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David L. Hartley

David Hartley Obituary

Elk Grove, CA

David L. Hartley

Nov. 1, 1955 - Apr. 18, 2009

Beloved husband of 20 years to Pam. Dear father of Alysha and Michelle. Brother of Cheryl Hartley and Step-brother to Steve. He was preceded in death by his parents.

Dave was born in the Spokane/ Coeur d' Alene area and grew up in the Lynnwood/Edmonds area. He moved to California in 1985 where he met Pam in 1986. He worked as a Program Manager for Applied Aerospace Structures Corp. in Stockton for 16 years.

He was an avid pilot, flight instructor, accomplished water skier and snow skier, hunter and fisherman. He was a member of the Alta Mesa Gun Club In Wilton, CA and a great fan of Elk Grove High School sports and a long time fan of the Seattle Seahawks. The greatest passion and joy in his life are his wife and two daughters.

Friends are invited to the visitation Friday, April 24, 2009, 2 p.m. until 8 p.m. at Herberger's Elk Grove Funeral Chapel, 9101 Elk Grove Blvd., Elk Grove, CA. Funeral services will be conducted Saturday, April 25, 2009, at Noon at the mortuary. Contributions may be sent to Families For Early Autism Treatment, P.O. Box 255722, Sacramento, CA 95865-5722.

This obituary was originally published in the Stockton Record.

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Published by Stockton Record from Apr. 23 to Apr. 24, 2009.

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60 Entries

GAIL YEE

November 23, 2015

Dear Pam - Words can not express my shock in finding this out some 6 years later. Dave was an amazing wonderful man. I just happen to google people that were wonderful to me & to find this was just surreal. I see you reside in Wilton now. I hope you and the girls have found peace in the amazing memories with Dave....wow I just can't believe this. What a tragedy.

Dawn Jackson/McMillion

August 14, 2009

Pam! I've thought of you many many times and tried to find you and David. After finding Mark Christian on facebook, he asked about you then just sent me this news. David was a prince; a remarkable, kind and loving person. I am SO SORRY. Please call our restaurant in Seattle. I would love to reconnect with you for many many reasons. Your roomie and friend. Dawn www.ThatsAmoreSeattle.com. Just ask our staff for Paul and/or my cellphone.

Robyn

July 22, 2009

Dear Pam, Michelle and Alysha,
I just found out this last weekend that your husband and father had passed away. I knew Dave from when he was in High School. He came to our school his senior year. Even back then everybody loved him. Wherever he went, he always had a bunch of friends and they were always heading out for some adventure. I was very sad to hear of his death. It seemed he had had a hard childhood yet never complained. When I got home and was able to google his name and find out what had happened and read all the entries from you and his friends I felt better seeing how much he was loved by you and hearing how happy he was. My prayers are with you all.

Pam Hartley

June 5, 2009

My Dearest Love,
For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.
David, I thnk about you a thousand times a day, everyday. I couldn't let today go by without saying Happy 21st Anniversary.
I am grateful and blessed that you chose me as your wife.
I love you and until we meet again...
Love, Pam

June 4, 2009

Alysha Hartley

May 31, 2009

Dad,
You said I could do anything I set my mind to. I don't know if you realized how much those words influenced me and continue to influence me now. Even now when I try something new or dream of doing something different, I hear your strong, encouraging voice cheering me on. And it's true, I can do anything I set my mind to, because I have a dad who believed in me & taught me to believe in myself. I love you dad, happy father's day

Always in our hearts Big John!

May 30, 2009

I love you forever, daddy

May 30, 2009

I love & miss you dad

May 30, 2009

Angela Chan

May 19, 2009

Pam.
My condolences and deepest sympathies are with you. Although I have never met Dave I know that the both of you have raised 2 truly beautiful and amazing daughters. I send my love and peace to you and your family.

Brian Williams

May 7, 2009

Pam & family, I work in the UK for Marshall Aerospace and have been working with Dave for the past three years on a project and in fact was only in AASC visiting Dave in early April. I think I speak for everyone at MA when saying that Dave was a wonderful man who was a pleasure to work with. He was ever helpful, with a lovely manner and sense of humour. It was a pleasure to know and work with him and I consider him not only as a person I knew through work but also as a friend. Everyone at MA who knew Dave would like to send their sympathies and let you know that he and you and your family are still in their thoughts.

A Yu

April 30, 2009

Pam

I am so sorry to hear about your loss. Wish you, Alysha & Michelle all find peace in knowing that Dave will forever be with you in your heart.

Tony

Rex Bergsma

April 28, 2009

Dear Hartley family,
I am the youngest brother of John Bergsma who perished in the same accident with your husband and dad. I think we share a similar grief together right now, as we have lost men we loved so much. I did not know Dave, but John said many things about the guy down the street in the Victorian home and what a great pilot and friend he was. I wish you all, the very best and hope you can find the peace that your hearts are seeking at this time. If I can be of help to you, please contact me anytime.

