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Brett Jaffe Obituary
March 8, 1971
July 15, 2012
USMC Sergeant, Brett Michael Jaffe, of Reno was taken from the world on Sunday, July 15, 2012 in a boating accident at Boca Reservoir. Brett was born in Seattle, Washington on March 8, 1971. Brett served with distinction in the United States Marine Corp. for eleven years. While stationed in Reno Brett met the love of his life -- Betsy (Elizabeth) Jaffe. Brett and Betsy were married on March 6, 2005 - she was his one "true north". Brett was a licensed realtor for many years and was pursuing his passion for cooking while enrolled at TMCC's culinary school. Brett lived life to the fullest every day. He and Betsy enjoyed traveling the globe, jet skiing, snowmobiling, hiking, snowboarding, dirt biking, motorcycling, golfing and so much more. Brett was an amazing husband, son, brother, friend, and Marine.
Brett is survived by his loving wife, Dr. Betsy (Elizabeth) Jaffe, his father and step-mother Richard and Cheryl Jaffe, his mother and step-father Briana and Richard Long, his brothers -- Dustin Long, Justin Jaffe, Justin Beck, sisters --Cambria Jaffe, Jodi Mack, Ally Jaffe, and Gretchen Bergemann. He is also survived by his brothers and sisters in the Marine Corps, his colleagues and many friends. Brett lived an extraordinary life and had no regrets. He is a hero.
A Full Military Honors Service will be held Thursday, July, 19, 2012 at Grace Church on Robb Dr at 2:00 pm. A Celebration of Life will follow. In lieu of flowers, the family requests that donations, in Brett's name, be made to the Disabled American Veterans; P.O. Box 14301, Cincinnati, OH, 45250-0301, Attention: Gift Processing.
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Memories and Condolences
for Brett Jaffe
Traci Kelly
July 12, 2021
Thinking of you all
justina chavez
August 16, 2012
dr jaffe so sorry about your loss i dont know you personally but i know frenz who do
CWO2 Eric Tanner
August 16, 2012
Mrs Jaffe, I am So Sorry for your loss and the loss to the Marine Corps, I served with Brett in Reno for a few years and he was a True Friend and Outstanding Marine!! He will be Missed Greatly!! My Familys Thoughts and Prayers are with you!
Shirlene Wallace
August 13, 2012
Dr. Jaffe, you saw me today while I was talking about my daughter and being a police officer and you said we need people like that. We also need people like you. Be strong. Deepest Sympathies
Rick and Joanie Stoltz
August 10, 2012
Dr. Jaffe, we just learned today of your husband's passing and are so very sorry for your loss. We think the world of you and know that Brett must have been very special for him to capture your heart. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. Fondly, Joanie and Rick Stoltz
August 10, 2012
Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always.
August 4, 2012
Dr. Jaffe we just saw this on a post on FB...we had NO IDEA! We are both so very very sorry for your loss! Your eyes lit up each and every time you spoke of him and I know your love will see you through! Please know that our hearts and prayers are with you!
Steve and Christine Tierney
August 3, 2012
Semper Fi Marine, RIP
Dk Raines
August 2, 2012
Rest In Peace Sgt. Jaffe Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your loved ones.
From One Marine to Another
Semper Fidelis Brother
August 1, 2012
Brett Jaffe, one of the finest Marines and men I ever served with. I am truly saddened at his passing.
Semper Fidelis brother.
Sean Lunn
Chuck Bristor
July 31, 2012
Dr Jaffe we are so sorry for your loss and you are in our prayers.
Chuck and Dianna Bristor
Hollie Bruton
July 31, 2012
Dr. Jaffe,
I am so sorry for your loss. Only time will ease the pain. You're in my thoughts. Stay strong and know that you're loved.
Your friend and patient,
Hollie
Angelique Ybarra
July 30, 2012
My prayers are with you Dr. Jaffe. Words can't express how deeply and truly sorry I am for your loss. I am sending all my prayers your way. And I hope (when the time is right, to see you again you're a great doc!) take care.
Patricia Strong
July 30, 2012
My Dearest Friend, and Dr,
I want you to know that Our Love is with you today and everday, We was so sorry to hear about Brett, Please try to remember that he is in a Much Better Place, and his Love will always be With You,Never Forget That!!! He Loved You With All His Heart And Soul That Is Something No One Can Take From YOU My Friend !!! God Bless You Sweetheart!! You are A Very Special Doctor And Lady, We All Love You, God Bless You!!!
