Jim O´Hara
June 30, 2021
Still miss that smile ..
Jim OHara
June 30, 2020
I still miss her dearly.
Thoughts of her always make me smile
Chris Adams
July 14, 2011
I met Sandy 26 years ago. That day She treated me like the most special person in the world, and She did the same each time I saw her for the next 26 years. As I came to know her over the years, I realized it was She who was the special one as She made each person in her life feel the way She had always made me feel. Sandy's kindness, love of people and her passion for life made it impossible not to love her. Those of us that knew her can only hope that we impact others the way Sandy did. I love and miss you!
Vickie Mauro
July 11, 2011
Dearest Pam,
I am so sorry for the loss of your beautiful sister. My deep and sincere condolences.
Chris Peck
July 11, 2011
Dick,
My heart goes out to you & Matt, I'll always remember her wonderful smile & laugh. Gail & I extend our deepest sympathies. I'm simply at a loss for words.
Forever your friend,
Chris
Marion Taylor
July 10, 2011
Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always.
Brendon Marks
July 10, 2011
Dick, we are so sorry to hear about Sandy's departure from you and from this earth. We pray that you, your son, and the family are comforted with fond memories of her and knowing that she is without pain in peaceful place. May God bless you. love, Brendon and Hwa-Ja
Jim and Pat Hisman
July 10, 2011
Dick,
Sandy will never be forgotten... The smiles, the laughter,that we shared wether it be on the golf course or out to dinner will stay with us forever...We will always remember those good times.
Marian Ferguson
July 10, 2011
Dick and Matt, I was so sad to hear about Sandy. I have great memories of Sandy from the McCarthy family parties at Laurel Lake. Thinking of you and hoping that your memories will help you through this difficult time.
Judi Bryant
July 9, 2011
Dick and Family.
Please accept my deepest condolences. May the many wonderful memories you have help sustain you during this sad and difficult time.
Mary Anne Lehmann
July 7, 2011
Pam, Dick, Mrs. Grummond and the entire family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this very difficult time. If Sandy was anything like Pam, and I'm given to believe they were birds of a feather, the world has lost a great treasure. We are so sorry for your loss. Judge Lehmann and your City Court Family
Laura Orzel
July 7, 2011
I had the pleasure of working with Sandy at the golf course several years ago. She was a wonderful person and was always smiling - I think of her often. I'm so very sorry for your loss.
Julie Dantini
July 7, 2011
Dear Dick and Family:
Sandy's was a life well lived, but far too short. Her smile,laughter and wit are a loss to all.
My sincerest sympathy.
Joyce & Gary Linville
July 7, 2011
Dear Matt & Jodie, We were very saddened to hear about your Mom. I know she must have been very special as I see it in you Matt. The loss of a Mom is very hard. I pray that in the days ahead that all of her memories will help you through. We'll stop by soon. May God comfort you in the days ahead.
July 7, 2011
To Dick and all of Sandy's family,
We are saddened by Sandy's death and will always remember her wonderful way with people. She brightened up any room she entered and made people feel happy just to be talking with her. We will keep you all in our prayers and thoughts. Joe and Judy Adams
July 7, 2011
Pam,
It has been a long time but so sorry to hear about your sister. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.
Robin Martino (Macgargle)
Bob McNamara
July 7, 2011
Carol and I would like to offer our condolences for your loss.
sincerely,
Terry Grippen
July 7, 2011
Dick and family,
We were so sorry to hear about Sandy's passing; she will be missed. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Terry and Kate Grippen
James O'Hara
July 7, 2011
Dearest Dick and Matt,
My heart dropped upon hearing the news of Sandys passing. Nothing will ever take her smile, wit, and laughter from my memories. I will miss her dearly.
My most sincere condolences, and may God bless you.
Larry Shute
July 6, 2011
Dear McCarthy & Grummond Families,
I am so stunned and saddened to hear this news. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Sandy has always been significant in anyone's life she touched. My memories will always have her great smile and warm heart in it. Please know that I will always think of her fondly. After tears of sadness, come tears of joyful remembrances.....I'll choose those.
McKenzie Teeter (Fountas)
July 6, 2011
Matt,
So sorry to hear of the loss of your mother. Thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
With sympathy,
Dan Sidebottom
July 6, 2011
Hi Matt and McCarthy family:
I am very sorry to have heard about your loss. No words can ever completely take away your sadness, but I hope that these words and knowing there are many thinking of you,in some small way eases your sorrow. My thoughts are with you all!
Your friend and colleague,
Bonnie Puterbaugh
July 6, 2011
Dick and Family.....
Our hearts were filled with sadness when we heard of the passing of Sandy. Please know that you are all in out prayers.
May she rest in peace.
Loren and Bonnie Puterbaugh
dina dufresne
July 6, 2011
Dear Dick and Matt: I'm forever grateful to have been friends with Sandy. Her competitiveness pushed me to perform my best, and I always loved her great sense of humor! We won many doubles racquetball tournaments together, and I fondly remember those days each time I look at the plaque with our names engraved on it hanging on the wall in my health club. She was truly special and I will miss her deeply as I know you will too. My sincerest sympathy.
July 6, 2011
Fran, Jill & Pam: My deepest sympathy at this most difficult time. May your memory of the "Good Times" help you through the future.
Joyce Allen Stedman, Tampa, Fl.
July 6, 2011
Very sorry for your loss. i wish we could be there on friday, but we will be out of town. My thoughts and prayers will be with you all during the day. Ernie and Barbara Skiadas and Helen and Casimir Dobrinski.
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