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Tory Gantert Obituary
Tory W. Gantert, age
44 years, of South Heidelberg Twp., passed away Thursday, November 14th at Reading Hospital & Medical Center, West Reading.
Tory was born in Reading on October 2, 1969, a son of Donna O. (Fackler) and Michael E. Gantert, of South Heidelberg Twp.
He was a 1988 graduate of Reading High School and worked as a commissary manager at Aramark,
Wyomissing. He was an avid fan and loved the Eagles and his favorite TV show was "Sons of Anarchy."
He is survived by the mother of his children, Julie L. Fuzer; son, Matthew T. Gantert; daughter, Kayla L. Gantert; daughter, Jenna M. Gantert, all of Reading; and sister, Shannon O. Clemis-son, of Colorado. He was predeceased by his twin brother, Cory J. Gantert, in 2001.
Friends are invited to call Monday from 12:30 to 2 p.m. at the John P. Feeney
Funeral Home. Interment at Laureldale Cemetery, Muhlenberg Twp.
Arrangements entrusted to the John P. Feeney Funeral Home, in Reading's Centre Park Historic District, 625 N. 4th St. at Centre Ave., Reading, PA 19601. Obituary, directions and condolences at www.johnfeeneyfuneralhome.com.
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Memories and Condolences
for Tory Gantert
Kayla Gantert
August 14, 2024
Hi dad, it's been a long 10 years without you. I've had a son, he's 7 now. I know you're watching over is but it's hard without you here. I miss you so much dad. I'd do anything to give you a hug they said grieving would get better with time and no, it actually doesn't.. it gets worse I just feel numb to the pain. 31 years old now dad man I can't stope crying, I miss you so much. I love you pops, rest in peace
My father <3
Kayla Gantert
November 28, 2013
Dad this is so hard for me right now im sitting here thinking about all the great times we had on thanksgiving i love and miss you HAPPY THANKSGIVING i know your up in heaven having a feast of your own but its still not the same , it will never be . I LOVE YOU !!!!!!!!
November 28, 2013
Happy Thanksgiving
To Our Loved one Tory, who is in Heaven,
We will always love you and Miss you...
Until we meet again <3
November 27, 2013
Tory your time on earth has ended, however; you will have a new begining. You can keep all the secrets with you safe. Rest easy man.
Frank & Lisa
sharon (wood) Foran
November 22, 2013
I am so sorry for your loss. I will always hold a special place in my heart for Tory. God bless you all and I will keep you in my prayers.
Deke
November 21, 2013
Julie, my heart goes out to you. I'm sorry you have to bear this pain. I love you, cuz. Kayla and Jenna, I'm so sorry you had to lose your father so early,he loved you both so much. Matt, how comforted your family must be knowing you were there guarding your father like you did, and being there for him. I can't express in words how I feel for you. Donna and Mike, my condolences. Not one, but two times. Death surely has no mercy. My thoughts and prayers go out to you all. I'm sorry I couldn't be there these past few days to tell you this in person. God bless.
Krystal Nachurski-Strauss
November 20, 2013
My heart goes out to Tory's family. I am so sorry for your loss. I grew up with Cory and Tory. I will never forget my teenage years because you were a big part of them. We were there for each other during those years and always had each other to talk to. My sweet 16 birthday party wouldn't had been as much fun without you two there. God always takes the good young and he must of needed an angel. God Bless and R.I.P.
steve santin
November 19, 2013
well t, the journey on earth has ended and now is the journey of being an angel will begin to look over your family and be a presence in the decision they make. i loved all the crazy stuff we did over the last 25 years. i love ya brother and will miss you. save a place for me
Dawn Stpehenson
November 18, 2013
My thoughts and prayers go out to the family, I met Tory and Cory at Northeast. Cory was my first boyfriend and Tory was my first male best friend. Love and miss them both, but knowing they are together again makes me smile. Till we met again
Diane Carmelo
November 18, 2013
Donna and Mike. My deepest sympathy for your loss. I hope that as time goes bye that your family will heal. God Bless all of you.