Lindsey Mckinnon
July 28, 2012
Our condolences to our favorite doc. As compassionate a person as you are, you must of picked a wonderful man. So sorry for your loss. Thinking of you and sending love your way.
Farrah Eells
July 27, 2012
Hey girl , we love u so very much and stand behind you .. u are the best doctor our family has ever had the pleasure of having.. get some Brett..get some
Jeannie (Yee) Farnsworth
July 26, 2012
My condolences to you Betsy. I'm sorry for your loss but know you will be together forever again.
Molly Wheeler
July 26, 2012
Elizabeth,
I am so sorry for your loss...My heart and prayers go out to you .
Molly Wheeler
Karel Kidder
July 25, 2012
Going thru hardships with the recession means nothing compared to losing your special someone. My husband means the world to me and we have boated and jet ski'd many times on Boca. My heart goes to you and may you find peace in the incredible memories that Brett has shared with you. Bless you.
Cambria Jaffe
July 25, 2012
I love you Brett with all my heart. You were an amazing brother and I know that you are protecting us in Heaven as you did here on Earth.
Ted & Rhonda Elwell
July 24, 2012
We are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Zellers
July 23, 2012
Betsy,
We are deeply sorry to hear about Brett. He was a vibrant and talented soul. Remembering you, your family, and Brett in our thoughts and in our prayers.
Sara and Ryan
July 22, 2012
A good man was taken from us.
Mary McCollum
July 21, 2012
My thoughts & prayers are with you.... may God give you comfort & peace that only He can give at a time like this. This was sent to me by a friend when my husband died unexpectedly 02/04/10 so I'm sharing it with you. Take care & God Bless..... "Mary" - McCollum - (Mona Hausauer's Friend & Erin Hausauer's Godmother).
To my dearest family:
Some things I'd like to say...but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay... I'm writing this from heaven.... Here I dwell with God above. Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight. Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night. That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,God picked me up and hugged me and He said, ""I welcome you. It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on. I need you here badly; you're part of my plan. There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do and foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you... And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight....God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears...But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain...Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned...But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand...But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er...I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb; but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain, then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low, just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go...When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind..I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free, remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2012
July 21, 2012
Brett
You are loved and missed. Thank you for making the world a little brighter and for being so great to your wife. Your faith was admirable and I know you are with God, watching over.
July 21, 2012
My prayers and thoughts are with you.God is with both of you.Please take care Love Gina Biglin
Carrie McCargar
July 20, 2012
So sorry for your loss Dr. Jaffe, our family is praying for you. You are a wonderful woman and a great doctor. HUGS!! Jeff, Carrie, and Hayley McCargar.
David Sweeney
July 19, 2012
Dear Dr. Jaffe,
I was so saddened to hear of your loss from another patient who is my client.
I can relate to your experience, and please know that you are loved and prayed for on a regular basis. My prayer is that the Holy Spirit will hold you and yours in His arms to comfort and encourage you.
We, as your patients, appreciate you so much!
In His love,
David Sweeney
Louise Odegaard
July 19, 2012
Dr. J...
He's alright....he and Donna are skiing and later they're going for a couple of beers!
I was so sad to hear of this...but he will be with you forever and will send you signs to say it's okay. You are in my heart.
Anthony and Maureen Cooper
July 19, 2012
AS I STATED ON FACEBOOK, IM SOOOO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS! YOU ARE AN AMAZING DOCTOR AND PERSON! WE MISS YOU DEARLY AND EVEN THOUGH WE NEVER MET BRETT WE KNOW HE WAS GREAT IF HE WAS WITH YOU! LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU! HUGS FROM THE COOPER FAM!
Karen Selbach, UNSOM-FM
July 19, 2012
Betsy and Family: Our heartfelt sympathies are with you all. We are sending strength, prayers, love and hugs your way. SEMPER FI. Staff Sgt. Dewey Selbach (USMC RET), Staff Sgt.Michael Selbach (USMC RET)
Tami/Greg Week
July 19, 2012
Dr J - even though I didnt meet Brett, the way you gushed about him made my heart smile. We pray for you during this tragedy, and wish you all the smiles and hugs you need.
Katherine Miller
July 19, 2012
Dr. Jaffe, I along with mutual friends and family are so sorry for your loss. You are deeply loved by all of us. You are in our prayers.
jay ramage
July 19, 2012
Betsy, I wish I had some words to help you through these tough times. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Tina Huber
July 19, 2012
Betsy, I am so, so sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts.
