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Cynthia Backus Obituary

Cynthia Ann Frink Backus, 53, of Cloverdale, went to be with the Lord on Friday, December 17, 2010. She was preceded in death by her father, Dewey Wright and one son, Chadwick Frink. Cynthia was a member of Daleville Church of the Brethren and is survived by two sons, Timothy Frink and his wife, Nicole, Matthew Frink; five grandchildren, Hunter, Hannah, Hayden, Harmon, Kayla; her mother, Peggy Wright; three brothers, Timothy Wright and his wife, Terry, Kevin Wright and his wife, Kim, Craig Wright and his wife, Tina; and several nieces and nephews. A memorial service will be held at 7 p.m. on Wednesday, December 22, 2010 at Oakey's East Chapel with the Rev. Clyde Carter, Rev. Mary Cline Detrick, and Rev. Tom Powers officiating. The family will receive friends on Wednesday from 6 to 7p.m. prior to the memorial service at Oakey's East Chapel, 540-977-3909.

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Published by Roanoke Times from Dec. 19 to Dec. 21, 2010.

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Vickie Thurston

December 31, 2010

Timothy and Matthew, Can't find the words I want to say to you guys. I lost my mom on December 17th, 23 years ago. So young to lose our mom, just like you. Cindy was like a ray of sunshine, beautiful eyes and smile. The most nicest person anyone could ever meet. Great neighbors for 20+ years. You guys were her life - - I could tell that the first time I meet her. Praying for you both (and family) that God will comfort you every single minute and your sorrow will turn to happy memories. Love you guys. Love Vickie, Billy and family.

Nancy Dalton

December 30, 2010

Timothy and Matthew,
The world is at a loss without your mom,God is at a gain.You were always 1st with her and she was so positive even though her life was so hard.I was her neighbor up the street for years and work with her at Hardees.I loved your mom and sorry life seperated us.Try to focus on all the good that she was and she was.Please call me at 797-7713.

Fern Greenway Holliday

December 29, 2010

So sorry about your loss but glad that Cynthia is without pain now. Was unable to attend the service but you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Timothy Frink

December 28, 2010

Hello MOM !
This is your oldest dropping you a line to say i miss you so much ! Im sure you are up there looking down at me shouting "Suck it up" ! Well thats easier said than done. I miss you so much,words cant explain the pain and sorrow i carry for you still.You lived a very hard life and yet you alway's told me to look on the bright side of everything.Your grandchildren still ask of you daily.I just want you to know i love you and there isn't a second that doesnt go by i don't think of you.You were an inspiration to us all and the greatest mother and bestfriend a chid could ever ask for.
I LOVE YOU MOM !

Lori St.Clair Taylor

December 24, 2010

Aunt Peggy and family, what a wonderful cousin and beautiful person this family has lost. Cindy will always be in our hearts and you and her family is always in our prayers. There are so many wonderful memories of her when we were growing up. She was just like a sister. Love you all.

Carol Falls Peterson

December 22, 2010

Peggy and Family, Words cannot express how saddened we all are at the loss of Cynthia. When I think of her I see the picture my mom has of her, my brother and myself sitting on the steps of the porch in Daleville. She never changed. Always had that smile on her face. So sorry she had to endure all that she did however she can rest now. With love, Carol

December 21, 2010

It was so sad to see this. I remember Cindy during Lord Botetourt days - cheering and classes. Cindy was one of those students you remember with fond memories.
Tina Weiner (Flippin)

Ginger Sparks

December 21, 2010

God's strength and peace to Cindy's family. So sorry to hear of her passing. She will be missed by her friends and family. I will keep the family in my prayers and thoughts.

Bobbie Dollyhigh Morrison

December 20, 2010

I am so saddened to hear about the loss of Cindy. I remember doing gymnastics with her at BI. Man that girl was good! My heart is with the family. God Bless!

Robin Little Howery

December 20, 2010

I am So saddened to hear of Cindy's passing. She was a light that kept everyone around her illuminated. Even though we hadn't seen one another from high school days, you never forget someone like her. My prayers go out to her family.

Angela Italiano

December 20, 2010

Dear Peggy and Family,

We all are deeply saddended to hear of Cynthia's passing. She is with our Lord now. We pray that God will comfort you in this time of need. I have so many great memories of Cynthia and what a wonderful mother she was and always put her boys first no matter what. Cynthia always did hold a special place in my mom's heart. We will have the whole family in our prayers.

We will miss her loving smile,
Angela Goad Italiano
Warren and Nancy Goad

Heather Holdren

December 20, 2010

I miss you so much already..That contagious smile and laugh! The positive attitude over everything... You were a ray of sunshine..words cant express what a loving wonderful person you were..The most amazing mother ive ever known! Rest In Peace..I love you!

Pamela Moore (Wimmer)

December 20, 2010

I remember fondly our high school and cheer leading days. Cindy was always so full of life and kept us smiling. A sweet sweet friend and wonderful mother. Your family is our thoughts and prayers.

Kimberly Wright -Mullins

December 20, 2010

Peggy, Im so sorry about the lost of Cindy.We have not seen each other much over the years but have thought about her often and prayed for her, she will be miss by many.

Nita Eldred

December 19, 2010

Peggy and family, We are all very saddened by the news. Our thoughts and prayers are with each of you. Love to you all.

Maynard & Dot Greenway
Nita, Keiana & Kaylee Eldred

Mary Kane

December 19, 2010

Peggy my heart breaks for your loss. You know that I loved Cindy and she was such a huge part of my teen memories...all the fun we had with you and your family. I am so sorry we lost touch and I was not aware of her illness. I know you find peace knowing she is in the presence of Jesus and I will be praying for you and all of her family. She was a very special person and loved by all who knew her. I remember the day this picture was taken! She was always so beautiful inside and out.
Love in Christ,
Mary Thornton Kane
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Rock Hill SC

December 19, 2010

Aunt Peggy,

Cynthia was always such a strong person and so sweet. She will be missed by all of us. You and your family will be in our prayers.

We love you
Kathy & April Wright
Linnie and Bessie Wright and Family
Kinston,NC

Charles,Amanda,Eve Wright

December 19, 2010

Matt and Timothy
I am so very sorry for your loss. We all loved Cindy like a mother, my whole life she's been like a second mom to me. I will miss her every day. I love you guys like brothers.

Sandra Ferris

December 19, 2010

In Loving Memory of a wonderful person and friend I will never forget you or the friendship we had it was very special.I will love you always

December 19, 2010

Dear Peggy and Family,
I will never forget Cynthia's million dollar smile and her twinkling eyes. She had that special way of making you feel like you were the only person in the room. She radiated warmth and caring. She was always the cousin who came up and spoke to me no matter where we were. I thought the world of her. I cannot imagine what you all are going through, but I have prayed that God would comfort and strengthen you with the peace that only He can give. May God bless you and your family. We love you. Julie Hambrick Bell (Retta and Carl's youngest)

December 19, 2010

Sending my condolences to Peggy Wright and family.

In Deepest Sympathy,
Ruth Adams

December 19, 2010

Dear Peggy and Family,

We were deeply saddened by the loss of Cynthia. Your entire family are in our thoughts and prayers. Especially at this time of the year.

With love and prayers,
L.G. Rochelle and Sonya Graham

Donna Wheat

December 19, 2010

In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.

December 19, 2010

As pastor during Cynthia's teen years, I appreciated her energetic presence. Visiting her after she became bedfast, I appreciated her emotional energy and charm. May God bless you family members with joy for your years of sharing in the life of Cynthia.

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