Diane Carmelo,
Eric Hogue& Family,Clint Stubblebine & Family
November 18, 2013
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
Christine S.
November 18, 2013
My thoughts and prayers go out to the family. Knowing Tory is with Cory helps with the sadness in knowing the two of them are sharing laughs together once again. There are so many good memories shared with them throughout my whole childhood. R.I.P
matt gantert
November 18, 2013
all the great times we had together man foreal im so shocked,confused and I feel more alone now then ever, you showed me all the things you needed to, saw me graduate and complete job corps , im sorry you will never see your grand children and that i'll never get 2 eat your delicious food again and I love you so much and aint nobody in the world can replace you. you will be remembered forever and loved by many , I remember all the cook outs and all the partys and everything man just so much to say dad :( please though rest easy, time for you 2 heal :( no more pain :( so sorry :'( <3<3
Michele F
November 18, 2013
Matt, Kayla and Jenna - My heart goes out to all of you! Believe me, I do know how you are feeling. Try to remember all the good times you each shared with your father and this will pull you through this difficult time. Also, remember to talk about him. He loved all of you a lot and he may be gone, but not forgotten. This is what helped me cope with Grandmom, Grandpop and Kaley, so I know it will help you too. My thoughts and prayers are with each of you.
Michele F
November 18, 2013
My deepest sympathy to Tory's family. I will never forget the contagious smile on Tory's face every time I saw him, his devotion to the Philadelphia Eagles, and how he liked to help people. In fact, the last time I saw him was out at the farm helping Butch in the garden. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
November 18, 2013
Donna & Mike - so sorry for your loss, my thoughts and prayers are with you and the rest of the family.
Cathy Eckroth (Anna Zondlo's sister)
Heather Messner
November 18, 2013
Donna and Mike,
I am so sorry for your loss, It is so hard to believe,I remember all the great times I shared with Tory, Cory and Troy, now they are alltogether again. My prayers are with you and your family
Uncle Randy
November 18, 2013
Well the Twins are together again and I know Heaven just got a little crazier. Life does not end in death. Its a new beginning. The only thing that dies is a piece of ourselves. Tory now has perfect vision once again. He now sees things we can't even imagine. He no longer has any more worries,burden or pain. I believe that our separation is only temporary.As we will all be together again someday. For we all have to make this journey eventually and how sweet it will be. So lets rejoice as we remember Tory's life. The fun we had, the ups and downs that life gives us and the way he made us all laugh. I hope the Lord gives us all peace in our hearts with happy thoughts that we each had with Tory. And may we all have trust in his namesake and his promise that whoever believes in him shall have everlasting life.
Matthew Gantert
November 18, 2013
Dad, The memories we shared are priceless and I will never forget them!!Love when we would laugh and the small things like when you would sit back on the chair after a meal rubbing your belly and going awww i'm stuffed. I will even miss seeing you playing with your goatee, Most of all I am going to miss your cooking NOBODY can cook like you. I love you sooo much but even with the good comes the bad and I will even miss that 2. Damnit this is hard right now but please give me strength, I love you sleep easy and have fun with Uncle Cory!! :(
Andy L
November 18, 2013
Tory,
I will always remember the fun times we had parking at the races. Take care everyone.
Debbie G
November 18, 2013
Tory, to the happiest, jolliest, lovable person I knew. He always lent a helping hand to anyone who needed it and wanted nothing in return. He had a great smile which always made people feel good. He was an excellent cook and now he can cook in heaven with my mom and grandmother and share recipes. I will not forget you and always especially remember the trip to the shore and the great foot massages. Matt, Kayla and Jenna, your father loved you so much in life and will continue to love and watch over you from above. Everyone of you, take care, for I shall miss him too. Love always,
Tanya
November 17, 2013
May You Rest In Sweet Paradise Up In Lovely Heaven. Watch Over Your Amazing Family Love You Always & Forever
Jo Edgar
November 17, 2013
May you rest in peace and God Bless. My condolences to Julie and family.