July 19, 2012
Dr. Jaffe, My deepest regret for your loss. We, Skeeter and I send you our love and prayers.
Martha
July 19, 2012
I only met Brett once, but I could tell he was a genuine stand up guy. Thoughts prayers, and wishes to Betsy and all involved.
Gay Kennedy
July 19, 2012
Dr. Jaffe you are in my thoughts and prayers. I'm so sorry for your loss. Prayers to you and your family during this difficult time.
Shaun Guardanapo
July 19, 2012
I served with Brett Jaffe. He was a great Marine, Great person, and Great roll model, I am glad to have known and served with such an amazing person. My prayers go out to his friends and family, RIP Brett, Semper Fi!
Diana Warschauer
July 19, 2012
Betsy... you are such an amazing person that i feel so blessed to know. I know we haven't had the opportunity to "hang out" as we had in the past as life, as they say, gets "in the way" and everyone gets too busy. Please know that i will never be too busy for you. You were there for Ed and I through his terrible unexpected loss. , please let us be there for you now, in your time of need. We love you so much, and you are in our prayers
Gunnery Sergeant Lionel Benoit
July 19, 2012
Sincere condolences to Brett's family. His Marine brothers have lasting memories.
Laurie Warren
July 19, 2012
Dr. Jaffe I am so sorry for your loss. You are always in my prayers.
Austin Hofmeister
July 19, 2012
I served with Sgt. Jaffe. He was a true Marine and gentelmen I am saddend by his passing. My prayers go out to his friends and family. Semper Fi
Elena Haag
July 19, 2012
Dr Jaffe, you have been in my thoughts and prayers. There are no words to express my condolences and how sorry I am for your sudden loss. I did not know Brett very well at all but what I do know is every time that I did see him come around the office he was always very nice, had smile on his face, and was always joking around making us laugh. I could tell he was good people. I know your world will never be the same and again Im sorry loss. Prayers to you and your family to help you get thru this difficult time. GOD BLESS
July 19, 2012
Dr. Jaffe, we are so very sorry for your loss,you were there for me when my mom passed! If there is anything we can do please let me know! You are In my thoughts and prayers! Sue & John Davies
Pamela Minks
July 18, 2012
Dr Jaffe - so sorry to hear of your loss are thoughts are with you
Bruce Bannister
July 18, 2012
Betsy,
I am so sorry to hear about Brett. I will remember him as he was described in his obituary. He was a stand up guy and a man we can all be proud of. Bruce Bannister
Stacy O'Brien
July 18, 2012
Betsy(Dr.Jaffe) and Family... We were sad to hear about your loss of Brett... We love you and we are here for you always... Love Always Stacy,Sean,Spencer,Parker and Brock...
Diane, Kerry Lomax
July 18, 2012
We were very sorry to hear about the loss of Brett I have so many wonderful memories of him when he was growing up in Kelowna B.C. Briana, Richard and the kids lived across the street from us, he was very high spirted as a young boy but turned into one of the best babysitters we ever had and a wonderful man. Our deepest sympathy to the family at this sad time.
Karina Ayala
July 18, 2012
Brett, everybody is going to miss you around the office. I had a great time with you and Dr Jaffe last week, I just wish we could've done more things together. Dr Jaffe, I have you in my prayers and we miss you.
Helen Garcia
July 18, 2012
Brett you will be missed! You impacted us with such warmth, laughter, fun and joy. I am glad i got the chance to know you even though it was only for a short time. Thank You for the great and fun times we all had together. We will always love you and Betsy!
John Harvey
July 18, 2012
Brett, a man like you should not have been taken so early. Your strength and joy for life will be missed.
Cindy Lehr
July 18, 2012
Elizabeth and Family....I am devastated by your loss of Brett..You have been there for me and I wish I could ease your pain as you helped with mine. He will be at your side forever and hopefully he will find my Brett and ride freely in the winds....
Catherine McCarthy
July 18, 2012
I'm so glad that I got to know Brett. His energy and enthusiam were contagious. We always had fun with you guys! Lots and lots of love
Jason and Judy Crawford
July 18, 2012
Betsy and family, Our sympathies for your loss. Brett will be missed.
Graciano Amezola
July 18, 2012
Fair Winds and Following Seas my Brother. You will be missed but never forgotten. Until we meet again...
