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1979
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2019
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Jason Howell Obituary
Jay was born in Meriden, July 2, 1979, son of Wayne Howell, Pauline Parmalee, and stepfather Rick Parmalee. He was a 1997 graduate of Lyman Hall H.S. where his football legacy will live on forever #22! After graduating high school, he went on to ASU, before returning to Wallingford to start a family.
Jay was known for his free spirit, infectious laugh, and a smile that could light up any room. He loved reminiscing about old times with each one of you, his trips cross country and memories he's made along the way. His passions were his family, camping, being outdoors, the NY Giants and Nirvana. He loved spending time with Ashlyn, Jacob and all the kids who called our house "home".
In addition to his wife, children and parents, Jay is survived by his sister, Stephanie, his brother, Kevin and lifelong friend Geoffrey Mongillo, many aunts, uncles, cousins, nieces and nephews and his mother in law Cissy Reid. He was predeceased by his maternal grandparents, Frances and O'Nil Doyon, and his paternal grandparents Mary and Elmer Howell, and his beloved dog Kobi.
Jason's family will receive relatives and friends in The Wallingford Funeral Home on Thursday, August 8, from 4 to 8 p.m. Jay would love to see you all wear something that will celebrate his memory. A Mass of Christian burial will be celebrated on Friday at 11 a.m. directly at Church of the Resurrection, 115 Pond Hill Rd., Wallingford. Interment will be private. In lieu of flowers, gifts in his memory may be sent to the Howell Children's Education Fund, c/o The Wallingford Funeral Home, 809 N. Main St. Ext., Wallingford, CT 06492. www.wallingfordfh.com
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Memories and Condolences
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Patricia Camera
August 12, 2019
Jason you have entered into the heavens in peace. May you SHINE down upon your family and friends and comfort them until you meet again. I will always remember you as the cute blonde haired kid on the Pop Warner squad PEACE
Denise Martha
August 11, 2019
I was so sad to hear about Jay's passing. Jay was one of the nicest guys in my Italian classes at Lyman Hall. I'll always remember his warm and friendly smile.
with my deepest sympathy, Denise Martha
Kristan McLean
August 11, 2019
My deepest condolences Vanessa to you the kids and your family. Jay was a good soul with so much love for his family. You will be in my forever prayers for peace and healing.
William Bradley
August 10, 2019
Glad to have got to meet Jay. Was definitely a special person. R.I.P. to a real legend. Thoughts with all of the Howells.
Angelo Finoia III
August 10, 2019
I had five best friends growing up. We all lived a mile from each other. We rode bicycles together, played soccer, street hockey and football. Those guys are Jeff Zemina, Mark Daly, Geoff Mongillo, Jim Vitali and Jay Howell. I still remember his phone number, ***-4345. We played Tecmo Bowl on the NES, and he always beat me. Love ya bro, I'll miss you. -Korky
Tom Russell
August 10, 2019
My memories of Jay are fond. From the football team to the wine shoppe. Jay was a great guy. RIP
Anita Symington
August 9, 2019
A wonderful father and a great man, I shall miss him dearly as I know his family will, may he rest with the angels and watch over his children as they grow to be strong in character and love as he was............
Gabriel Maccio
August 9, 2019
It's been a long time you will be missed
Angela Curcio Farina
August 9, 2019
Jay always had a smile on his face, Im so sorry for your loss. Prayers to all of Jays family and friends.
Paul Heide Morman
August 9, 2019
Vanessa, Jacob, & Ashlyn,
Words can't express how sorry we are for your loss. Jay wore his heart on his sleeve, he made everyone feel welcomed and never turned his back or singled anyone out. We're here for anything you guys need. Please don't hesitate. We love Jay, and we love you guys. Xoxo
Jaime and Mark Szyszka
August 9, 2019
Sending Jay and all his family and friends light and love always.
Rob Marone
August 9, 2019
I am absolutely heartsick to be posting a message here. I am also so deeply moved, yet not at all surprised, at the incredible outpouring of love and support as people paid their respects to Jason and the Howell family.
