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Marvin Dennis Reaser Jr.

1940 - 2024

Marvin Dennis Reaser Jr. obituary, 1940-2024, Roanoke, VA

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1940

DIED

2024

Marvin Reaser Obituary

Marvin Dennis Reaser, Jr.

Marvin Dennis Reaser, Jr. died peacefully on the morning of August 20, 2024, at the age of 84. Dennis was born on July 28, 1940, in Nitro, WV, to Artie Lda Shomo Reaser and Marvin Dennis Reaser, Sr. He was raised in St. Albans, WV, in a family of very modest means. Sometimes the only food served for dinner was "Cracker Soup" (hot water over Saltines), and the school wardrobe consisted of one shirt and one pair of pants, worn daily and laundered nightly.

Music was important in the Reaser household, and piano lessons were required for Dennis, his sister, Sally, and his brother, David. Sally loved her lessons and grew up to become an expert accompanist, piano teacher and choir director, but Dennis and David hated their lessons and wanted out. Happily, David was destined for glory on the basketball court. Dennis, however, found his escape when one of his aunts gave him a trumpet and two mouthpieces. He loved that trumpet, especially because he was able to play cowboys and Indians with the mouthpieces, which he repurposed as guns. Between Western shootouts, he discovered that he could produce a sound by blowing with pierced lips into the mouthpiece. One successful buzz led to another, and before he knew it, he was showing enough promise as a trumpet player to be released from his piano lessons, though not before his piano teacher had taken him around town on tour as a boy soprano...a sideline he was not at all inclined to discuss with the football-playing boys he hung around with.

Dennis grew into a fine musician, even on the piano, which he played by ear, eventually releasing two CDs of his playing. He was a star in the St. Albans Jr. High and High School Bands. His band director, Alan Farley, saw something special in him, a fact that would figure prominently in Dennis's future career path. In July of 1959, after one year of college, Dennis enlisted in the United States Navy. He served for four years, sailing to Africa, Saudi Arabia and the Seychelles while playing trumpet in the Navy Band. Upon his discharge from the Navy, Dennis landed two teaching jobs as band director, without having yet earned his college degree. The first was at Macedonia High School in South Carolina, and the second was at DuPont High School in West Virginia. He subsequently earned his undergraduate degree from Morris Harvey College in Charleston, WV (now the University of Charleston), and became a teacher with credentials in 1968.

In that year, his former high school band director came back on the scene. Alan Farley had moved to Salem, VA, to direct the Andrew Lewis High School Band a few years prior, and was vacating that position to move into school administration. He called up Dennis and recommended that he apply for the band director job. Dennis applied, but the position went to another candidate. The following year, however, he successfully reapplied and landed the job that would form his career for the next 30-plus years. As band director at Andrew Lewis and subsequently, Salem High, he instituted the disciplined and structured practices he picked up in the Navy. His award-winning bands were known for their student-led governance and emphasis on excellence and hard work. Throughout his tenure as Salem's high school band director, "Mr. Reaser" branched out to work on several complementary pursuits. He earned his master's degree in music composition from Radford University, played trumpet in countless gigs at The Homestead and The Greenbrier resorts with the Freddie Lee Orchestra (eventually purchasing the band and rebranding it as the Dennis Reaser Orchestra), helped bring the Drum Corps International Summer Music Games to Salem, authored the book, How to Build a Championship Marching Band, composed and arranged music for concert, jazz, and marching bands, and took coursework in school administration in order to serve as summer school principal.

In 2001, a gala at the Salem Civic Center on a day dubbed "Dennis Reaser Day" by the City of Salem, marked his retirement from Salem City Schools. Proclamations were read, and City Council presented him with a key to the City in the presence of hundreds of band alumni, family, and friends. After that memorable affair, Mr. Reaser decided he had too much gas left in his tank to settle down and play golf every day. He was pretty good at golf, but he was bad at relaxing. So he accepted the position of band director at Hargrave Military Academy, where he stayed for three years, and then moved to Kill Devil Hills, NC, to serve as assistant principal of First Flight High School for more than 10 years.

Mr. Reaser finally retired for good in 2015. He moved back to Salem and spent the remaining years of his life composing and arranging music, playing in community bands such as Winds of the Blue Ridge, the Melrose Baptist Church band, and the Gloryland Band at CommUNITY Church, hanging out at the Spartan Square Starbucks and the West Salem Lowes, and visiting with his treasured family and friends, twice flying to Los Angeles to play piano for his son's Christmas party. Dennis began suffering from an undiagnosed form of Parkinson's Disease during his final seven years, but he thought he was just getting old and feeble. He stayed a few steps ahead of the disease for a long time by willing himself to get up and walk every single day, always striving for between five and ten thousand steps.

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Published by Roanoke Times on Aug. 25, 2024.

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Cynthia Munley

April 10, 2025

Dennis Reaser had a role instilling a sense of dedication to music in my son and gave both my kids a pride in being part of the Pride of Salem. Photos of the kids in their uniforms was forbidden for some reason and the kids fiercely complied.

LEONARD FRANCIS JR

September 26, 2024

MR. REASER WAS MY BOSS AT FIRST FLIGHT HIGH SCHOOL IN KILL DEVIL HILLS HE ALWAYS TREATED ME SO NICE MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE THE FAMILY AT THIS MOST DIFFICULT TIME

Morgan Leatherwood

August 30, 2024

Mr. Reaser was both a friend and a mentor to me in high school, seeing my love for music and connecting me with some of his contacts for lessons, and sharing his compositions with me. My mom worked at our high school, so I did spend more time around him outside of school as well, hanging around the halls of FFHS after the school day ended. On more than one occasion, he shared his compositions with me, but I remember one specific instance when he pulled me out of Ms. Shipman´s english class. He was very serious, and it certainly seemed I was in trouble! When we made it to the hallway, he said "want a break?", and I went to his office to hear his compositions and have a few M&Ms before going back to class. He was a great encourager of any love for music in any student, and always a fun person to talk to. Rest easy, Mr. Reaser!