Renee & Mark Stilley
July 18, 2012
It hurts to hear he is gone but what comforts me is knowing Brett was out having fun on that day and smiling that huge smile that amplified his very thoughts across his face. Remembering Brett with laughter in his eyes, his legacy will live on in each of us.
Jeanne Davies
July 18, 2012
You will be missed Brett! Having known you for the past 5 years of salon visits! Your presence was always welcomed here you always made me laugh! May god bles you and your Family!!
Stephen Padar and Family
July 18, 2012
Our prayers and condolences to you and your family.
July 18, 2012
I served with Sgt Jaffe over ten years ago at Camp Pendleton, CA. I was deeply saddened by the news of his passing from another member of our old platoon. My heart goes out to family and friends.
-Semper Fi, R. Potter, NY
Frankie Vigil
July 18, 2012
Dear. Dr. Jaffe,
You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Frankie Vigil
Shanae, John and Caitlyn Petersen
July 18, 2012
Dear Dr. Jaffe,
My heart is breaking for you. Please know that you will always be in my thoughts and prayers. Though I first met you as a patient, you have become a great friend and I am so, so sorry for your loss. Someone who is so caring and beautiful should not have to experience this. Brett was such a fun, kind, and wonderful husband and friend to you, I cannot imagine what you are feeling. Please accept John's,Caitlyn's and my deepest condolences. We all love and pray for you.
Kitty Glantz
July 18, 2012
Betsy, My heart aches for you. You are in my thoughts and prayers during this sad time. I hope your memories give you some comfort.
Dabney Mueller
July 18, 2012
Brett, you will be greatly missed. You are one of the best people I have ever known.
Linda Wicksten
July 18, 2012
Dear Dr. Jaffe and family,
I am so very sorry for your loss. No one knows how you feel but I do understand what you're going through, and if I can help in any way or you want to talk call me.
With love and sympathy,
Linda
July 18, 2012
Betsy,
I only had the privilege of meeting Brett once in 2005, Hawaii. He and my husband Eric had worked together at 1st AD. I liked him immediately and enjoyed his company so much! He was all the rave about you at the time. I new that he was so blessed to have gotten you and he new it to. I was excited for his future and relished in reading about his adventures on FB. I cried very much when I heard about his passing. We mourn with you and for you. Were we not stationed in Europe and engaged in a deployment we would be there! Our thoughts are with you.
- Eric and Candice Crump
July 18, 2012
I am sorry for your loss, my thoughts are with you always. He will be missed. Traci Kelly
Ray Harden
July 18, 2012
Mrs. Jaffe
Loving memories never die,
As years roll on and days pass by.
In our hearts a memory is kept,
Of Brett we loved and will never forget
Benette Espinoza
July 18, 2012
I've said it before you were a wonderful person and I can't remember a day you did not smile or make me laught. I thank you for being in my life even if it was only for a little over 3 years. I will always be there for Betsy. Not sure how we will make sure to eat lunch with out you walking in with jimmy johns. I miss and love you. I'm glad to have an angel on my side just wish it was not so early. We will meet again
My friend.
July 18, 2012
Dr. Jaffe - we are so sorry for your loss! Curtis & Shannon Martell
July 18, 2012
i can't believe you're gone!!!! you will be missed and your legacy will go on........ who is going to IM me "get to work slacker".... much love always buddy!
tawny kline
Judy Ricioli
July 18, 2012
Dr. Jaffe, So sorry to hear of your sudden loss. You are in my prayers.
July 18, 2012
Dear Dr. Jaffe: So sorry to hear of your loss. Our hearts are with you. Cordelia and Russell Dunfield
Jen Eastwood
July 18, 2012
I'll always remember your smile Brett. You truly enjoyed life and loved greatly. I'm thankful for the chance to have gotten to know you over the last few years.
Britni Sather
July 18, 2012
Brett was a wonderful man . I have been cutting Brett's hair for over two years now . This breaks my heart . RIP . You are loved and will be more than missed !
Gretchen Bergemann
July 18, 2012
I think anyone who was lucky enough to know you considered you their best friend. I don't know how we are supposed to keep going without you. It's devastating to know I will never hear your voice and have you to confine in and comfort me. You've always taken care of us and I will take care of Betsy but we will never stop missing you. I love you so much my brother and best friend and I feel so very fortunate to have had you in my life and honored by how much you loved us all. I love you forever and always.
Betsy Jaffe
July 18, 2012
I love you so much. There are so many people that miss you. You touched so many lives and we all remember how you made us smile. I never imagined this would happen. Still in shock and forever deeply in love with you.
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