Heroes are often found when considering elders such as parents and grandparents. Some find their heroes in books or movies. I am proud to say that my teammate, friend, and brother Jason Howell, is and always will be one of my heroes.
My prayers and most heart-felt condolences to all of # 22's Family & Friends
Jason, I hope that I can throw you a few "94's" in Heaven, when we meet again!
Love Always,
#14
Brynn Doyon
August 8, 2019
My heart is truly broken. I'm gonna miss and love you forever. Auntie B
Pearl Howell
August 8, 2019
Our Beloved Jason, Uncle Bob and I will forever love you and keep you in our hearts until we see you again. We will miss you every day and tell you we love you in our prayers every night. Love, Auntie Pearl and Uncle Bob
Eric Quigley
August 8, 2019
Vanessa and Howell Family,
Im so sorry for your loss at this very difficult time. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. Jay was one of a kind. He had a great sense of humor and was a very genuine person. We had a lot of good laughs and fun times over the years. He will be missed very much by everyone. His spirit will live on forever because of the positive achievements he made throughout his life and the caring respect that he showed to everyone. You dont come by friends like that everyday. May his soul Rest In Peace.
Bill Mezei
August 8, 2019
Vanessa I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayer are with you. Bill Mezei
Meredith & Rich Canto
August 8, 2019
Vanessa and Family,
Our thoughts and prayers go out to you all. The LH football fields and concession stand wont be the same. Wishing you peace to bring comfort, courage to face the days ahead and loving memories to forever hold in your hearts. ❤
Louise Chappell
August 8, 2019
Pauline...my heart is so heavy for you, Stephanie, Jacob, Vanessa and all of your family. May God give you the strength to endure the pain and comfort you in these hours of sorrow. Know that your family in Maine love you and are praying for you. Sending hugs to you and much love ❤
Katherine Marnalse
August 7, 2019
I send my Sympathy to his Family RIP Jay God Bless you Young Man you will be Missed by all your Loved Ones
Bill & Tara Levine
August 7, 2019
So very sorry to hear of your loss. Thoughts and prayers to you, family and friends.
Stan Krajewski
August 7, 2019
My heart aches for the family at this time of grief. May you all find peace, love and healing for your heart.
With love,
Stan
Jamie Swedt-Lotspeich
August 6, 2019
Jason has meant the world to me since the 6th grade! He was and always will be my brother. My life will never be the same without him in it. Love you forever jason !!!!
Jay and Amanda Quigley
August 6, 2019
We are so sorry for your loss. Jay was an amazing man and will be missed by so many. Sending our heartfelt condolences and prayers.
Jay Garbero
August 6, 2019
My heart goes out to your family and Jay#22. I had the pleasure of being teammates and becoming a friend of Jay. Though our lives got busy with adulthood, every time time I saw Howell it was like picking up right where we left off every time. He always had a keen memory for the fun times and classic football moments. (some I wish to forget because I wasnt nearly the athlete as Jay lol) but thats what made Jay who he was! Hed pick you up when you were down on the field and not just with his words but with his amazing one handed catches and diehard mentality in the fourth quarter! Youll always be remembered on and off the field. Thank you Jay RIP
Lisa Koski
August 6, 2019
Pauline, Kevin, Stephanie, Vanessa, Jacob & Ashlyn
The loss of someone we love is never easy, may the memories you have of Jay bring you comfort, peace and light during this difficult time. Tyler growing up with Kevin as his best friend always spoke and thought of Jay like he was his own brother. Sending you all heartfelt sympathy, healing thoughts and prayers.
SUSAN and BILL Houlberg
August 6, 2019
Sorry to you and family Pauline. Jason will forever live in your heart. God bless you all.
Gail Stegos
August 6, 2019
To all Jason's family and friends, our sincerest sympathy!!! Always had a beautiful smile and friendly hello. He'll be missed. In our thoughts and prayers!!! The Stegos family
Mike Capasso
August 6, 2019
I am so sorry for your loss. Jay was one of the nicest guys around and my heart goes out to you and his kids.