Lisa Lattanzio
November 17, 2013
My deepest sympathy to your family, Tory, your going to be miss by many! May you Rest In Peace with Cory and Troy.
November 17, 2013
Rest easy Tory ,
Dawn Turner- Snyder
November 17, 2013
Sorry for your loss . We had a lot of good times when we were kids . Rest in peace my friend
Dawn Turner- Snyder
November 17, 2013
So sorry for your loss . We had a lot of great memories growing up .Rest in peace my friend .
Ann Horner
November 17, 2013
R.I.P. Tory I cannot believe yu r gone. It is so hard for everyone right now to see yu r gone but not forgotten. You and Cory always had a smile,made people laugh and that's what we are all gonna miss. I did not see you much but you were always a great guy and so was your brother Cory and now you are both together again...you are gonna be missed dearly like your brother because you both touched so many lives. My heart goes out to your family at this time of sorrow. You will be dearly missed but never forgotten......we love you TORY and your brother Cory...GO EAGLES forever. My thoughts and prayers are with the whole entire family..
November 17, 2013
Tory very hard sorry Julie, Matt, Kayla, & Jenna Love you . You will be missed by alot of people this is hard. You are now with your brother now rest in peace Big T
Tory & Phil
November 17, 2013
The story goses I would of never knew Phil if it wasn't for Tory thank-you
November 17, 2013
Michele Wummer/ Moody
November 17, 2013
My deepest sympathy to the family. I grew up up with both Tory and Cory, living across the street we hung out alot together. I have very fond memories. I am very sad to hear of his passing and especially for his children. God Bless
November 17, 2013
Janet Turner
November 17, 2013
Mike and Donna, My sincere sympathy goes out to you and your family.
barbara fuzer
November 17, 2013
i will think of you today while i watch the football game
November 17, 2013
Sorry for your loss. Love and hugs, Scott and Lisa Lerch
BETH CHEEK
November 17, 2013
RIP
BETH CHEEK
November 17, 2013
MAY YOU RIP TORRY THANK YOU FOR ALWAYS MAKING ME LAUGH I WILL MISS YOU FOR THAT.
Tim Riegel
November 17, 2013
So sad for Matt,Kayla and Jenna. I remember i went to my first and only Eagles game with Tory several years ago.We had a blast. He will be sadly missed.
Angie (Brown )Kline
November 16, 2013
To Tory's parents and children...I'm so terribly sorry for your loss my heart goes out to you during this difficult time. I'm sending prayers to you all. Tory and Cory were like big brothers to me growing up. I have great memories of them both. Have peace knowing he is with his brother he loved so much, they were like two peas in a pod. You will be missed Tory and never forgotten. Another friend in my heart. God bless!
Troy M Crammer
November 16, 2013
It's been a long time. I was hoping we would meet again. I never planned on seeing this again. You are with Cory now and others that have passed. I miss the days growing up at 11th & pike and messin around and the years we played for rising sun. I read all these messages and see that you grew into a well respected grown man. May you rest in peace old friend. My thoughts are with your family thru these very tough days.
GO EAGLEEEEEEESSSSSSSSS!! #1
Julie
November 16, 2013
Julie Fuzer
November 16, 2013
I will NEVER forget you and the love we shared together!! We have 3 wonderful smart beautiful children together and we will miss you forever!!! I feel like I can't breathe right now, it hurts so bad, but you are with Cory right now watching down on us!! I love you and you know that. I will always remember the great times we had at the Eagles games our shore vacations and the casinos and so much more!! Like Jenna said love stretches for miles and miles all the way to Heaven and our love is with you! Until we meet again and you no we will, Tory RIP and teach those in Heaven with you how to tear it up!!! Dance, sing, laugh and have fun, just remember to come see us and keep us safe. GO EAGLES!! I am gonna miss you so much!!
Lisa Ramos-Roth
November 16, 2013
I went to school with Tory. He was a great guy. To hear of his passing is so sad. Our class reunion is coming up and I know a bunch of us were looking forward to seeing him. Tory and Cory were always making everyone laugh. Now you and Cory are together again buddy. My heart goes out to your children and you family. You will be missed by many but never forgotten.
