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Joyce Hale Wiley

1940 - 2020

Joyce Hale Wiley obituary, 1940-2020, Davenport, IA

Joyce Wiley Obituary

Joyce Hale Wiley

June 13, 1940-June 14, 2020

MOLINE-Joyce Hale Wiley, 80, of Moline, passed peacefully at home in hospice June 14, 2020, as a result of complications from Alzheimer's Disease.

Joyce was born in Evansville, IN, June 13, 1940, to Betty Louise (Wolfe) and James Bartlett Hale and spent her childhood and youth on the family farm near Cottonwood, IL. She graduated from Ridgway High School in 1958 and entered the University of Illinois at Champaign-Urbana in the School of Home Economics. She was active on campus and helped arrange guest lecturers for forums, the most notable of whom was Eleanor Roosevelt. Upon graduation she began graduate studies there and met her husband to be, Jack Cleveland Wiley. They both continued graduate studies at Purdue University and were married during semester break on January 25, 1965. Joyce received a PhD in Nutrition Science in 1968 and pursued post-doctoral research in Nutritional Biochemistry at the University of Illinois until the birth of their first child, Jason, in 1970.

The family moved to the Quad Cities in 1972 where Jack was employed by Deere & Company. Their second child, Alice Louise, was born in Davenport, IA, in 1974. Joyce became actively involved in the Religious Education program at the Unitarian Universalist Congregation and later ran the Adult Forum there for over 34 years.

In 1990 Joyce and Jack founded a support group for gay and lesbian youth that later became known as Quad Citians Affirming Diversity (QCAD). Joyce led that organization until 2017 when it was passed to Western Illinois University Moline. During that time Joyce served hundreds of LGBTIA youth and adults and was a strong advocate in supporting the efforts that led to the establishment of civil rights laws protecting the LGBTIA population in the Quad Cities.

Joyce enjoyed cooking, reading the New York Times, following the news, and walking the family dog.

She is survived by; her husband, Jack Wiley, son, Jason Hale Wiley (Luke Vuttera) of Rockford, IL, daughter, Alice Louise Wiley Pickett (Kyle) and grandsons Ned Pickett and Grant Pickett of Springfield, MO, sister Linda Barter of Tucson, AZ, and sister Alice Hirt (George Katsanos) of Holland, MI, plus several nieces and nephews.

A Life Celebration Memorial Service will be held at the Unitarian Universalist Congregation in Davenport, Iowa, at a later date.

The family is very grateful for the superb care from the staff of Home Instead, especially Shana, Ana, and Jada and for the final care provided by Unity Point Hospice.

Memorials may be made to QCAD at Western Illinois University Moline and to the Neurology Department of the University of Iowa Hospitals and Clinics.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Quad-City Times on Jun. 16, 2020.

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Don Clark

June 18, 2020

I am heartbroken to hear of her passing. She was a ray of light in this often dark world. Her spirit and positivity were an inspiration. My thoughts and prayers are with Jack and the entire family.

Elesha Gayman

June 18, 2020

I first met Joyce when I was serving in the Iowa Legislature. Her passion and care for the LGBTQ community, particularly the youth, was contagious. I owe a great deal of my knowledge of LGBTQ issues to Joyce. At the time I was working with her on issues like marriage equality and anti-bullying legislation I never knew that one day I would be blesses to become a mother of an LGBTQ child. My prayers and condolences are with your family as you mourn your loss but know her advocacy of youth will outlive us all.

Scott Smith

June 18, 2020

Joyce was more than my boss, she truly felt like a mother to me. Teaching me something new everyday. Always discussing current events, politics, books and religion. Cooking with her at work, sharing our admiration of Julia Childs and her evening loaning me her cook book " Mastering The Art of French Cooking. She was and will continue to be our ally.

Becky A Bray

June 16, 2020

Joyce was a lovely person who worked tirelessly for others. I had the pleasure of meeting her many years ago and have remembered and admired her work since that time. My sympathy to her family.

Ellen Reilly

June 16, 2020

To the Wiley Family and Beyond...Joyce was a diminutive yet massive force in our community who taught me what being a straight ally means. I had the pleasure to work with Joyce for over a decade on the issues of LGBTQ education and rights, bullying prevention, and community activism. She never compromised her steadfast beliefs and was a life-changing inspiration to me. No one can ever fill her shoes. You were an angel on earth, and I imagine the wings handed to you in heaven are HUGE! Bless you and fly high.

June 16, 2020

To the Wiley Family,

Your mother and Wife was a very nice lady, she was very open and welcoming to everyone she met. It was my pleasure to know both her, Jack and Jason my prayers are with your family

Dave Jones
Davenport, IA

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