Mal Murden

August 29, 2024

I have so many fond memories of my time in highschool at FFHS. Every now and then he would slip me a $5 bill or say something to make me laugh. He brought so much joy to our halls. I will never forget those 4 yrs me and all my siblings spend with him. Sorry for this profound loss & may he rest easy.

Joel Bennett

August 29, 2024

On the week of his 64th birthday, Mr Reaser and I listened to his album along with the Beatles and he shared what inspired him about the year from their music and the music he made. Everytime I hear "when I'm 64", I think of only Mr Reaser.

Sharon Crane

August 29, 2024

Oh Dennis you will be missed. Thank you for the many many laughs and your candid personality. You were truly a bright light.

Robyn Dozier

August 29, 2024

I am the School Nurse at First Flight High School. When I started there in 2013 Dennis was my Assistant Principal...his office was right next door to mine. I went to College in WV and my family was from the Roanoke area...we had lots to talk about. I loved his sense of humor..his complete honesty..love of music..the loud trumpet! (Still have his cd) Most importantly he was a great father figure to me..and I´m sure to many students...but especially to me when my father passed.

Will never forget him walking out the door on his last day at FFHS yelling.."I´m a ROCK STAR!!" He was...RIP my friend...

Marie Etter

August 29, 2024

You sure will be missed friend! You were always so joyful and bubbly and always bragged about your family. I never met Mary, but I feel like I did as much as you talked of her. This is not good-bye, it's I'll see you later when I hear you up there playing your music. Love ya, Marie

Ashley Bahen

August 29, 2024

I´ll never forget playing golf with Dennis and he missed a hole in one on Seascape by 2 inches. I jokingly told him he had to putt it in. He never let me forget it. He has an incredible sense of humor and is so dedicated to the students in his charge. It was a great blessing to work with him for a short period of time at FFHS. Prayers to his family and friends.

Erin Gorzkowski

August 29, 2024

I am so sorry for your loss! We all remember Mr Reaser at FFHS for his joking personality and the way he could play that trumpet! I think that was my favorite thing while I was at FFHS is ALL the times we would hear him play that trumpet you will surely be missed sir! Praying for your family during this time

Lydia Harrison

August 29, 2024

I worked with Dennis at First Flight Hugh School. He often played the National Anthem at our basketball games on his trumpet. His sense of humor was unmatched. He influenced many students to give up old ways and look at themselves, striving to become what they could be. Sorry for everyone's loss. Lydia Harrison

Kara

August 29, 2024

Mr Reaser was a neighbor of mine in KDH, briefly. He seemed to always have dog treats in his pocket and loved to show me how he had taught our dog new tricks!
He always had something fantastical to say & I so loved when I had the chance to catch him during his walks!

Devin Parsons

August 29, 2024

Thank you for all you taught us. For all the laughs. You walking around the school halls with your trumpet playing your heart out. You made high school fun. Thanks for being who you are. You´ll be missed by many.

Skip Saunders

August 29, 2024

Dennis was a fine mentor to me always encouraging me to be a good, effective teacher at First Flight High School. We all will miss him.

Keep walkin´ and play on Maestro!

Kathy Davis

August 29, 2024

So sorry Mary. We thought of Dennis often. Always about Christmas with him riding the halls of FFHS on the custodian's flatbed playing Christmas songs
on his trumpet)

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Linda Saunders

August 29, 2024

Mary, I am so sorry for your loss. Dennis sounds like an amazingly talented man and had a heart for nurturing kids to bring out their talents. My thought and prayers are with you and your family.

Jessica Compton

August 26, 2024

He was my high school band director, but he was also a sweet and caring man. I will never forget when my little brother died and he came by our home. I was sitting broken hearted on the front steps and he told me very honestly, that nothing he could say or do would help, so he'd just sit with me awhile. And he did. He gave me an appreciation of music that still drives me today. May he rest and peace and your family find comfort in precious memories that many of us hold so dear.

Mindy Downie

August 26, 2024

Mary and family, so thankful to have known Dennis as a colleague and friend. He was such a wonderful man! Praying for you all!

Phyllis Chittum

August 26, 2024

An absolutely amazing person. His talents transferred to his children 100%.
Beautiful family - beautiful person. Will definitely be missed.

David Crawford

August 26, 2024

Mary, I am sorry for your loss ,may God bless you and your family during this sorrow time.

bruce dowdy

August 25, 2024

Always admired Dennis from afar. He would "Stand his Ground" against those who did not have respect for his band members (ie. a football coach)!!

Perry Bailey

August 25, 2024

Sometimes his tough outside demeanor hid the truly kind and caring person he really was. Wonderful man to have known

Bill West

August 25, 2024

Mary,

So sorry for your loss.

Bill West

Beth Pitts Colonna

August 24, 2024

Sending my deepest condolences to you all.

Chris Ferree

August 23, 2024

I was in band with him from 8th grade to a jounior in high school. He was tough, but it made us tough too! We went on to three state championships. Not to mention all the festivals we won across the east coast and further. Honestly, we were better friends after band than during. He was anAWESOME man!

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