Dena Fackler
November 16, 2013
Rest in peace Tory. I will miss your laughs,smile,cooking, and u busting my butt on new years. We had so many great times. I cant stop crying.You brought 3 amazing kids in this world and since they have your heart and genes pieces of you is still here with us.You are watching us all with your brother cory. I will forever remember you shouting "GO EAGLES" with big bright smile. love you always..see you again one day.god bless you
caitlin galanos
November 16, 2013
r.i.p. tory we sadly miss you i will always love nd miss u r.i.p. tory...
Tiff Leibig
November 16, 2013
I love you and miss you pop. You ad your family have done alot for me. The good memories are doing a marathon in my head. I remember hanging with you and matty for my 21st bday. It was a blast. And so many more before memories before that. You will be dearly missed by so many.
Maureen Galanos
November 16, 2013
R.I.P. Tory you are loved and missed by many!!
Tiffany Leibig
November 16, 2013
Tory. i know i havent known you my whole life. But you and your family have done so much for me. You all were there for me when i needed you the most . as we;ll i did in return. I love you all very much. We have lost a great man,But heaven has gained an angel. No one can ever take the place of him.
Our wonderful trip to Florida, We loved that week didn't we!! <3
Julie
November 16, 2013
Maureen Galanos
November 16, 2013
Tory you were a very kind person who would do anything for anyone.You had the ability to make everyone laugh no matter how down they were you could always lift their spirits. You were a joy to be around and you will be missed much.R.I.P. Tory Gantert!!
November 16, 2013
Tory .wow its been along time since i have seen you.now u r an angel with ur brother.you will be sadly missed.my thoughts n prayers go out to ur family. rest in peace .your friend sheila(weitzel) carrasquillo
Marsha Dugan
November 16, 2013
My condolences to the family, children, and friends. Tory was a pleasure to have known, though the years have passed since we last crossed paths. No words can ease your pain at this time. Cory was there to show Tory home. They came into the world together, and now are together in the after life. R.I.P Tory!
November 16, 2013
hey Tory its been along time since i have seen you.your now an angel along with ur brother looking down on all .may you rest in peace.
November 16, 2013
i have known tory for along time we went to school together.my thoughts n prayers go out to his family n children he will surely be missed.gone but not forgotten. sincerely your friend Jennifer Neiman
Julie Fuzer
November 16, 2013
I AM going to MISS you forever Tory!!! The one thing I could always count on was you. You were there for me whenever I needed an ear, a shoulder. I love you and I thank you for our 3 beautiful children!! We of course had our ups and downs, but we always forgave each other and that was another great quality you have, forgiveness!! I will never forget our wonderful memories with our children and the many fun times we had together, that is what counts! The laughter we shared is never going to be replaced!! I will always and forever remember you and you will always and forever be in my heart!! RIP Tory you are with our brother!!
Tommy G
November 16, 2013
I know pretty many people but don't have many friends and Tory was definitely one of my good friends, I will always remember him through music and laughter! RIP Tory
Jenna's First Holy Communion, Tory was so proud!!
Julie
November 16, 2013
Beth Snyder-Hufford
November 16, 2013
My thoughts and prayers go out to Tory's children and family. Tory as well as, Cory has been a friend since elementary school ( 13th and Union)
I will always treasure our fun times and laughter we shared at school through out the years, and hanging at Pike playground. Most of all, I will remember our individual goofy and fun moments we shared laughing God bring grace to everyone during this sad time. My heart goes out to his children to be strong during this difficult time. God Bless.
Tim Metzinger
November 16, 2013
I will never forget you Tory
Tim Metzinger
November 16, 2013
I am so sorry for your families loss. Tory was a good guy with a big heart. I will never forget all the good times and laughter Tory and I shared together. RIP Tory
Family, We all love you and we will all miss you forever!!
