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Jules Rivera Obituary

Retired Major Jules Caesar Rivera, Jr., a Havelock resident, entered eternal rest with the Lord on Sunday, Jan. 14, 2007, surrounded by his family at Duke University Medical Center. Jules Rivera loved his God, children, and country. A Mass will be held at 10 a.m. Saturday at Annunciation Catholic Church, Havelock. The burial will follow at St. Joseph's Cemetery, New Bern. He was a long standing parishioner of Annunciation Catholic Church where his children were well educated. In his later years, he fulfilled some life-long desires of traveling to Israel and Mejegoria, in pursuit of expanding his Catholic Faith. Born a northerner from Brooklyn, N.Y. in 1932, he became a southern gentleman. He is survived by four sons, Daniel, Michael, and Pete of Greenville, and William and wife, Wendy, Rivera of Virginia. His son Jules Rivera III passed on Sept. 27, 2006. Additionally, five daughters remain, Teresa and Gilda of Charleston, S.C., Evelyn Rivera of Burlington, Shirley Rivera and husband, Edwin, of San Juan, Puerto Rico, and Mercedes Rivera of Havelock. His legacy includes fourteen grandchildren, Alex, Chaz, Joey, Anthony, Felicia, Amber, Josh, Rachael, Caleb, Christian, Noah, Brielle, Paul, and Corey. Jules Rivera is also survived by two sisters, Sylvia Rosete of Florida and Liz Rodriguez of New Jersey; and former wife of 26 years: Ileana Gouras. His productivity extended to an illustrious military career. "Semper Fi" Jules was a loyal servant in the Marine Corps for 25 years. Enlisting in 1949, fresh out of high school, he served in the Korean War, First Battalion, Fifth Marines infantry. In 1958, he was tapped for officer training, in Quantico, Va. He served two tours of duty during the Vietnam War. The first as a member of the Second Battalion, Third Marines Infantry and the second with the Special Landing Force. During his dedicated career with the Marines, he was wounded in action in both wars earning two Purple Hearts and other awards to numerous to mention. Before retiring in 1974, Major Rivera concluded his military career as the Company Commander of M.W.H.G. He also was an undercover CIA Interpreter in the Middle East, having been fluent in seven languages, and finally he also served as a U.S. Marshall. Combining his war benefits, he obtained four and 7/8 degrees. While teaching at World University, he obtained a degree in Philosophy in 1975; Bachelor's in History from SUNY in 1978; M.A. and Ed.S. in Education from East Carolina University from 1983-4. His capstone would have been the completion of a six-year pursuit of a PhD from the College of Education at NCSU in Raleigh. He resided and worked in Raleigh for a ten year period at the N.C. State Department of Crime Control and Public Safety until his second retirement in 1992. Visitation will be from 7 - 9 p.m. Friday at Cotton Funeral Home on Neuse Blvd. All surviving family, friends, and loved ones will miss him dearly, forever. In lieu of flowers, the family respectfully requests that donations be forwarded, in memory of Jules C. Rivera, Jr., to the Annunciation Catholic School Scholarship Fund, P.O. Box 720 Havelock, NC 28532. Arrangements by Cotten Funeral Home & Crematory.

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Published by The Daily Reflector on Jan. 18, 2007.

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Rachael Jones

January 26, 2007

Hey grandpa! Wow i dont really know what to say so ill guess ill start with i loved so much and im really going to miss you. You were a great man and led a great life and have some really awesome children and grand-children. You may be gone but you will never be forgotton. I love you so much! Rest in peace now. You deserve it! :) Love from all your grandkids!

Dr. Susan Spivey

January 23, 2007

Rest in peace my dear friend and colleague. I will miss you.
Dear Jules's family,
My deepest sympathy to you. Jules was a wonderful man and a blessing to many. Peace of Christ be with you all.

Sharon Walker

January 23, 2007

Dear family of Major Rivera,
You have my sincere sympathy at the death of your loved one. After reading the obituary, I can better appreciate the very special person he was. I've met Gilda and know Teresa so well. I now understand where their depth of faith comes from. I have every hope that God and Mayor Rivera's faith in him will carry you through this difficult time.
God Bless You All,
Sharon Walker

Evelyn Rivera

January 22, 2007

Miss you Dad.
Thank you for all the Love/Wisdom, your inner strength, jokes, and most of all your love of God.