Tina Gonzalez
August 6, 2019
Vanessa,Ashlynn, Jacob, family and friends
I'm so sorry to hear about Jay!Jay was an awesome person who always had a hug and kiss for everybody.Jay will be missed by ALL who knew him.Jay Rest In Peace XOXO!
Tina,Jeff,Kayla,Jeffrey and Robbie Gonzalez
Ellen Niles
August 6, 2019
Wayne and family, I was so shocked to read this sad news. My heart and prayers go out to all of you.
Just so young to leave all of you.
Sincerely
Ellie Niles
Ana Gopoian
August 6, 2019
Im so sorry to read about Jays passing. My thoughts and prayers are with his family and friends.
Margo DAmico
August 6, 2019
My memories of Jason couldnt be fonder. He was known as My Little Sack of Potatoes when I would babysit for him and his sister Stephanie. He loved helping me make dinner and anything we made was always his favorite .
He always has a kind and gentle spirit..
My deepest sympathies to all his family and friends..
Katherine Jerin
August 6, 2019
Pauline, my condolences to you and your family in the loss of your son Jay. You are in my thoughts and prayers
Kate Heidel-Heroux
August 6, 2019
Stephanie I am so sorry for your families loss. You are all in my thoughts and close to my heart. Love and tight hugs.
John Passmore
August 6, 2019
Our deepest condolences your your family and friends. Theres so much I could say about Jay. Ill leave it at you were so loved by many. You will be missed and till we meet again Rest In Peace. #22. Love you brother.
Donna Smith
August 6, 2019
Jay was a great guy with a huge smile for everyone. He was a lot of fun to work with at NEMF. RIP Jay
Emily Cherson
August 5, 2019
So sorry to all family members! My Jay Rest In Peace! My prayers and condolences go out to all. He will be sorely missed!
Cory Dionne
August 5, 2019
I'm so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and the family.
nicole ventresca
August 5, 2019
Rip buddy..- Joe Mangino and Nicole Ventresca
Kevin McDade
August 5, 2019
So very sorry for your loss. Prayers for the families. Rest in peace #22.
Christopher Dudek
August 5, 2019
Far to soon
Paul Powers
August 5, 2019
very sorry to have the life of such a vibrant person cut short. RIP Jay
Guy Doyon
August 5, 2019
Jason...we were family but we didn't see much of each other. When we did though I could tell by your hugs that there was a love you had for your family. Those hugs will be missed by all. You loved your Memere and now you can hug here to your hearts content. You are missed...Love from your favorite Uncle Guy.
Debby Tuscano
August 5, 2019
Vanessa I am so sorry for your loss My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family ❤
Sarah Nicolaides
August 5, 2019
Jason, I loved you like a brother. Your smile truly did light up the room every time you entered. I know how much you loved Vanessa and your children. I know what a good person and friend you were. Rest In Peace my friend. I love you. Sar
Kristy and Jeff Uhlan
August 5, 2019
My heart goes out to his parents, his wife, and beautiful children! He was truly the sweetest guy! Always went out of his way to be kind and say hi! Always made you feel special with his wonderful hellos! Jay you will be missed by so many people whos hearts you touched! Rest In Peace buddy! Sending love and prayers to all in this difficult time. Xoxo
Paul Celotto
August 5, 2019
Sorry for your loss sending prayers to all
Deb Doyon
August 5, 2019
Always a great big hugger and kisser! Loved his family so much! He was such a good grandson when his Meme was near her time. I will never forget his love for her! Rest In Peace Jason, you are now healed. Auntie Deb
Auntie Cindy Gauthier
August 5, 2019
I seldom saw you without that beautiful smile and twinkling blue eyes and that is how I always think of you...a beautiful, young boy with a great laugh- tossing a football with Joel or having fun in the pool at Memere's or your house. You will be missed by so many who loved you.
Kevin Remillard
August 5, 2019
So sorry for your loss The Remillards
Ed & Diane Hilbert
August 5, 2019
Such a friendly polite young man. Always had a smile when he saw us and called us Mr & Mrs Hilbert. So sorry to the families and deepest sympathy to all. My heart breaks for all of you
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