Al Sandstrom

April 27, 2009

Pam,
Please accept my heartfelt condolences to you and your family. As you know, Dave and I were flying friends for years, as well as hunting and fishing partners. Like everyone who knew Dave, I will never forget his skills as a pilot and his generosity as a friend...

Ed DeHerrera

April 27, 2009

Pam.

I am really sorry for you and your family for the recent accident that your husband Dave had. I have always known you to be very caring and compassionate in your career of helping people help themselves. I am sure your spirit is a reflection of your happiness in your personal life with Dave and your daughters as a family. Such as Life...if I can be of any assistance to you, feel free to call me. I pray for any peace that the Lord can embrace you and your daughters with. Take care my friend.

Ed

Dan Will

April 25, 2009

Dave’s greatness in everything he did was overshadowed only by his modesty. But nothing overshadowed his love for his precious Pam, Alysha and Michelle. May you all find peace in knowing that Dave will forever be your hearts.

Nancy Hogan

April 25, 2009

Pam and Daughters:

I didn’t know Dave but I have worked with Pam for many years. She positively glowed when she spoke of her husband. They had a connection that I am sure continue. Best wishes and healing prayers are coming your way.

Nancy Hogan

April 25, 2009

Pam and Daughters.....
I didn't know Dave but I knew how much he loved Pam and his daughters. Pam would absolutely glow when speaking of Dave. It was very apparent the connection they had and I'm sure his death did not break that connection. Best wishes and lots of healing prayers are coming your way.

Kris LaPoint

April 25, 2009

I had the pleasure to work, water ski, and fly with Dave in the 1985-1992 time frame. Always a first class person, he will always be fondly remembered. Bob and I are thankful Dave was a part of our lives.

Pauli Donner

April 24, 2009

Dear Hartley Family,
I am so very sorry to hear of the accident. I only met Dave a couple of times, but knew he must be a great guy. May GOD comfort you and help you during this difficult time. You are in our prayers and if there's anything we can do for you, we're just on the other side of the airstrip.
GOD be with you always,

Wanda Thomas-Johnson

April 24, 2009

Pam you and your girls have my most deepest sympathy. remember the great times you had with Dave and and cherish them in you heart mind and soul they will make you smile and sometime cry and that is okay. I will keep you in my prayers for comfort and strength. (SETA)

Tania Quenga

April 24, 2009

My deepest regrets and sympathy for your family. I had the pleasure of meeting David and talking with him during his dental appointments at my office. I may not have known him for very long, but from what I do know he is a sweet man. He always spoke to me about his family. Never about work or day to day problems we all encounter, but always sweet words about his family. I know that there are no words that can take the pain away from losing a loved one, but do know that he is watching over all of you in heaven. Looking down with a big smile on his face, wishing he was still here with all of you, but knowing that God has plans for him..My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Tania

Kara Johnson

April 24, 2009

May beauty live on
in your memories
and bring you peace.
With Deepest Sympathy,
Kara, Dan, Brandan and Garrat Johnson

Stephanie Ward

April 24, 2009

I was so shocked and sad to hear about the accident. I work at Boeing and have worked with Dave off and on for the past 10 years or so. He was such a nice man! He was great to work with, always cheerful and helpful. I will miss him very much! I know how hard it is lose someone you love but I hope your memories will comfort you and your faith will give you strength. You are in my thoughts and prayers, Stephanie Ward Boeing Procurement Agent Seattle, WA

Brian & Cindi Dulgar

April 24, 2009

We send our blessings to your entire family. We skied with Dave in the 80's, always a good time at the lake! What a great smile! God Bless- Brian and Cindi Dulgar (El Dorado Hills CA)

Sandra Kinsey

April 24, 2009

Sometimes, people go through life unaware of the ways in which they touch the lives and hearts of others, the way you and your family have touched mine. The depth of the love and devotion that you shared and will continue to share with each other shines bright and hopeful. The girls and I are thinking of you all, a lot and will be here whenever and however you need us.

JaCiara Johnson

April 23, 2009

Pam, Alysha, and Michelle, I know my sympathies for the loss of such a great husband and father cannot take away the extent of your pain. I just want you guys to know that my mom and I are here whenever you need us. Alysha, I will come pick you up in Cal Poly anytime you need a friend or just need to get away. I will pray to God that he give you strength and healing in your tough times now and in the future. Take comfort int he fact that he was a blessing to all that met him. I love you guys.