Robert Serow

January 22, 2007

The Department of Educational Leadership and Policy Studies at NC State University extends its sympathy to the family of our student, colleague, and friend, Jules Rivera. Jules was a learned man with wide-ranging interests and a generous spirit. He made lasting contributions through his own research on veterans' education
and through the insights and experiences he shared during his years of study with us. We will miss him.

Lianne Thayne

January 22, 2007

Jules was an inspiration to everyone around him. He willingly shared his thoughts, ideas, and experiences and those memories will live on with me as well as the perseverance he showed. Please accept my sincere sympathy in your loss. Jules will be deeply missed.

Audrey McCoy

January 22, 2007

Jules was such a great classmate at NCSU. My thoughts and prayers are with the entire Rivera family.

Wayne Price

January 20, 2007

Jules was a gentleman as well as a scholar. I was fortunate enought to enjoy his company during several classes at NCSU. His passion and humor will be missed . My thoughts and prayers are with his family and friends.

Katrenna Rich

January 20, 2007

I would like to offer my condolences to the entire family of Jules Rivera. He was a wonderful man. It was always a joy to walk into class at NCSU and discover that Jules was there taking the same course. He was a constant symbol of inspiration and wisdom. May God continue to bless his family.

Mike Yoder

January 19, 2007

As we worked to complete our degrees at NCSU, Jules was the eternal student, seeking knowledge for the enrichment it brought to his life and in that journey he enriched ours. Thank you Sir!

Michael Putney

January 19, 2007

I had the pleasure of meeting Jules while we worked on our doctorates at NCSU. He was an outstanding guy. I extent sincerest sympathy to the Rivera family.

Michelle Windle

January 19, 2007

Jules Rivera was a wonderful and caring man. I am saddened to hear of his passing. He and I shared several classes at NCSU, and I was in awe of his intelligence and vast life experiences. He was a kind and gentle soul with a delightful sense of humor. My most sincere condolences to the Rivera family.

Dewayne Branch

January 19, 2007

Jules, You are a hero!!!!
I will miss you my friend!!!!

Kenneth Brinson

January 19, 2007

My thoughts and prayers are with Jules' family. His lifelong pursuit of learning, the many lives that he touched through his warmth and wisdom, and his quick humor will be sorely missed . . . but they serve as an inspiration to those of us who had the privelege of knowing him and working with him.

Jim Rider

January 19, 2007

Jules and I went back to when he was a SSgt and I was a Sgt.We went to Canisus College together, until Jules went back on active duty in order to attempt to fight in the Hungarian uprising. Jules was a real warrior, and saw heavy fighting in Korea and Viet Nam. Jules never waivered in his faith in God and was an inspiration for us others. His loss must be very hard right now, but keep in mind that he is with our risen Lord. God bless you, and you are in our prayers, and I am sure that you are in Jules' powerful prayers, eyeball to eyeball with our Lord.

Marla Sanders

January 19, 2007

To the Rivera Family.
I am deeply sorry for your loss. Jules Rivera was a wonderful classmate and friend. He will truly be missed. You all are in my thoughts and prayers.

Paula Brown

January 18, 2007

It was an honor to have worked with Jules at the NC Division of Emergency Management in the 80's and 90's. He often made me smile. What a gift!

Linda Ervin

January 18, 2007

To the Rivera Jr. family,
I did not know your father nor any of you; yet I would have been
honored to have known him. Your
father must have been so loved by
you and you by him. God bless all
of you in the loss of a wonderful
gentleman.

Regards,
Linda,Durham,NC

Lillian Mercedes Rivera

January 18, 2007

We will miss you dearly, Dad.

Elaine Wathen

January 18, 2007

I am sorry for your loss. I worked with Jules for a number of years at the North Carolina Division of Emergency Management. He was a good person, kind and generous. And he was a true gentleman.

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