Julie Fuzer
November 16, 2013
I AM going to MISS you forever Tory!!! The one thing I could always count on was you. You were there for me whenever I needed an ear, a shoulder. I love you and I thank you for our 3 beautiful children!! We of course had our ups and downs, but we always forgave each other and that was another great quality you have, forgiveness!! I will never forget our wonderful memories with our children and the many fun times we had together, that is what counts! The laughter we shared is never going to be replaced!! I will always and forever remember you and you will always and forever be in my heart!! RIP Tory you are with our brother!!
kayla gantert
November 16, 2013
The day you answered God's call
Left an empty space
My world came crashing down
I couldn't breathe…couldn't talk…
I felt so numb, I couldn't walk.
It was so hard to believe
That you were gone.
Once so strong;
Where do I belong?
Why did you have to leave?
Why did you have to go?
Thinking of you brings tears to my eyes
I never thought I would see your demise
Who will teach me right from wrong?
Now that you are gone?
Daddy, you put me through varsity
You did that by working with your hands
You built big buildings and painted tall walls
Times were tough that I knew
You did what you could, to help me through
You could fixed anything you laid your hands on
There wasn't a thing you couldn't do
With a little cement or some glue
Just thinking about this, is making me blue!
You made me so proud on my wedding day
When you so unselfishly gave me away
You hugged me and wished me well
And I think a saw a tear
It was so hard for you to let me go
To let your “little girl” venture into a world unknown
Without you holding my hand or to catch me if I fall
But don't worry daddy
I remember everything you taught me
If I forget, it's a pity I can't call
Now its time for me to let you go
The hardest thing I've ever had to do
But before I do,
I want you to know, I'm so sorry for all I put you through
I Love you Daddy
More than words can describe
I wish you were here, I wish you were alive
my dad Tory Gantert , i will forever love you to the moon and back ,
November 16, 2013
JENNA GANTERT
November 16, 2013
I MISS MY DADDY SO MUCH I WANT HIM BACK ON EARTH WITH US
Ginny Weitzel-boyer
November 16, 2013
There are no words to express the feelings of loss except to say my thoughts and prayers go out to the family.
Vinny Linarez
November 16, 2013
Tory will be very missed I will always remember him as a very funny guy who loved to crack jokes all day and have a good time not to long ago we had a couple get togethers which we had fun and I am very thankful for R.I.P tory
Cheryl Shurilla
November 16, 2013
My condolences go out to the whole family. May God watch over all of you
Daphne (Schropp) Grant
November 16, 2013
Mike and Donna,
I am so very sorry for your loss. My deepest sympathy to you and your family.
Jolynn Hafer
November 16, 2013
We met at Northeast and I am very glad I got the chance to know such a nice guy. My condolences to the family.
Brian Martin
November 16, 2013
Very sorry for your loss, my deepest sympathy for everyone's lives that this has affected. I will always remember Tory as being a very funny guy who loved to have a good time with those he cared for. May God bless him and keep him safe.
Mary Beth Cochran
November 16, 2013
I am so sorry for the families loss and am keeping you all in my thoughts and prayers.He was a great guy and had a heart of gold.He will be deeply missed.R.I.P. Tory.
Denise Corolla-Rison
November 16, 2013
We grew up across the street from your family on locust st...so very sorry to hear this. May he RIP. Our condolences to your family.
Heather Carse
November 16, 2013
May your memories help you find a way through this pain and to find peace
God bless you Tory, rest in peace
Eric Salvati
November 16, 2013
I knew you guys since elementary school. We played together as kids. My condolences go out to your family. Rest in peace my friend.
Stephanie Brown Torres
November 16, 2013
My Childhood Buddy...My heart goes out to your family.I'am so very sorry!
I have some funny memories of you and your brother Cory that I will never forget. 11th & Pike,13th & Union,Northeast & Reading High.
You were like a brother to me Tory when we were kids,always getting in trouble you and I in Miss Phillips 5th grade class.Laughing till Linda Armstrong & I peed ourselves! I know we all have lost touch since school but I will never forget you or your brother. Love you guys!!! Give my Mom a hug for me! ;)
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