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Thomas Gilliard Obituary

Warwick, NY

Thomas J. Gilliard of Warwick, passed away at home on June 30, 2009. He was 74 years old.

Born November 23, 1934 in Queens, Richmond Hills, he was the son of the late Edward J., and Elizabeth (Johannes) Gilliard. He was married to Ruth (nee Zimmer) for fifty years.

Mr. Gilliard served with the U.S. Army during the Viet Nam War and was a 24-year member of the National Guard. He was a Machinist with Domino Sugar Company in Brooklyn. He was a parishioner of St. Stephen's R.C. Church.

A family statement reads: "Tommy was a very loving husband, father, grandfather and great-grandfather. He will be remembered as hard-working and strong, but mostly as a "character" who was always the life of the party. He will be dearly missed."

Survivors include his wife, Ruth Gilliard; his children: Theresa Gilliard-Cook and her husband, Bruce of Baldwinsville, Laurence Gilliard and his companion, Radhames Mejia of N.Y.C., Bryan Gilliard and his wife, Robyn of Concord, NC, Thomas Gilliard and his wife, Kelly of Warwick, Eileen Childers and her husband, Jeffrey of Harrisburg, NC, and Jennifer Gilliard of Warwick; 13 grandchildren: Christopher and his wife, Tiffany, Victoria, Catherine, Samantha, Sabrina, Emily, Brittney, Alexandra, Rebecca, Bianca, Elizabeth, Kyle, and Bella; two great-grandchildren, Tristan and Zander; many nieces and nephews, whom he loved.

Visitation will be Friday, July 3, from 2-4 and 7-9 p.m. at Lazear-Smith & Vander Plaat Memorial Home, 17 Oakland Ave., Warwick; 845-986-4331.

Funeral Mass will be at 10 a.m. on Saturday, July 4, at St. Stephen's R.C. Church, followed by interment in Orange County Veterans Cemetery.

Memorial donations may be sent to Hospice of Orange & Sullivan Counties, Inc., 800 Stony Brook Ct., Newburgh, NY 12550 or Alzheimer's Assn., 2 Jefferson Plaza, Ste. 203, Poughkeepsie, NY 12601.

For further information, directions or to send condolences, please visit www.lsvpmemorialhome.com.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Times Herald-Record on Jul. 1, 2009.

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Debbie Ellingworth

July 8, 2009

Theresa (and family)
So sorry to hear about your Dad. I hope you find comfort during this time of sadness and bring happy memories to your hearts. Prayers and Love,

Jim Russell

July 2, 2009

Theresa and family,

I'm very sorry for your loss. Please know that my thoughts abd prayers are with you all at this time.

Stan Gauris

July 2, 2009

Theresa

I'm so sorry to hear of your lost. Our Prayers and thoughts are with you.

Carol (Gelinas) Letts

July 1, 2009

Tom, Eileen and Family,

My prayers and thoughts are with you. Wishing you all peace and comfort.

Kris Vassilatos

July 1, 2009

Tom, Bryan, Eileen and Family:
Sorry to hear of your loss - you are in my prayers and thoughts. Know you are loved and be strong. May a celebration of his life make this moment in time easier.

Darlene Daios

July 1, 2009

Dearest Gillard Family ,
So sorry to hear of your loss .
May the memories and comfort of friends and family carry you through this tough time .
Darlene

Ann Marie (Kenny) Barnum

July 1, 2009

Dear Gilliard Family, I am so sorry to hear of Mr. Gilliard's passing. I know you all have volumes of happy memories as do I. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.

Denise (Crover) Neilson

July 1, 2009

Love you all. Thinking and praying for each of you and hoping you can move forward to the next chapter with happy memories of the good times you shared with your dad adn husband. Always, Denise

Darlene Daios

July 1, 2009

Dearest Gillard family ,
So sorry to hear of your loss .
May many wonderful memories carry you through these next fews days and all that follow .
Warmest thoughts
Darlene

Kim Russell-Lijo

July 1, 2009

Jennifer-

I am sorry to hear of the passing of your father. God bless your family.

Kim

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