Ginger Brunson

April 23, 2009

Pam, I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your dear husband Dave. Please know that my heart goes out to you and your daughters. I will keep you and your family in my prayers...Love Ginger

Nancy Ginesi-Hill

April 23, 2009

I am sadden by the news of Dave's passing. Dave was one of the finest Flight Instructor's and aviators American Aero Club and Flying Vikings has had the privileged to fly with. Dave will truely be missed by all of the aviation community. God Bless your family. Former American Aero Club Manager.

Mia and her pal Dave

Susan Maggy

April 23, 2009

Kimberly Isaacs

April 23, 2009

Pam, I am so saddened to hear about your loss. Take comfort in family and friends and may you gain strength through your daughters and the memories you, Dave and the girls made over the years. I will keep your family in my prayers.

Maria Steele

April 23, 2009

Hartley Women,

I know that your hearts are broken, however your sprits are strong and vibrant, because Dave’s sprit lives through the three of you. Know that I am here for you and I, along with my family will pray for your hearts to heal.

April 23, 2009

Pam, You and your daughters have my deepest sympathy in the loss of your beloved Dave. I pray the fond memories you have and God's unyielding hand will give you peace and the strength to carry on. Be comforted that your storm will pass. Love Elvina Carrington

Saundra Williams

April 23, 2009

Pam , Michelle,& Alysha

Earth has no sorrow that heaven cannot heal !!!!! To be absent from the body is to be present with the Lord !!! It is good news to know that Dave is in heaven........He was adored by all who met him and most of all he know how much you guys loved him !!!! I will keep you in my prays and remember I love you !!!!

Saundra Williams & Family

Jamie Liu

April 23, 2009

Dear Auntie Pam, Alysha, and Michelle - I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. My prayers are with you and your family. I know that Uncle Dave loved you all very much. May God provide you with strength and comfort in this time. Please let me know if there's anything I can do.

Esther Swink

April 23, 2009

Gurl,
My heart goes out to you, Alysha & Michelle. You all were Dave's world and visa versa. May you treasure all of the wonderful memories that you had, and hold them close to your hearts, as that can never be taken away. Sending you great big hugs and love! I'm always here for YOU Gurl!

With Love,
Esther, Greg, Stephanie, Josh & Justin

Marjorie Schirling

April 23, 2009

Pam - my thoughts are with you during this devastating time. I am so sorry for your loss...

Melanie Klinkamon

April 23, 2009

Pam: My thoughts and prayers our with you, Alysha and Michelle. You once gave me comforting advice while dealing with the loss of my father/sister-you shared that time will heal and good memories will remain. You too have many memories to cherish. If there is anything I can do, let me know.

Rosalind bolden

April 23, 2009

Serenity, warmth, belonging, contentment, beauty and tons of Love is what your home was to me. In the mist of all that your home was to me was Dave. Remember that this will never change because when you step into your gate, all the love that he had within himself for you and the girls is a force that can't be broken. Love you guys - Roz

Walter Lott

April 23, 2009

Pam

We share your loss, grief and pain. May God give you strength and may His love be with you and your family always.

We are always there for you.

With deepest sympathies
Walter, YuPing and Tongtong

Derrick Mullin

April 23, 2009

Pam, Alysha and Michelle. We are very sorry to hear of your loss. Dave was a very special person and he will always have a place in our hearts. Please do not hesitate to call Jennifer or me if we can help with something now or in the future.

Staci Foster

April 23, 2009

Pam, please know my thoughts and prayers are with you and your daughters during this difficult time. I will be praying for you and your family....Staci Foster

12/4/08 Dave, Michelle & Pam

April 23, 2009

Patty Perez

April 23, 2009

Dear Pam, You and Dave have raised two beautiful youg ladies who will go on to do wonderful things in thier lives! I know no words I say will ease your pain. I just want to let you know that if you need me day or night I will be there.

Laurie Nickerson

April 23, 2009

Pam: I am so sorry for your loss. You and your daughters are in my thoughts and prayers.

Darlene Conway

April 23, 2009

Pam,
My prayers and thoughts are with you, Alysha and Michelle. I'm so sorry for your loss. Please let me know if I can help you in any way.

Darlene Boriack

April 23, 2009

Pam, Alysha, Michelle - So very, very saddened by your loss. Dave was very special to our family just like the three of you are. Know that you are loved and thought of more then you will ever know. Dave was a giver and a teacher. He will always be remembered and forever missed. So thankful that Dave was a part of our lives.

Dave Mason

April 23, 2009

Pam, Alysha, Michelle - Dave was so loved by everybody who knew him. He was a great man, a true gem. I will be forever grateful for the time I got to spend with him. He touched many lives. Always be proud of him. I'm very sorry and saddened for your loss, but glad we all got to know him. What a gift he was. So long Dave. May your new wings fly as well upside down as rightside up...

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